Don't be confused about men, he’s probably infatuated with the fact you’re bisexual
Dear Pretty Ricky,
I’m 16 and bisexual. I talk to this girl and she's wonderful but we’re more like best friends with a little extra if you know what I mean. Anyway, the problem is that around the time that I started talking to her, this really cute boy that I've had a crush on for a long time started flirting with me a lot but never straight out asked me for my number or anything. So the other day while I'm walking around school with her, (we were like arms around each other and the whole nine) he stops me and asks me for my number! I didn't give it to him right then but I did a few days later, after me and her got into an argument.
So he called, we talked, he was pretty cool, but right after we got off the phone she called and we made up! So a few days later her and me were posted up in the hallway and guess who walks past?! Neither of them have said anything about me talking to both but seeing both of them everyday and trying to spend time with both is stressful and it makes me feel bad but I don't know what to do!!!
missconfused_in2ways
Your girlfriend deserves your respect cause that's who you been with from the beginning. Now if she is down with being in a relationship with you and him that's a different story. She may like the idea . . . holla at her and see what she talking about. Don't be confused about men, he’s probably infatuated with the fact you’re bisexual. Still you should be upfront with both of them. And at the end of the day you call your own shots.
Dear Pretty Ricky,
My situation is that I’m talking to this guy who is older than me and we have a good friendship. The thing is that he is my friend’s ex-boyfriend and I feel bad because him and me did things friends shouldn’t do. SO PLEASE HELP!!!!!
Jasmine
Ask yourself whom you value more: him or your friend. And you'll know what to do.
Dear Pretty Ricky,
I have a problem. Me and my girlfriend (yes I’m gay) been together for a year and yes, I’m in love with her- she's been the best. But it’s [another] girl who [also] really likes her, even fallen in love with her, when she don’t even know her as much, and my girlfriend constantly telling me that she doesn’t have no feelings
for her, but one day I was in this girl’s class and her best friend showed me a text her and my girlfriend been texting about and it looks to me my girlfriend is leading her on. I ask her everyday what's it about and she say, “Nothing” and I feel like she's lying to me.
What should I do?
Felicia
It sounds like you already know all the answers. 1 + 1 always equals 2. In life always go with you instincts.
Hey Pretty Ricky
I was going out with this guy for about 9 months and we've known each other for a while. I broke up with him because I felt like he was a little too immature for my taste. But then after awhile I started
getting feelings for him again.
But this girl who use to have a crush on him while we was going together started talking to him, but me and him was still talking and thinking about getting back together, but then he got with her after he told me they didn't go together, leaving me looking used and played.
He seems like he still likes me. I know he does, and I still love him but he’s with this girl who really is a hoe and don't need to be with him.
I love him so much (I love u more Spec) and I really wanna get back with him, that girl does not deserve him. What do you think I should do?
Lakina Rena Jones
First off, you don't know what you have till it’s gone, remember that. You gotta get over it because it will never be the same. Even if you do get back together, he'll probably still have feelings for her and will remember that you left him. Now if you’re truly passionate about getting him back be a friend. Don't be a hater, but when you see her being a hoe, open his eyes to it. Just listen and give advice. When he sees her faults he'll come back. But be careful of what you wish for cause you did leave him for a reason.
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solady says:
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well im young and i think sexua things about yall n yall will b surpise what my age b but age aint shit but a # my mind n body is grown jus playn love yall
April 18, 2008 at 3:07 pm
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keke2fine says:
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i have a problem im 16 and my last boi friend broke my heart he cheated on me and he keeps flirtin wit me ihe keep playin like he dont luv me i dont know wat 2 do . im confuse im tryin to leave him alone wat should i do
April 10, 2008 at 2:04 pm
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Chanti says:
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ay gyal dem,wah pop wit dah bisexual ish n.e. ways im juss sayin wat eva u think is right ....do that!
March 20, 2008 at 11:46 pm
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lala says:
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i do not think deening bisexual is a problem if u wont to de bisexual then thats u do u
March 20, 2008 at 7:54 am