11) Mary J. Blige “Not Gon’ Cry” (1996)
Album: Share My World
Ball Buster: "Eleven years out of my life/Besides the kids I have nothing to show/Wasted my years, a fool of a wife/I shoulda left yo' ass a long time ago"
Even though we didn't rank this as number one, there is no dispute that this Waiting To Exhale feature is an all-time classic. The Queen of Hip-Hop Soul uses the film's storyline as inspiration for this song that mirrors the exact sentiment of a woman scorned. Maybe Mary doesn't necessarily bash her husband of eleven years in this Babyface record, but any guy will feel a tinge of guilt as this lady sings the blues.