Slim Thug: 'Black Women Need To Stand By Their Man More'
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Posted 6-7-2010 12:08 pm
The way Black people think in general is messed up. Both men and women need to change their way of thinking. It’s hard to trust a Black woman [sometimes] because a lot of Black women’s mind frame is that the man gotta do everything for her⎯ he gotta pay for this, he gotta pay for that, and if it ain’t about money then a lot of them ain’t fucking with him. If that’s what you’re here for then I don’t want to be with you.
Most single Black women feel like they don’t want to settle for less. Their standards are too high right now. They have to understand that successful Black men are kind of extinct. We’re important. It’s hard to find us so Black women have to bow down and let it be known that they gotta start working hard; they gotta start cooking and being down for they man more. They can’t just be running around with their head up in the air and passing all of us.
I have a brother that dates a White woman and he always be fucking with me about it saying, “Y’all gotta go through all that shit [but] my White woman is fine. She don’t give me no problems, she do whatever I say and y’all gotta do all that arguing and fighting and worry about all this other shit.”
My girl is Black and White. I guess the half White in her is where she still cooks and do all the shit that I say, so we make it. She just takes care of me and I like that. She don’t be begging and I don’t gotta buy her all this crazy ass shit. And she’s a smart girl too. She graduated from Columbia [University] and I like that about her so it’s cool. I’ve dated girls that will buy a $3,000 bag and don’t know how to pay it off on their credit cards. They walk around in these Louis Vuittons and red bottoms but they’re riding around in raggedy cars, so it’s just getting your priorities right.
White women treat they man like a king and Black women feel like they ain’t gotta do that shit. Black women need to stand by their man more. Don’t always put the pressure of if I’m fucking with you, you gotta buy me this and that. Black men are the ones that motherfuckers need [but] I think a lot of them need to step it up too. A Black man who gets a little bread will go make it rain in the club and be broke the next day or instead of him going to invest in a business he gonna go buy new jewelry or a new car and still live in the hood. Black peoples’ mentality is real fucked up in general [and] it’s affecting everything.
Black women need to be more genuine and be more 50/50 [but] It should be a fair exchange in a relationship period or eventually somebody is gonna feel like they’re getting fucked over whether it’s the woman or the man. I think that will help Black relationships out a lot. ⎯As Told To Starrene Rhett
HEAR THE AUDIO HERE
- Regina King: More Black Women Should Date Outside Their Race
- Battle Of The Sexes: Bloggers Debate Slim Thug's Blog About Black Women
- A Woman's Side: Aubrey O'Day, D. Woods Respond To Slim Thug
- A Man's Side: Talib Kweli Responds To Slim Thug
- Chilli's Blog: All Women Should Have High Standards
Comments 601
AAron says: There are men like Bun B we need to let white women have. No need to generalize all black women your mother must be proud. I am a black women who pay my bill and I have a great black king that helps. You dont have any problem giving the white groopies all they heart desire but the minute a black women expects a little something we gold diggers. There are way more white groopies than black in all aspects when there is mmoney involved but all you say is she is getting her hussle on. How about checking the color of your skin and telling your mother your sorry for being low lifeted.
Posted 06-07-2010 02:07 pm
DAKEMIST says: Well I feel the same as Slim but what most women do when told this is flip the story he didnt just say women need to change we both do but the point is tv and radio is destroying black people. Women see these successful men and they think that they deserve all that comes with being with a successful man. What they forget is that there is or was a woman who helped him get there. Point being they see a regular guy and think oh what can he do for me instead of ever really knowing a person. Women are so emotional and sneaky they may love you one second and get you locked up the next. See black women are good at flipping situations and making it fit in there mind look at Rihanna but the man will always be looked at as wrong. And so far as generalizing if his mother sees the way women today think she probably is glad he can see it!! You must be the exception but probably not because you think that the way these women are acting is right
Posted 06-07-2010 06:33 pm
Brittney says: I as well am a black woman who takes care of myself and my family along with a good man who helps me. The problem I have is the general terms used in his interview. There are just as many black women who are "standing by their man" too much as there are those that are just looking for wat they can get without giving much. We deal with men in prison, broke hustlers and men who have no plans of ever working and plan on living off thier mothers and baby mamas for life everyday. We work 2 jobs, go to work and school and do whatever we have to do to take care of our children while some black men lay at the house. I aint saying that there isnt truth to what Slim said but I dont at all think its fair to say that white women are better than black women in general. White women invented gold digging back when our mothers were broke in the hood with our daddys standing by them through, crack and every other obsticle the white man has put in front of our people. Now because some of us saw what our mothers went through we want to better ourselves and wont settle for a man who doesnt want to better his self we all gold diggers. I can say I am big fan of rap and was a fan of Slim Thug but I can say I wont purchase another Slim Thug or affiliated CD ever again.
Posted 06-07-2010 10:21 pm
Shine says: GOOD LORD ppl... HE NEVER SAID, BLK. WOMEN are worse than WHT. WOMEN.. All he did was a POINT of what happens every dammm day with MEN AS WELL AS WOMEN.. NATURALLY, he said 1 thing and SISTA's heard what they wanted to hear. You dont see no dudes writing in pitch'n a B!^#. Cause we can understand his view from both sides. "MEN AS WELL AS WOMEN"
Posted 06-08-2010 01:28 am
Cookie says: ~CAN YOU READ WHAT PART YOU DIDN"T SEE ???? Black woman.... LET'S SEE HOW MANY TIMES YOU CAN COUNT THE WORDS "Black woman" IN JUST THE PART i HAVE HERE.... AND EVEN WHEN HE TALKS ABOUT HIS GIRL BEING HALF BLK(WHICH TO HIM IS THE DUMB SIDE) WHITE WHICH TO HIM IT THE GET YOUR AZZ AND DO WHAT I SAY, WHEN I SAY IT
lOK MAYBE YOU NEED TO REREAD IT AGAIN......
