The current guy I like is my best friend and I knew him for bout 6 years. Now I'm realizing that he has a girl and I can't mess with him, but I still do. We tell each other that we love each other more than friends. What should I do?
-The One The Only Miss Cutie
You should definitely keep the friendship rolling and when she slips; take the opportunity to find out if it's true love. All dudes tell girls they "L.O.V.E" them. Why? Because then, the "Legs Open Very Easy"!!! Be careful lil momma. Sometimes a relationship/commitment, messes things up. He might be a great friend but has a problem with commitment. To make a long story short, a friendship can last 4EVER but most relationships, marriages, engagements, etc. Don't last long at all!!!!!
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Hey wassup my fave sexy fellas! I love your music! I have a question 4 y'all!
I have a close friend that I've known 4 a while. He has always had da
type of personality were he felt like he had 2 be hard (GHANGSTA ALL DA TIME!!! LOL!) He is smart as a whip but just doesn't try. Basketball is his life & he wants 2 go pro later in life but we all know u have 2 be a student in order to be a athlete! He's into da wrong stuff (like smoking, drinking, gambling, & SELLING!!!) He talks about how he's gone drop out an how he's gone end up in jail or DEAD!!! And of course, I don't want that 4 him. I wanna see him happy and achieve everything he wants in life! He tells me stuff like how when he makes it 2 da NBA, he's gone give me everything, stuff like a Mercedes, Diamonds, THE WORLD! But I don't want the world! It's tru, I do like nice things - I stay rockin that House of Dereon, Dooney & Bourke, & Babyphat! But i just wanna see him do well! I really care about him, so what do I do?
- Monica, M-town, Al
First of all u need to make sure you get some
"P R E T T Y C L OT H I N G"
In your closet!!!
But anyways, if he's a goon and u his top girl, u should be holdin him down. Help him wit his studies, make him wanna do his work. Example. No goodies unless we knock yo work out!!! Ur the woman. U control everything. Remember that this thing is all about teamwork, so don't feel like u can't do a paper or 2 if that's going to help yall achieve yall goal of getting him to the pros one day! He can only have one "chick that's been there since day one" so hold down yo spot! If u don't another chick will. Especially if he really ballin on dat court. As far as him being in the streets. Try and spend more time wit him. Smother that boy with love and affection so he don't wanna go in the streets.
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Hey, what's up? My sex life sucks with my man. He doesn't want it often, wait he only wants it when he wants it. When I want it, I'll tell him or try to initiate it and he turns me down and says I'm tired or I'm sick or let's do it tomorrow night. Okay. So I'm past that one even though it bothers me, but now I have another issue - I've been thinking about with him, his sex is lame. He doesn't like foreplay. He won't touch a woman's private parts or go down on me. We get ready to have sex and he wants me to give him oral and then just be ready to have sex. I just asked him today if he has always been like that or if he had a bad experience and he said he just doesn't like it. What do I think or do about this? Do I just assume he's gay? Lol.
Some dudes just ain't got it in'em! Sex is a lifestyle. U need to get him a PRETTY RICKY album so the lyrics can subliminally sink into his head! Try getting some sex educational videos (pornos) and do everything they do! Like I always say, "The woman controls the relationship, men just think they do"! If he's slackin in that area, before you leave him or start cheating (which we all know is bout to happen if it ain't already)! Go and get some videos, get some toys, add some extra stuff into the equation and make it fun! He might feel embarrassed to get down like that but every dude wants to be a porn star! As far as the oral! Don't give him none and watch how quick he be sucking that pussy!
Men are weak when it comes to sex. Just take it away and he'll be puddy in ur hand doing everything u want him 2!
If that doesn't work our # is 786-258-6074! Pretty Ricky beat that pussy up!
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I dated this guy for a little over year. During the time we dated he was on house arrest. Eventually he had to go and do some time. Before he left I was promised marriage when he got out and took care of a few things. Later on I found out that the few things was his wife and child in another state. I really really love him and want to be with him, but I don't know what to do???
