January 04, 2008 @ 12:44 pm

Players and Lovemakers: Relationship Advice from Pretty Ricky

by: Pretty Ricky

Every Friday, hip hop R&B's expert lovermen answer all YOUR questions about the language of love. To submit a question, email prettyricky@vibe.com. This week: messing with celebrities, dudes who call too much, and making your girl feel special.

Hey hubby's (:
I got a question for ya'll.

Okay, around April I met a guy at the mall through one of my sister's friends. He started flirting with me & all, but I really wasn't into him. He'll say I was the most beautiful girl in the world, & that I was soo pretty all day. Then I don't know how, I started to like him more. He asked me out about 2 days later & I said yes. I really wouldn't see him much because he was a junior & I was in 8th. Around 3 or 4 weeks later, almost a month, I broke up with him. He got really annoying at times. He would call me or text me 24-7 (literally) & if I wouldn't have my phone at the time or wouldn't answer, he'll call my sister. But I knew we would've lasted a long time because I noticed he was really into me.

I couldn't stand him after. He'll always try talking to me but I really didn't care about it. And now that we're in the same school, I'm starting to think I like him again, & I don't know wat to do. Wat would you guys do if this happened to you ?

- Elizabeth, Miami (:

& by the way, I love you guys sooo much. Ever since grind on me first came out. Especially you spec (;

First of all, hi all my beautiful, gorgeous, immaculate, sexy, woman out there. Pretty Ricky are looking for wives and baby mommas to put us on child support so holla at cha boys when u read this. 2 the pretty ricky baby momma who wrote this message; if you did the same thing 2 us, we would just love u down and break you off! (Smile)
Pretty ricky don't run from girls. We handle that but your situation is a lil different. If buddy is on you like dat u need 2 let him no u ain't feeling him. If he can't understand that, holla back at cha boys on
myspace.com/PrettyRicky and we'll be out there putting buddy on his (beeeep!!!)
And tell yo sister my brother said whats up! LOL
Love ya shawty!!!! -Pretty Ricky

Hi Pretty Ricky,
This is a four-part question. Two weeks ago I ran into a celebrity football player, we spent the night  together but i refused to get sexual with him...we just fondled and  kissed etc...i especially refused to perform or receive any oral sex because I did not want to become one of his statistics or floozies. Anyway, the next morning he organized a cab for me and as soon as I got to my apartment he called to check up on me and said he would be seeing me around the Christmas period and that he would keep in touch, but he hasn't. I have tried once to contact him but he didn't answer my calls...I am an African so he was really in love with my accent (or so he said). I am wondering if you could break it down to me honestly... first off, do you think he will ever call?
Maybe he'll call if u cute enough. Most celebs live in the fast lane. They only talk to SO CALLED "top notch" chicks. All the cats out here ain't duggy like Pretty Ricky! We love all the ladies. Cater to all the ladies. Worship all the ladies....ya feel me! If u got a good personality maybe but 2 b honest; if he was trying 2 get them panty drawls on the first night and u weren't on his level of freakness; u probably turn him off in everyway because it was all bout the sex 2 him from the start. 

Secondly, should I wait for that period in which he said he would see me by or should I just go right ahead and contact him again? 
 Look here baby, ur a woman. A Pretty Ricky chick! Pretty Ricky chick don't sweat no dudes!!! If he don't call, that's his loss. U the baddest bitch, remember that!!!!

Thirdly, was it just meant to be a one-night stand of just sex so when it never happened he was put off?  
Most likely but don't get turned off from a night of fun. Most women follow the stereotypes of society which is totally male bias. Women are just as freaky as men and sometimes MOST times, more sensual than their companion. If u wanna get ya groove on just make sure you protect yourself. AIDS and HIV is real! HERPES is real. We don't want none of our Pretty Ricky chicks getting none of this bull from these sorry ass dudes out here.

And last, what is the real deal with celebrities and ordinary international ladies like myself? 
The exoticness of it turns men on! Every man has a fantasy girl and a woman from another country just brings him a step closer to bringing his fantasy to reality! -Pretty Ricky

Mr. 's Ricky,
I am 14 and I think that I am ready to start casual dating, but my  parents don't think I am ready now. Do you all think I should wait like my parents want, or with me being 14, I am old enough to casual date?
-Tommorra
You should definitely listen to ur parents. They only want the best for you. Most girls make the mistake of falling for young men at an early age. They talk to older guys because guys the same age as them are normally not as mature. (Girls mature faster than boys; which I'm sure u all know) Wait a lil while. If u do decide 2 start dating; be very careful. Keep that v card till Pretty Ricky come round and don't fall for none of his game.
Remember: it's all game!!! Take it from big bruh! -Pretty Ricky

Hi,
I just want to ask you a few questions.
Thank you,
Assiamah
1. How can i make my girlfriend feel happy everyday?
Do something special for her everyday. When ur out and u see flowers, buy em. Pick em, what eva, just get' em to her. It's the small things that count. Tell ur girl how beautiful she is constantly. Most girls have self-esteem problems. No matter how pretty or intelligent, they always find something wrong. Let them know how minute that particular thing is because if it was such a big deal she wouldn't have you!!!
Never let a morning go by without her waking up 2 ur voice. Never let a night go bye without her hearing the words "I LOVE YOU"! Don't say it if u don't mean it!
For more, check in next week partner. I think this should get u by for now.

2. How can i make a girl fall in love with me?
U can't make a girl fall in love, but what u can always do is be yourself and if it's meant 2 be it will be. U need a girl who loves you for you. A girl who worships the ground u walk on. Make sure when u find her u treat her the same.

3.Give me lovely words to get my girlfriend back?
Conversation is the key to every relationship. Talk to her and LISTEN! If you take the time to listen you will know everything you need to know. In a relationship, there's no room for pride.
Don't be afraid to admit ur wrong and never lie to your girl. They rather you tell them the truth than tell lies that ALWAYS come out.
LIES ALWAYS come out so don't even go that route. Be a real G and keep it gangsta wit ur chick. That'll keep u step ahead of these other cat that's trying to get her cause she KNOWS she can't trust them. They only want one thing!
Hope u can take the knowledge and keep it pimpin playa! - Pretty Ricky

Once again, ladies we love yall! That new Pretty Ricky album is coming sooner than later! We had that #1 album for 5 weeks straight so you know this album gone top the last one. We make that baby making music so PROTECT YOURSELF!!!! LOL
Luv yall, next week it is...
Muuuuuuah!
786-258-6074. If u wanna talk!

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