If you are the real deal then why does he has to fuck around with other chicks?
Dear Pretty Ricky,
Me and my man been together for almost two years now., but we've been breaking up and making up.. He tells me that he's been seeing girls on the side just because he's out of the country and he still wants me to be down with him through everything. I don't understand what he means by "play your part." He's telling me they're just hoes and I'm the real deal. I'm confused about what to do. Help me figure this one out!
-Brianna
When he says, “play your part” he is saying to keep doing what you do to make him happy and don't trip about the other bitches because you are the one he gives a damn about; you are wifey but while he's in another country he has to have his needs met.
Well, if you are the real deal then why does he has to fuck around with other chicks? But at the end of the day the decision is yours. If you can deal with him fucking hoes as long as you are the main chick then vibe, but if you can't deal with the pressure then step because dudes come a dime a dozen. Also, if you do decide to stay with him make sure you stay using protection because you don't know what he is doing with them, quote on quote “hoes.” AIDS is real.
Dear Pretty Ricky,
After you have your heart broken a lot, how do you find love again?
-Anonymous
You find love again by not looking for it. Let love find you.
Dear Pretty Ricky,
I went out with this guy for just over a year and he was really sweet. We wanted to get married but then he wanted to become more "religious" so he had to break up with me...then we hardly talked. Now I think he's not so religious- he called me again and it was just like it used to be. He said he thinks he loves me but three days later he said he just thinks of me as a friend. He hasn't called me since. How can I get him back?
-Kiran
Honestly, I think dude was playing you from the start. How does he go from marriage, to wanting to become more religious, to just being friends? Either he has a new chick or he just isn't feeling you. Don't try to get him back. If he loves you, he will come for you. I think you should just chill and leave the decision up to him because you didn't do anything wrong so why should you have to convince him to come back?
Dear Pretty Ricky,
I just met a boy and I'm starting to like him but I'm in a relationship with somebody already. I keep thinking about the new boy! I mean I don't know if I should dump my dude for him because we flirt and I think I love him. What should I do?
-Deddy Pleasant
I'm going to give you two options to Run with (you make the choice)
Option A: If you and your man’s relationship means anything to you don't fuck it up because you can end up playing yourself. Don't leave your man for a boy you know nothing about. For all you know, he could have a bitch on the side or he can be a nightmare. Stick with what you have because you already know what you working with. Learn the eighty twenty rule: your eighty is your main squeeze and your twenty is just a fling, nothing serious.
Option B. You can keep messing with buddy until you figure him out and then decide if he is what you want. Matter of fact, date both of them.
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