When Is It OK To Lie To A Friend?
--Some version of this question comes up almost daily on my Formspring feed where I mainly answer questions about dating/ relationships (16,000 questions answered and…
Leave Lace Front Wigs Alone!
Recently I attended a ritzy awards show for a women’s organization. I was speaking to a friend about something or another when she…
The Purity Myth
--Over the weekend, I stumbled across the trailer for "The Purity Myth," a documentary (available on DVD) based on author Jessica Valenti’s 2009 book of…
The Female Bromance: Girl Crushes
Every girl needs a girl crush. No, not the type that fills male sexual fantasies with two (or more) women romping around in their undies.
T.I. on Ride or Die Chicks
--Surely you’ve heard by now that in the year-end issue of VIBE, T.I. finally addressed 50 Cent (and others) who believed his wife, Tameka "Tiny"
The New “Real” Booty
I don’t usually go to the clubs. Not my thing. The last time I went a few months ago, the DJ was still shouting out…
Is Lil Kim Still Relevant?
From VIBE--Last week, Lil Kim hit up Kay Slay’s Streetsweeper Radio show on Shade 45 to throw another pebble in the ocean, this time…