3. If you hear anything about me, bring it to me before you react to it.
Don't take the word of people who may not know me or that pretend to know me. You're supposed to know me better than they do, so why are you listening to what they're saying? Whatever you hear about me or about our relationship, come and bring it to me and hear what I have to say about it directly from the horse's mouth. People are always trying to pretend they have a relationship with me and what happens is that some of my actual relationships get ruined because of it. Those kinds of things can be cleared up, though, if you just bring them to me and ask me about them. We can work it out.