The way Black people think in general is messed up. Both men and women need to change their way of thinking. It’s hard to trust a Black woman [sometimes] because a lot of Black women’s mind frame is that the man gotta do everything for her⎯ he gotta pay for this, he gotta pay for that, and if it ain’t about money then a lot of them ain’t fucking with him. If that’s what you’re here for then I don’t want to be with you.
Most single Black women feel like they don’t want to settle for less. Their standards are too high right now. They have to understand that successful Black men are kind of extinct. We’re important. It’s hard to find us so Black women have to bow down and let it be known that they gotta start working hard; they gotta start cooking and being down for they man more. They can’t just be running around with their head up in the air and passing all of us.
I have a brother that dates a White woman and he always be fucking with me about it saying, “Y’all gotta go through all that shit [but] my White woman is fine. She don’t give me no problems, she do whatever I say and y’all gotta do all that arguing and fighting and worry about all this other shit.”
My girl is Black and White. I guess the half White in her is where she still cooks and do all the shit that I say, so we make it. She just takes care of me and I like that. She don’t be begging and I don’t gotta buy her all this crazy ass shit. And she’s a smart girl too. She graduated from Columbia [University] and I like that about her so it’s cool. I’ve dated girls that will buy a $3,000 bag and don’t know how to pay it off on their credit cards. They walk around in these Louis Vuittons and red bottoms but they’re riding around in raggedy cars, so it’s just getting your priorities right.
White women treat they man like a king and Black women feel like they ain’t gotta do that shit. Black women need to stand by their man more. Don’t always put the pressure of if I’m fucking with you, you gotta buy me this and that.
Posted 06-08-2010 04:00 am
Cookie says: Cookie says: ~CAN YOU READ WHAT PART YOU DIDN"T SEE ???? Black woman.... LET'S SEE HOW MANY TIMES YOU CAN COUNT THE WORDS "Black woman" IN JUST IN THE 3 PART AND EVEN WHEN HE TALKS ABOUT HIS GIRL BEING HALF BLK(WHICH TO HIM IS THE GOLD DIGGER SIDE)
WHITE WHICH TO HIM IT THE GET YOUR AZZ UP AND DO WHAT I SAY, WHEN I SAY IT TYPE OF DUMB WOMEN(no matter what color you are) ~WHICH BY THE WAY I'M HALF BLACK AND WHITE ...THAT DOOR DOSE NOT FLOW WITH ME '...THE WAY I SEE IT WE ARE BOTH ARE GROWN PARTERS AND WE NEED TO BE THERE FOR EACH OTHER.... THAT IS REAL LOVE AND NOT TO FEEL LIKE LITTLE KIDS ON BOTH SIDE... BUT WHAT I HEAR FROM SOME SO CALL BLACK MEN SAY ABOUT BLACK WOMEN, MOST OF THEM WILL NOT PUT UP WITH YOUR MESS FOR FREE...LIKE HAD TO DO IN THE PAST AND SOME BLACK MEN SAY THAT WHITE WILL ...WHILE HE STACK UP HIS $$$$ ... BUT WHAT SOME BLACK MEN DONT KNOW IS, LET THEM WHITE WOMEN HAVE A KID BY HIM AND SHE WILL GETTTTT ALL HIS$$$$$$ THEN!!!!!
Posted 06-08-2010 04:19 am
blaze says: Slim Thug is just a big, retarded rapper. He can have all the white women he wants.
Posted 06-08-2010 04:56 pm
DeeDee says: Selective hearing, sounds like something a man is good for. You can sit on this computer and take up for this ignorant fool all you want to, if he wasn't a rapper what and who would he be? Men sit and spend all their money on rims and trying to fix up their cars did he say that about black men did he balance the whole conversation out or did he just point out what he didn't like about the black women he have encountered but said ALL basically black women?
Posted 06-08-2010 06:30 am
E_DUB says: He actually did comment on Black men but you were so ready to comment on what you summarized instead of paying attention. Be sure when you comment and make the blanket statements you made, you don't make a fool of yourself... think before you speak or you're just as "ignorant" as the person you just called ignorant. Do you know him well enough to question who or what he would be if he wasn't rapping, who knows what he may doing if he wasn't but him.
" Black men are the ones that motherfuckers need [but] I think a lot of them need to step it up too. A Black man who gets a little bread will go make it rain in the club and be broke the next day or instead of him going to invest in a business he gonna go buy new jewelry or a new car and still live in the hood."-Slimm Thug
Posted 06-08-2010 10:28 am
Brandy says: Well I read the whole article and yeah, he did touch on how black men need to step it up, but WHAT HE SAID WAS that black women are goldiggers that don't appreciate black men, they expect too much, and they asses are not willing to do anything to get it. They get they shit and don't want to share with the black men. Black women are lazy and disrespectful, and a white woman can do much better, White women know their place and they're even smarter, my white woman went to college! By the way, we black men don't always make good choices with our money, and maybe I can see how we fuck up sometimes, but black women need to understand that it's 50/50.... Now what is not being understood by the people defending this is that he didn't start off by saying black men and women, the whole point of his article was about how black women expect too much. Let's keep it real. If any of us feed into this bullshit, then we will fail as black people. Don't let this nigga divide black men and women. I love me a black man and would not accept anything less. XOXOXO!!!
