For The Ladies, From J. Cole: 5 Ways To Avoid Being A ‘Hit and Run’
On Cole’s first single, “Work Out,” the sly spitter gives his girl for right now the blunt deal to her query about being a ‘hit and run.’ Here he dishes advice on how to become a dude’s constant chick.
DO PUT CLASS BEFORE ASS
What J. Cole Says → For a woman to not be a hit and run you have to learn how to carry yourself. Don’t give off that energy for anyone to pick up. Even though a lotta times it will probably be on accident, pay attention to your eyes and clothing.
DON’T GET LEFT IN THE DARK
What J. Cole Says → Be clear and up front with your intentions. Even though it’s a hit and run, it’s still some type of relationship. Be honest and find out exactly what the person is looking.
DO WHIP YOUR BAG OUT
What J. Cole Says → If you pull all the tricks out, that can also make you somebody that’s at the top of his list. Don’t be scared of that, because then you’ll forever be at the front of his mind, instead of trying to play it cool.
DON’T ACT LIKE A MANNEQUIN
What J. Cole Says → Have something more to offer. Be a woman that he wants to call or see again. Have something more than just your body for him to want.