March 24, 2008 @ 7:56 pm

Players and Lovemakers: Pretty Ricky Answers Your Love Questions

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This week, Pretty Ricky advises a strong-willed girl who likes to take charge, and reveal their favorite sexual positions.

Sex in the water is really overrated- make sure you’re careful cause the rubber might slip.


Dear Pretty Ricky,

Yesterday I found out that my friend went out with my ex-boyfriend. I was so upset because we were going to go back together and he just went with her. I was heart broken; now he act as if I’m not there. What do I do?

Destiny
Miami, Florida


P.S. I love you Spectacular so much you mean the world to me. Can you make me feel better?

You need to leave both of them alone. She's obviously not a real friend because for them to be together now means they were most likely messing around behind your back. Go with your instincts, you know what time it is.

You don't need deceitful, dishonest, unloyal, or untrustworthy people in your life trust me. Once he sees you’re not chasing him no more, or paying him any attention, he'll come knocking.


Dear Pretty Ricky,

First off, I’m going to give a shout-out to y'all because you guys are my favorite group ever!

My question is about this guy I've been talking to for a month. He's sweet and all, and I know he's into me, but for some reason the man won't make a move! He said he's into taking things slow since things didn't go so well with his last shawty. But this is too slow.

And get ready: we haven't even kissed yet. I'm talking, he ain't even KISSED ME ON THE CHEEK! I'm starting to get frustrated, and the longer this goes on the less I want to get with him. I thought I'd ask y'all since you seem o know your stuff.

If he hasn't even touched my lips, I know the guy won't go down there! And if that's the case, why bother? A girl's got to get her pleasure! Sex isn't everything, but it damn sure is a lot. How do I get this fool to get physical?

Mereeka


LOL! Females all over the country say men never wait, but now when you find one that does, you want to start tripping. If you respect him enough you'll wait until he's ready! LMAO, that's what a girl told me last night. But for real, you seem like you take charge and know what you want from a man. Why wait for him to make the first move? He might be intimidated by you. If you have your mind set, you should just go for it. But BEWARE: he might be running game on you.

Dear Pretty Ricky,

There is this boy that I like and he likes me. We don’t go together because he went with my friend, Nicole. Do you think I would be doing Nicole wrong if I went with this boy?

Dominique Shields


Nah shawty, that's against the code, if anything you’re supposed to put your homegirl up on game. Boys always want to fuck everything walking so don't make yourself a statistic and another notch on that nigga’s belt. Just remember men come and go, but real friends don't come that easy.

Dear Pretty Ricky,

My man and me have done and are planning to do a lot in the bed/ on the couch/ in the gas station bathroom, etc.  I was wondering if you have any more ideas for us.  It's obvious that you don’t know specifics, but just please think of ways to spice up sex for veterans.

Your input will be greatly appreciated,
Akilah



There are millions of ways to spice up your sex life. You should try role-playing. You could wear costumes and pretend to be other people. Try the trick and the prostitute. Tell him to talk nasty to you and make him pay you when you’re done. LOL… You'll have a blast. You can also make love with the blinds open, on a balcony, or even on a rooftop. Get crazy with it. Perform oral sex while he's driving. Ya’ll can even invite friends and family over to the crib then slip away to make love in the closet. Make a bunch of noise and have everyone outside wondering what the fuck is going on! They'll really be jealous of your sex life then. Sex on the beach is always exciting cause every two seconds you got to look over your shoulder worrying about if the police going to catch you or not.

And P.S. If someone is walking by that's not the po-po keep on going. It'll make the climax SO much greater. Here's another tip from ya boy Blue: sex in the water is really overrated- make sure you’re careful cause the rubber might slip. So basically, to sum it all up, the key to great sex outdoors is the risk of getting caught. I want you to start making a checklist of every public place you can think of, and by the time you’re finished he's going to be sprung.


Now, for all y’all lames out there who think we (Pretty Ricky) use the words fuck, sex, or making love too much the new word is SHONIN!!!

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Need advice on your love life? You know Pretty Ricky can handle it. Email your questions to prettyricky@vibe.com.

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