Posted 06-08-2010 07:04 pm
Double D says: WHAT HE SAID WAS that black women are goldiggers that don't appreciate black men, they expect too much, and they asses are not willing to do anything to get it. They get they shit and don't want to share with the black men. Black women are lazy and disrespectful, and a white woman can do much better, White women know their place and they're even smarter, my white woman went to college! By the way.
You must read the wrong article. I didn't see all the above in the article. What I see is you reading the article and showing what you got from it. And you make a great point. The point of his article was about how black women expect too much, but he made a point to say some black men faults too. Maybe some of his wording should be different but if you read with understanding, you'll see the point he's trying to make.
Look at it as a whole and not just as a black woman being attacked. look at it as a black person. It's funny how Bill Cosby can have summits just totally disrespecting black men and I don't any black women speaking out against the things he say. They just take it all in just because he's Bill Cosby. that man was just making a point as a whole.
Posted 06-10-2010 11:12 am
Tore says: Slum Thug, had to be high when he said, "Black peoples’ mentality is real fucked up in general [and] it’s affecting everything".What was he thinking?
Posted 06-19-2010 03:15 am
Rae2312 says: Double D are you really serious? Did you state "black women are gold diggers that don't appreciate black men..."? WOW! The problem at hand is that we as black people do nothing but knock each other down! How can any one person, rapper or not, sit back and generalize our own race? That's the main problem that we need to be focusing on. I am pretty sure that other races have similar problems as well but do you see them sitting back and disrespecting one another like we are here. No, because they are sitting back and laughing at how ignorant the black race is! This is sad and pitiful! So now just because black women expect their men to have this and that, they are "expecting too much"! First of all, nothing shouldn't be "too much" for you to conquer! Now granted there are women out there that do want something for nothing but realistically is that the entire black woman population? I think not but that's the message you all are sending out with these generalizations! Now what do you have to say to the black women that are very successful out there and doing something but wants a man of the same statue to step up to the plate? Now is she wanting "too much" too? She still has to settle or should I say "bow down" as Slim Thug stated. I really think this whole conversation shows a level of maturity that is very explanatory because any sane, mature person would know you don't make generalization based off your own personal experiences, unless you can say you've been around the world like that with all the black women here, then that would have something else to say about you. Now, instead of black men beating down THEIR women...do some research to understand the actions of a black woman. From slavery to now black women have had to endure alot, so there are reasonings behind them wanting a black man of a certain statue. Sit back and have an educated conversation with a black women and get to the root of the problem. Try to help those black women you are referring to understand their wrong doings instead of knocking down the whole population! That's just like black women making a generalized statement about "black men being dogs, cheaters, low lives and dead beat fathers so let me just go out and date a white man, someone with security and that would take care of his business"! These type of comments are just foolish! I honestly can't believe we think like this about one another...wait yes I can because we have been beating each other down for years but I don't understand why we can't rise above such foolishness! Shame!
Posted 06-25-2010 10:33 am
renee says: I truely feel you on your comment the only one i can say had some commonsense to the matter at hand.Yes it is a sad day to see our black men continue to downgrade us black women.I'm no lazy ,lost gold diggin female i just want it all like the next.Like my self i'm strong-minded, keep it real black woman that has stood on her two feet to provide for my two kids and my adopted niece.No race is no better than the next we all have come into this world with burdens and disfunctional situations.Nevertheless,i rather not carry that hatred in my heart towards black men regardless how some men have showed us black women as well they are lost without a cause.I pray our black genaration would have more unity than what has been showed on t.v. to magazines to our own households.
Posted 07-30-2010 01:05 pm
Al says: Hey E_DUB you are right! Thanks for steppin up and defending the man. Why do black women hate to hear the truth; I don't Know...
Posted 06-11-2010 11:10 am
Zap says: Men usually by cars to impress the woman. My ex-girl left me when she thought that I lost my car but what she didn't know is that I had it in the shop getting pimped out. Once she found out that I had pimped it out, she wanted to act like she never dissed me and get back with me. Too late.
Posted 06-08-2010 03:34 pm
JAYE1982 says: Your ex was an idiot and you didnt need her anyway!! These type of women make it too hard for a real woman. The majority of the female population could care less if you have brand new G35! Most of us dont know the difference between 24 in and 26in rims. Is it clean. Do you take care of it. Those are most important to real women.. little girls are wrapped up in "stuff"! So she did u a favor trust!!
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Posted 07-23-2010 07:16 pm
AKissFromDaddy says: I understand where this article can display all white women as being better than black women are and that is unfair. In addition, you do not have to deal with men who do not share the same interest, goals, and values that you do. I will not comment on who invented gold digging because I doubt anyone knows. Nevertheless, being a fan of an entertainer and then pulling your support from them because you disagree with their views is foolish, vengeful, and frightens other entertainers from sharing their opinions on other issues in fear that others will do what you have written towards the end. Threatening entertainers instead of understanding their standpoints or simply disagreeing, robs them of their first Amendment right and that is unjust.
Posted 06-08-2010 03:11 pm
NuNu says: Kill that noise AKissFromDaddy, Silm Thug said what he said and thats just point blank. But that asshole had no business saying anything about any race of women, he is a cheating ass bastard who got another chick pregnant while being in a relationship with Latoya L!! So this fake as rapper can kick rocks and blow it out of his ass, he's just another cheating ass black man that thinks the world revolves around him because he has a few pennies!!
