5 Reasons You Shouldn’t Be Threatened By Your Man’s Female Best Friend
Have you ever dated someone and he drops that daunting news that aside from his mother or siblings, you aren’t the only lady in his life?
His best friend just so happens to be a female. As horror-filled as that tidbit of information may sound (because you’ve probably watched Brown Sugar too many times!), your boo’s female bestie may not be as scary as you think. There are tons of reasons for you to be threatened by his “sister,” but there are also reasons why she’s not so threatening.
1. You are confident and secure in your position…
Confidence is a trait that is and will always be sexy. When you are confident in yourself, it is seen throughout the relationship. You won’t have to worry about any makeshift interferences or those endless stories your girlfriends put into your head. If you’re secure in your position, his female best friend isn’t as big a threat as she may seem.
His best friend just so happens to be a female. As horror-filled as that tidbit of information may sound (because you’ve probably watched Brown Sugar too many times!), your boo’s female bestie may not be as scary as you think. There are tons of reasons for you to be threatened by his “sister,” but there are also reasons why she’s not so threatening.
1. You are confident and secure in your position…
Confidence is a trait that is and will always be sexy. When you are confident in yourself, it is seen throughout the relationship. You won’t have to worry about any makeshift interferences or those endless stories your girlfriends put into your head. If you’re secure in your position, his female best friend isn’t as big a threat as she may seem.
2. She’s in a relationship of her own…
This can be considered a free pass. If your significant other’s female bestie has a boyfriend, her time and attention is being occupied by someone else. No need to wonder if she’s “too close” to your man. You can eliminate a lot of questions or what-if scenarios after and even enjoy a few double dates.
This can be considered a free pass. If your significant other’s female bestie has a boyfriend, her time and attention is being occupied by someone else. No need to wonder if she’s “too close” to your man. You can eliminate a lot of questions or what-if scenarios after and even enjoy a few double dates.
3. You have a male best friend…
If you have a close guy pal, you can’t be hypocritical about his friendship with “her.” You have to look at his relationship, just like you look at yours–strictly platonic.
Read on at VIBE Vixen.
If you have a close guy pal, you can’t be hypocritical about his friendship with “her.” You have to look at his relationship, just like you look at yours–strictly platonic.
Read on at VIBE Vixen.
