July 02, 2008 @ 1:19 pm

Players and Lovemakers: Pretty Ricky Answers Your Love Questions

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R&B's expert lovermen answer your questions about relationships, break-ups, casual dating, that wild freaknik ish, and everything else under the sun. To submit a question, email prettyricky@vibe.com

Niggas come a dime a dozen, they are like bus stops it’s one on every corner.


Dear Pretty Ricky,

I’ve been going with this dude for like 8-months and at first our relationship was tight as it could be but now it’s like we’re growing further apart everyday. I don’t know what to do because he keeps saying everything’s okay but I don’t think they are and I don’t want to think he’s talking to another girl or anything but that’s kind of hard to do when he is never home. When I call he always says, “Call me back” or whatever. What do you think I should do?

Josie Stephens


First of all, if space is what he wants give his ass space. Stop calling and chasing him, do yo’ thang because it sounds as if that is what he is doing. Eventually he will come to his senses and if not fuck him. Niggas come a dime a dozen, they are like bus stops it’s one on every corner.

Dear Pretty Ricky,

I’ve been with this guy for 4-years and we have a 22-month-old son. I love him but he does stupid shit to irritate me. I want to stay but I think he’s cheating on me. What should I do?

Niecey


If he keep doing stupid shit then you need to check ol’ boy, give him a warning or a lil hint to let him know you think he is cheating. And if he doesn’t change take yo’ shawty and bounce.

Dear Pretty Ricky,

What do you do when you start talking to someone whom you only consider a friend, then the flirting starts and you start to catch feelings for this person but they let you know that ya’ll are just friends?

Anonymous

If ol’ boy is flirting with you and telling you that ya’ll are just friends then he just trying to run game so that he can just hit and keep it moving. Basically, just back off. If “friends” is what he wants, then that’s how you should treat him: like a friend, no flirting, keep everything basic treat him like you would treat your homegirls. Then before you know it, he will be chasing you. Don’t make it convenient for him to play by your rules.

Dear Pretty Ricky,

Hi, I’m a 27-year-old man that’s in love with a married woman. She’s 29-years-old.  She has kids and my daughter is now deceased since the weekend before Thanksgiving of last year. I’ve known her 5-years before she got married, and we were just friends. But when they started having problems she would come to me and asking me things like, “Why doesn’t he do what you do for me?” What should I do in this situation?

Anonymous


First off we would like to send our greatest sympathy for the lost of your daughter. Second, if the feelings are not mutual you should fall back and remain her friend, however if she wants more than a friendship she will let you know . Since she is married and you are aware of the situation then the choice should be hers if she wants you she will let u know. Just continue to do what you doing because obviously she likes it and eventually she will realize you are the one for her.

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where is the dude that look like fiddy cent? i thought it was the slim red dude that bounced. anyhow, this was cool.

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I just stopped by to say I Loooove you Slick Em Hound.
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"See you when I see you.....Peace"
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