So Fuck Slim Thug he's shit gets no play anyway.
Posted 06-08-2010 05:41 pm
peaches10 says: NuNu well said thank u
Posted 06-09-2010 12:45 am
beverly says: WTF is he talking about, he and his so called friend that likes white women should always remember, that one day that bitch is going to call you a nigger, steal your money, and run back to the white man, then you are going to get mad and want to OJ her ass. Then who would you turn to? Who do you think would have your back? The same black women who you are putting down. Talking like you are some kind of expert, when you, your self had nothing, if it wasnt for rap music your trap would be shut, you would not have a fucking thing to say.
Posted 06-13-2010 01:17 am
ScaryB says: "pulling your support from them because you disagree with their views is foolish, vengeful, and frightens other entertainers from sharing their opinions"
If you step outside your box and say some foolish shit like this, you run the risk of losing fans. That's just life. He went from being an entertainer to trying to be some kind of relationship coach or some shit and either it will help him or hurt him. He'll never get my support.
Posted 06-09-2010 07:46 am
Brittney says: U damn fool. Supporting a rapper who has made it clear that he has no respect for blk women in general would be dumb. I choose who I give my money 2. That doesnt say that I would hate on his music if I heard it. It means that I would not spend my hard earned money on it. Maybe he should market it to the white women who he supports. He can say watever he wants I havent done anything to take away his rights. U must think he can take away my rights to spend my money on what I want. And white women are taught to marry well from day one, hell most of their monthers did why dont u think they would teach their daughters to do the same. At the same time most of our mothers were broke in the hood because they got knocked up but some roke man who chooses not to take care of her or the child. Or they were standing by their good black man that didnt make much but loved his family. I guess we was gold-digging in slavery...Thats why we are just catching up to some of the ideas of whites...slavery set us back 100 years.
Posted 06-09-2010 10:07 am
dennis says: with alot of black women ive noticed you get offended to easy...and with that you blind yourself from the truth...far from all, just a hell of a lot...if you no deep down he's not talking about you,you have nothing to worry about...what i will say for every stereotype out there,there is a high percentage of truth
Posted 06-09-2010 05:20 pm
didi says: Just because we know "deep down that he's not talking about" us doesnt mean everyone reading his comments know that. unfortunatly black entertainers are our only representation to the world. so when a rapper makes comments like this, suburban white kids, uneducated black kids, and people of different races who have no communication w/any black people will take these comments as truth and generalize a whole race of women. So when we (meaning black women) hear/read these articles about "us", its almost impossible to not be offended by it. Because although there may be some women out there who resemble the behavior he's referring to, the majority of us do not. But the rest of the world will never know that because the people who were "chosen" to speak for us would rather kiss up to the white women and berate the black woman.
Posted 06-10-2010 02:43 pm
Van says: I don't know what source you got your statistics from concerning stereo types, but the comment he made is far from the truth.Much like other races women, black women were taught to be caring and nuture their men. Allow me to give you some insight on being a black woman. as I've previously stated in another forum, black women are the most devalued and unappreciated people in the world, born with two strikes. It was not especially helpful to black women for him to "throw us under the bus" like that. He was wrong, if he feels that way fine, but why drag his mother, sister, nieces, aunts, and grandmothers into this?!
Posted 06-11-2010 07:08 am
beverly says: Van is so right, he is talking about his mother, grandmother, aunts, sisters, nieces, etc. He should not be talking about his family like that. if I were his mother I would have disowned his fat ass. All the men up here posting should take note, he is tallking about your mama too.
Posted 06-13-2010 01:32 am
me too says: Sweetie, it's hard for me to take your point seriously when you can't spell past the second-grade level.
Posted 06-14-2010 04:12 pm
deleted says: Shut up, shut up, shut up. because you have not been there or done that.
Posted 06-21-2010 12:50 am
Journal Long says: So then it is true that most white/other races of women- with the exception of black women-get with black men because they have low self-esteem and the minute you beat them they go running to their dads to defend them?!? Explain this truth, please.
Posted 07-01-2010 03:25 pm
tonya daniels says: He is so irrelevant right now, I don't know anyone who listens to his music anymore or who is waiting for his next album to drop....let's see how long his half white chick stands by his side once the well has dried up, in about 5 more minutes of his 15....He'll be running back to us black women with his ashy lips from all the ass kissing he's gonna be doing....O J jr.......smh
Posted 07-30-2010 12:57 am
Lola says: Im sorry but people have the right to pull support from ANY entertainer if their views are not the same. We as fan owe nothing to them.. and itsnot foolish or vengeful.. its sticking by what you believe in.... If (say for example) oprah think all blacks men are Lazy and ignorant I would lose a lot of respect for her... It's everyone right who they agree with or not...
Posted 06-09-2010 11:12 am
sainte marie says: Don't nobody want a brother who calls himself "slim Thug" He can have his mutt of a girlfriend. Im a black women who work and don't ask a brother for nothing. All I ask is he don't ask me for anything. Black women in Atlanta are more successful then black men. And me being one no that black men are always begging, for money, dinner, sex ect. That is so not fair to say about us. All of them are hurt black men. White women are scared of your crazy asses and where not. Hell most of you just got out of prison. White women are weak they need to depend on a man, rather black or white. My white homegirl always trick black men out of money I laugh because they think they got something better, Ususally there the ones we don't want anyway so please take Denise Rodmenm, Ice tea, Slim thug and the rest of the lames. Theres black men out there that love us to dealth and white ones too. That don't have to knock us because there not happy with there white choice. You don't have to talk bad about black women because you hate yourself, your mother,your aunts,sis and child. You choice to be with a mutt. Im full breed and that can cost.
