How could you not remember this one! But what you didn't know was that there’s a back story you didn’t see on TV. Watch the clip and see what Kandi had to say about what viewers didn’t know about why her mom really went off.
Kandi's Take:The thing with ReDICKulous—my mother wasn’t mad about it being a stripper. She was mad because it was men and women at the party and she felt it shouldn’t have been a stripper at that place. What happened was, I had a real birthday party with my real friends, meaning me, Tiny, Toya, Phaedra was there and some of my friends that aren’t celebs. It was a small group of girls and they got me a party bus and Phaedra brought him as the surprise on the bus and it was all girls. I had went back and told everybody how fun it was so I guess the show was trying to recreate my birthday and they had Phaedra bring the stripper to the birthday party that they did for everybody, but the thing about it is, I didn’t know they were gonna have a stripper and my momma didn’t know either because it was men and women at the party. She was just like, “How the hell they gonna tell me to come over and sit by you knowing they were going to bring this dude out here and these other men are here?” She feels like women shouldn’t act like that when men are around. She feels like if it’s cool if it’s just you and your girls and y’all having a girl’s night out and you have a stripper or whatever but not if you’re having men there.