-Angele, Florence
WARNING! WARNING! SOUND THE ALARM!!!
Leave that cat alone! If he ain't keep it one huned wit you from the jump what makes you think he gone start! He already got a family so basically he lied to you by promising you marriage! You might love him, but I love candy and McDonalds! Neither one of them are healthy! Find you a man so u can be in a healthy relationship. A relationship should be fruitful and full of adventure. You can't experience anything with him that he hasn't already experienced with that "OTHER WOMAN". He already has a child, he's already married, HE LOVES HER! SEXES HER THE SAME AS YOU! Then u gotta worry about catching that die slow cause you know they ain't using protection! Don't listen to him telling you that they're not an item either! If that was the case, why didn't he tell you about her plus who cares! He lied to you anyway!
Relationships are built on:
LOVE
TRUST
HONOR
LOYALTY & SACRIFICE
Don't fall for it baby! Get out before you make a mistake you have to deal with for the rest of your life while he's off, with his "OTHER WOMAN"!!!
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I would like to know as a single mother of three daughters and having been married but not anymore do you think that there is a special way to deal with three girls so that they can have to best of both worlds - meaning their mother and father from me, as he is not in there life because he does not want to be? Their ages are from 13 to 7 if that helps any. I just want to be their mother, father, and best friend all in one and be there for my kids.
- Trina, Texas
Baby, you are everything to them! Your more than just mommy and daddy! Ur super mommy and daddy combined! Ur bigger than Santa Claus, sweeter than ice cream and the bestest bestest friend in the whole world to your girls!!! They love you and they know daddy ain't there but whateva. Yall still gone do it big! U make sure u do your best at raising them and no one can tell you "where or how" you went wrong because your doing your very best all by your self! Just make sure you are a good parent which means laying down the law sometimes! They are young but think back to when u were their age. You thought you were grown! LOL. So never feel scared to open the doors of communication with your daughters. Don't bash their father but let them know you are all they need! Yall are woman. Yall are going to stick together because you're all you got! If this doesn't motivate you, I'm moving to Texas! I'll be your baby's daddy! You can put me on child support and I'll gladly pay because you're a phenomenal woman! A wonderful, beautiful strong woman! You're a woman! The strongest beings on the face on the earth! Love you honey! Muuuuah! Kiss my babies for me.
As for our readers out there! All our sexy superstars! (We the groupies) I answered these questions butt naked on the balcony of my condo in sunny Miami, FL! I love yall. Right now I'm bout to get up swanging! LOL and go jump in my sexy studio and make some records for our new album "80s Babies" about everything we just talked about!
Muuuuah Luv ya! Holla at cha boooooooys!
Diamond Blue Smith
Need advice on your love life? You know Pretty Ricky can handle it. Email your questions to prettyricky@vibe.com.
Pretty Ricky's most recent album, Late Night Special, is in stores.
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strawberry1 says:
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They keepin it real with us yall.
April 23, 2008 at 9:20 pm
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missthychnes says:
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Yeah, I think your advice is good..But what about the real real ghood advice? ya feel me?
January 15, 2008 at 9:17 am
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strawberry1 says:
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Prety Ricky they give mad good advice cuz it makes me think about situations taht I go through. They tell the real deal.
January 13, 2008 at 9:35 pm
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strawberry1 says:
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Pretty Ricky is the hottest, sexiest group period. They are so cool.They make people smile, laugh. They show to all the fans. They are great. Thats why i miss them alot. Late night Special is the bomb cd. I love it so much. The leave me thinking lot. They keep it real. They tell it like it is. They are the best. I love pretty Ricky Especially Sexy Spectac.He is my #1 for life.
January 13, 2008 at 9:31 pm
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ITasha0585 says:
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hey u guys give good advice i hope you saw my wuestion and answered it thnx
January 13, 2008 at 9:26 am
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lala says:
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hey yall look so sexy on all of the plc
January 11, 2008 at 9:19 pm