Posted 06-08-2010 02:51 am
Jza says: You're dumb. That's not me. I don't know about the black men you know that that's not me or my friends. We love black women and we are not weak. You shouldn't generalize so much!
Posted 06-08-2010 12:41 pm
Buttface says: Please! I bet you're fat and beastly and you settle for black men because you're not good enough for white men.
Posted 06-11-2010 03:19 am
Sharae' says: Fuck u whiteboy!!! Don't no-body want your stupid ass! You're FUCKIN" tr-r-r-i-i-p-pin! I can imagine what u look like!
Posted 06-11-2010 04:34 pm
brittanie says: I am a white woman and what you said is just wrong. i am in love with a black man. i dont need him for nothing and i damn sure aint weak. and black women think that everybody owes them something. hell yall anit no better then anybody else. maybe if yall clam down and shit. then yall can get a black man that dont use you or hit you or cheat. and why when yall see a white women with black men yall give us a dirty look. ?? its not our fault he dont want to be with somebody like yall..... :)
Posted 06-08-2010 08:34 pm
Kathy says: Thats why my husband of 20yrs is white.
Posted 06-08-2010 09:56 pm
501 says: who cares.........
Posted 06-09-2010 03:36 pm
Blacknproudwoman says: Brittiane bitch please stfu you fat nasty bitch every time I see a brotha with one of yall I just laugh especially when I see he has to roll one of yall out of the door or he has to make sure you a real female considering how freaky yall nasty asses are when i comes to changing genders and being a pretender....lmaooooooo
Posted 06-08-2010 10:37 pm
501 says: LOL............
Posted 06-09-2010 03:40 pm
Sharae' says: S'cuse me! don't wanna look stupid! I meant 2 say----Exactly. Ur comment pissed me off so bad, can't fukn spell!
Posted 06-11-2010 04:42 pm
Sharae' says: U R a STUPID sista. Respect yo'self! Exactually what black men r always sayin' about u. Perfect example, ur dumb ass!!!
Posted 06-11-2010 04:39 pm
Kay says: Brittanie, you can NOT be serious when you say that "black women thinks everybody owes them something" and that "if we calm down, then we can get a black man that don't use or hit you or cheat"? You are the prime example of what that idiot, Slim Thug, is talking about in white women. I'm not sure where you got your information from, but it appears that you'v been watching too many underground, urban movies or have seen too many urban comedies and have associated that with black women in the real world. Black men like Slim Thug are stright up ignorant, and honestly, a white woman can have his stupid ass! What "real" woman would want any man who named himself Thug? You and everyone needs to understand that Slim Thug is from the gutters of the South Side of Houston and those are the types of women he grew up with and the types he's always flocked to. Had Slim Thug gone outside the hood and went into a better part of town or a networking mixer versus a bullshit nightclub or tiddy bar, he would have seen a black woman of substance instead of the trash he's been around all of his life! Brittanie, it's clear you're a young, uneducated and clueless person who is not in touch with women in the black community AT ALL and before you step up to speak on why black men don't want to be with black women, you need to take a step back and really look at who's talking that shit about black women. Is it a black man who worth anything, or is it some tatted up, hustling, ghetto ass "nigga" who's opinion is about has valid as an old drunk on the corner! Bottom line, be careful of your idea of what black men think of white women over black women. What happens in your future with your man may surprise you!
Posted 06-09-2010 07:46 am
ZZ says: LMAO! If you ARE actually a white woman (and not a Black man), PLEASE. As ignorant as you sound, you have the unmitigated gall to talk about Black women?!? Any Black man who is interested in the likes of you, is MORE than welcome to stay FAR away from Black women. He obviously has NO sense.
Posted 06-09-2010 01:41 pm
TAMMI PRICE says: Brittanie please...you probably have one of the black men we didn't want anyway. Contrary to popular belief white women don't know much more about keeping a man happy than any other race of women. Go sit your crazy WHITE ass down somewhere!
Posted 06-10-2010 09:52 am
MaijaFiyah says: Wow.."Brittnae" I would love to take a red pen and just let your statement have it... The likes of a "black" man like slim thug or any black man that would lower himself to be with a white woman that doesn't even have a simple command of the language your people designated for this country, you can keep... It's very simple..I come from a very different perspective then most black women...I refuse to fight you over a n*gga...please have him sweetie..as a matter of fact round up all your credit card carrying white girl friends and have a party taking them...and while you do..I will take my college educated black girl behind on over to the nice young blue eyed well mannered respectful white guy you left for "Slim Thug"... I am sure he would appreciate intelligible conversation..something that you and your gold tooth sportin' tattooed pool of thugs are totally devoid of.... on that note..Sistahs don't fight these women...let them have these useless men and move on to someone worthy of you....only a massa' wants a slave...and I quote "A white woman will do what I say"...enough said....
Posted 06-11-2010 01:29 am
Sharae' says: Damn, I coulda swore he said his woman was bi-racial??????? I'm a black woman, and that shit ya'll r talkin' offends me! U must really be so afraid of white women. The black side don't matter?? R u fukn kiddin' me? God, all ya'll need 2 grow up!!!!
