Most people fear rejection however, it's a part of life that can't be avoided. Once you get past accept that fact you will also realize that every door closed is a learning experience and a step forward in the right direction. When Chilli discovered that Raphael hadn't been truthful with her, she was hurt because she really liked him but she also nipped the drama in the bud early by being cordial and keeping it moving. Bottom line, get over it and do it better the next time.
It’s a touchy subject but the best thing about interracial dating is that you get exposed to new cultures. Even if the relationship doesn’t work out, hopefully you’ll walk away with a new and positive perspective on different races of people because at the end of the day, we all bleed blood and eat food right? The first step toward world peace is having an open mind and being willing to try something new. You never know, your next boo might not be anything like what you imagined but you you'd never know that unless you give people a chance. Think about the Law of Averages, if you do something enough then the inevitable is going to happen. In terms of dating, the more people you are open to seeing, the more likely it is you will find the one (or the one for right now if you’re not trying to settle).
Are you afraid of Internet dating? Do you turn your nose up at singles mixers? If so, It’s time to get over it and just do it. No one said you had to marry the person. It’s just an experience. This applies to anything you're afraid of trying in general. Get over your fear of change and try a new approach.
If you’re always hanging out at that one club where you only seem to encounter losers, chances are you need to get out more. Try shopping in a new neighborhood or changing up your bar/lounge scene every few days. You could even take a page from Chilli's book and go to a salsa club if you're usually into hip-hop or vice versa.