Posted 06-11-2010 04:49 pm
Jenny says: I dont want to sound bitchy or anything, but i read the article and then started to read the comments and this one bothered me a bit. What do you mean lower themselves to date a white woman?? My husband and I have been together since we were teens and have been married for 8 years. He is black and I am white (and we have 2 of the most adorable babies ever!! sorry had to brag love my kids lol) We are very content in our marriage. We are both teachers at our local high school. so even though it is a "teachers salary" we are finacially comfortable. But i dont think my husband "lowered" his standards to be with me in anyway. Although i laughed my ass off at brit's comment because as an english teacher, i couldnt imagine any adult spelling/speaking in such a way, i do know what she means by getting dirty looks and comments when my husband and i are out together. it happens, but i guess you have to take the bad with the good. And Brittnae, despite what you may think love, not all men abuse their women or live off of them, you might want to get out of whatever project you grew up in and see the world, it is quite bigger than what you seem to think.
Posted 06-25-2010 10:26 am
Van says: Prehaps you should not be on the defense since the ignorant comment that was made by this obviously misguided man was not directed toward you. Black woman have been told all of our lives that we were unworthy, wether it be the texture of our hair, sink tone or our attitudes. Althought you have a God given right to your own opinion this is one that you should probably leave alone since you can not possibly understand the impact that society has had on the black woman, who are the most devalued and unappreciated beings on the face of this earth. Do not be flattered that a black man wanted you. It is universally understood that many of our men date Caucasian women due to self hate (google the willy lynch theory) in addition to this, most of the time when caucasians end up with a black person its because they did not fit the standard of beauty in their own culture ie. FAT&UGLY. These are also the same men that sisters (black women) teased and rejected all of their lives, so hopefully Ive cleared this up for you and i pray that you get a reality check real soon!!!!
Yours Truly,
Exceptional Black Woman
Posted 06-11-2010 01:32 am
Brittney says: I am a blk woman who thinks everybody shld be with whoever they feel makes them happy. Why shld I be mad because white people wanna be around more black people in general. I simply feel like nobody shld wanna be wit somebody because they allow them 2 be less than they can be. I know several blk men who date white women exclusively as well as those that date blk women only. Wat I will say is that ALL the ones that only date white women ADMIT AND BRAGG that they do so because white women put up with more bs and often have more to give and give it more willingly. They plan to use them for everything they have to offer and on to the next. Until a man is really ready to settle down this is his plan with any woman. When a man is really a man he is able to handle a real blk woman so she doesnt have to CALM DOWN because she is already happy and content because she now has a strong blk MAN and not a LIL BLK BOY. Understand we have the same stong personalities that you see in blk men so we dont take no shit laying down. We gone get up and fight 4 what we know is right. I think everyone shld be with whoever helps them be the best person they can be. If that person is outside of your race, so be it, this is America. I love that u want to embrass our sons and our culture over ur own, its flattering acually! I even see more white men wanting to date more blk women lately now that our curves are all the rage, we are more successful than we used to be and we are all wearing the same wigs and weaves now anyway. LOL Gud luck with ur blk man, Brittanie, hope he is a BLK MAN and not STILL IN THE BOY STAGE.
Posted 06-11-2010 06:03 pm
chocolate 216 says: girl u need to shut up the reason why black man get white devils well slim thug said it best yall shut the fu@@ up n do what they say like ur mother taught u b a good little pet do what he say n u b rewarded oh dont forget to have puppies by him u really b set for life
Posted 06-23-2010 02:54 pm
TruthSeeker says: So don't you think it is just ask ignorant to respond putting other people down. He said his opinion. Either get over it or help fix the problem. The way I see it, if you're not helping you're hurting. He's helping by at least acknowledging the fact that in GENERAL black women hold superficial and material standards when it comes to men of any color. Obviously he doesn't have a high level of etiquette but it takes a fool to respond to one. I am a married black woman and I speak to single women of my race every day about their role in life as being a helper to a man, no matter what situation they are in. As long as the women are in denail, nothing will ever get better, only worse.
Posted 06-09-2010 10:20 am
Lola says: Slim thug is NOT helping..he's generalizing.. That was his mistake.. Women of ALLLLLL colors do this shit.. but when a black woman does its somewho wrong or worse than when a white chick does it..
why are SOME black women worng for wanting a better life then roach apartment in the hood? seriously? If she wants better for herslf and her family its her right.
Black women always have black mens back just read your history books... Personally (and this is my opinion) but black men should stand behind black women more, support her more (and I don't mean financially).
Slim thug said that he was joking about all this but why do black women always gotta be the bud of black men's jokes...
sad that we are the only race that throw so much hate at each other..
Posted 06-09-2010 11:25 am
501 says: BOUT LIKE YOUR DOING NOW HUH....GAL STOP WHAT DOES I'M JUST PLAYING MEAN TO YALL.
Posted 06-09-2010 04:10 pm
Double D says: Thank you TruthSeeker for posting your view. people up here act like a man don't have a right to an opinion if it's not inlined with there's. It's too bad black PEOPLE can't have a DISCUSSION about the issue(because it's clearly an issue, or I wouldn't be reading some of the comments I'm reading). If it doesn't apply to you, then I shouldn't see an angry response from you. If I see an angry response from you, then that tells me he maybe touched a nerve with you. If you don't have anything helpful to say, all you're doing he hurting the situation. when you put up your name calling and disrespect for others, then you're just as bad or worse than the person you're talking about.
Posted 06-10-2010 11:46 am
501 says: TRUST ME... IF WE GIVING HER MONEY SHE GIVING US HEAD SO WHO'S TRICKING WHO YOU DO THA MATH IS SHE TELLING YOU WHAT SHE DOING TO GET THIS MONEY HELL WE PROB GOT ALL OUR HOME BOY'S KNOCKING HER OFF AND EVERYTHING FOR THIS $20.00 THAT YOU CALL MONEY LOL....
Posted 06-09-2010 03:47 pm
Sharae' says: Ya'll r so stupid you've made me ashamed of my own race!!!! I'll pray 4 u 2 WAKE THE FUK UP!!!! Not really, but this is precisely the reason our ppl r still behind. Dummies like your un-educated asses!!! All races suck di*k honey. U probably do urself. right???
Posted 06-11-2010 04:56 pm
501 says: TRUST ME... IF WE GIVING HER MONEY SHE GIVING US HEAD SO WHO'S TRICKING WHO YOU DO THA MATH IS SHE TELLING YOU WHAT SHE DOING TO GET THIS MONEY HELL WE PROB GOT ALL OUR HOME BOY'S KNOCKING HER OFF AND EVERYTHING FOR THIS $20.00 THAT YOU CALL MONEY LOL....
Posted 06-09-2010 03:51 pm
Damien Thorne says: You sound like one of those ignorant women from the Real House Wives of Atlanta. You're upset about the comments he made about black women and then you turned around and made some very ignorant comments about white women. Slim Thug does not know all black women and you do not know all white women. Slim made the mistake of not saying some black women, or the black women he has known. Then insecure people like you wouldn't feel the need to get on the internet using the typical horrible grammar and spelling of dumb ass people that always have to comment on something and most dont care what they think.No one is checking for think someone wants to take advice or listen to someone who should leave men alone for a few and date Hooked on Phonics instead.
Its obvious you are intellectually lazy, or you would have realized Slim Thug was speaking from his own life experience because, for the second time... there is no way he knows all black women. But you were probably bothered by his general comments because he struck a nerve. Then you allowed everyone to get som insight into why 70% of Black women in America are not married and most likely will not ever be married. Oh before I leave. From what you said about your "White Homegirl" its not about black or white she is a basic bitch..and Bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks.
Posted 06-11-2010 12:48 am
Teacher30 says: Well, my intention was not to comment but it seems to be rather redundant what people are saying about black women. I am a black woman, i am not a gold digger, hood chick or trifflin. I do not expect a man or my boyfriend to do anything for me. When i get married then i expect for him to do things for me and i do things for him likewise. The problem is the places black men go to find these women that makes the generalize all black women. Just like not all black men are dogs or sorry, not all black women is needy or a gold digger. If you look at it from a biblical stand point, the woman did come from the man. It is only when marry takes place that the man is suppose to take care of his woman. The statement that dating a white woman is better because white women are submissive is a cop out. I do not feel that there is a need to be submissive to any man that does not warrant it. I have a college degree and will be going to get my PHD, but i am not arrogant about the situation. I want simple regular guy that is a man and does not let me run over him. I also want him to let me have my way sometimes. When i marry i going to be looking at who put a smile on my face and in my heart. I honestly would marry a mechanic as long as is genuine. To me it does not matter that we have the same income, i know how to step back and let a black man be the head of the house.You can be submissive to any man that is still a boy in the mind.
Posted 06-08-2010 09:40 am
dennis says: with alot of black women ive noticed you get offended to easy...and with that you blind yourself from the truth...far from all, just a hell of a lot...if you no deep down he's not talking about you,you have nothing to worry about...what i will say for every stereotype out there,there is a high percentage of truth
Posted 06-09-2010 05:21 pm
anthony hart says: Wow, you guys are nuts. First and foremost a woman is your equal and why would you want someone to be your slave? What if it was your mother, how would you feel then? women and men should walk beside each and a strong healthy relationship can occur. Why do yall feel like you have to tell a woman what to do, how to act, where to go , what to eat, and get downon theirs knees to pamper yall asses. Be a man and do the s*** yourselves.
Posted 06-08-2010 12:04 pm
AKissFromDaddy says: TV and radio is not destroying people, people destroy people because it is titled “free will.” TV and radio may be influential but they do not make our final decisions. Some points in your comments I understand, however, you generalize women, especially black excessively, and it kills your point.
Posted 06-08-2010 02:56 pm
AKissFromDaddy says: TV and radio is not destroying people, people destroy people because it is titled “free will.” TV and radio may be influential but they do not make our final decisions. Some points in your comments I understand, however, you generalize women, especially black excessively, and it kills your point.
Posted 06-08-2010 02:57 pm
MZ KARI BABY says: OK....SLIM U NEED TO PUMP UR BRAKES.......I AM A BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMAN WHO LOVES HER MAN AND WILL BE BY HIS SIDE REGARDLESS....THERE HAVE BEEN TIMES WHEN WE STRUGGLED AND HAD NOTHING BUT TIMES ARE A LITTLE BETTER NOW AND THOSE BAD TIMES ARE WHAT MADE OUR RELATIONSHIP THE WAY IT IS NOW.....SO DONT GO GENERALIZING ALL BLACK WOMAN AS BEING THE SAME......HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT THAT IT'S YOU!!!....MAYBE YOU ATTRACT THESE TYPE OF WOMAN....MAYBE A "REAL SISTA" IS TOO MUCH OF A CHALLENGE FOR YOU!!!!! MY PRIORITES ARE STRAIGHT....GOD FIRST THEN MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS.....I HAVE NICE THINGS AND PUSH A NICE WHIP BUT MY PERSONAL BELONGINGS DONT DEFINE ME OR WHO I AM OR WHAT I STAND FOR......SO YOU NEED TO CHECK YOURSELF BEFORE YOU START TALKING ABOUT THINGS YOU DONT HAVE ALL THE STRAIGHT FACTS ON....
Posted 06-08-2010 04:35 pm
dennis says: hi there no offence but im from england and we have the same problem in england...with alot of black women you are easily offended...like you said your a beautiful black women who loves her man, so what's the problem ??? if it doesn't concern you you have nothing to worry about...he's speaking about most black women,which he's probaby right about...for every stereotype out there,there is a high percentage of truth
Posted 06-09-2010 05:30 pm
Black_Queen says: Excuse me sir. Are u a black man? Not only did he say things about black women but he said some equally damaging bull crap about black men. Read it again babe. Now really it does not bother me what he said. I am nothing like what he states "the black woman " is. The truth is, any black man that feels like this must be dealing with the wrong type of black women. Come on! Do u really feel like all black women are this way? Now what if we said. Black men aint shit. They broke, don't take care of they kids, all of them are in prison, they are on the down-low, all they do is spend they money on dumb shit like hoes rims and clothes, they are dumb, and worst of all they are not as good as a white man!
Posted 06-09-2010 12:27 am
NIS says: I'm not entirely sure what you meant when you said "look at Rihanna". Hopefully you were not implying that what Chris Brown did to Rihanna was in ANY way excusable. NOTHING Rihanna did could have done warranted a beating as severe as the one she received. There is NO excuse for physical violence, that goes for both men AND women. As a woman, Rihanna did not stand a chance against Chris Brown, a man. I fail to see ANY circumstances under which Chris Brown's actions could be excused in ANY way what-so-ever. People loose their tempers and do and say things that they should not but C.B. vs. Rihanna was NOT a fair fight! Let me repeat: Chris Brown (a MAN, with the strength of a man) vs. Rihanna (a WOMAN, with the strength of a woman) was NOT a fair fight. Furthermore, Rihanna did not make anything fit in her mind. She was brutally beaten by a man against whom she had virtually not defense.
**the statements made in this post are based solely on the OPINIONS of the author
Posted 06-11-2010 02:16 am
Bleazy says: ima black guy, from Africa..honestly speaking black girls are problems..ya'l full of drama, paranoid, bossy, n' you all players truth be told..never trust a black girl..yeah you love your man,but dosnt mean you wont cheat on him..im talking from experience ya'l all insecure, thats why you fool around.i got white friends, many of them..they have too much fun to worry bout haters and thats why i enjoyin hanging with them..Positive people..if a white girl cheats on you, she'l come tell you in your face..but if a black plays you..she aint gona tell you nuthin..oh yea you all violent too..seriously,you all drive me crazie..plus you all borin i have to admit..
Posted 06-07-2010 11:17 pm
vonna says: sorry but ur African...blk women in america have to much freedom and rights that u cant control. everyone knows that africans are controlling...so personally, your comment doesn't matter!
Posted 06-08-2010 12:13 am
coolpat says: It's not about controlling someone. Alot of sista's these days are very disrespectful and are users. Alot of sista's these days do some disrespectful crap and expect the guy to deal with it. Then ya wonder why ya are still single years later with a child or children who you dont know who the father is because you was doing disrespectful things. LOL.
Posted 06-08-2010 12:57 am
DeeDee says: You know the men who go thru the stuff you are speaking of? Those are the dumb men like yourself who look for the women who aren't for you and basically who don't want you! So that your dumbazz bad for being ignorant going after women who don't want you and you to ignorant to see thru it! You men being male whores screwing all the women you can get you don't see nothing disrespectful in that but us women have to deal with that. Men like you instead of being a man that leads you like to be a man that tease and that makes you pathetic!
Posted 06-08-2010 06:35 am
Blacknproudwoman says: Stop bitching and get a new woman its not all sista there are some and the same thing goes for the brothas if you attracting the pretty women then guess what not all of them have their shit together.
Some of you men are quick to pass up the average looking woman for rotten to the core eye candy and now you bitter bitch men want to group sistas together.
Rotten women come in all races so no fucken excuses
Posted 06-08-2010 10:43 pm
Cookie says: ~yes I feel you on that~ but again how many Blk men has cheated on any race of women and tell her.... oh I know when in most case... only if the other women is going to have his baby and sometime not even then~ but I do have a question "why when a Blk Man see a Black women with a diff race then Black she is a sell out... or b#ith or she gave up a Black brother, but it is ok for a Blk men to date out side his race just askin??"
Posted 06-08-2010 04:28 am
hope4theworld2010 says: Well this is America and everyone is titled to freedom of speech. I am sorry he has a bad relationship. I had one of those once. I said once. Then I learned and God sent a wonderful man to me and we have been together for almost 24 years. Im not bored, tired, shouted, cussed, or yelled at. I am loved by him and I love on him as well. As far as that cooking thing, lol whoever gets home first cooks in our house. Sometimes he beats me home and sometimes I beat him. Whomever gets home first starts that dinner. We usually end up doing a lot of the dinners together as a family. Our teens set the table. One makes the tea or puts the sodas out etc... I usually do the meat and Dad hooks up the salad. Then sometimes when he gets home I have a hot bath for him and me and the teens hook everything up. Fun fun fun. Love my life. We are one BIG happy family. Who made this possible?(all of us.) this is the atmosphere we worked to create
Posted 06-08-2010 12:03 pm
Reprogramming says: Blessings, I love that. If your family has a strong foundation then nothing can keep your unit from going astray. Back to the matter at hand, people have their preferences and should not have to make excuses for them. I pesonally think that a grown man with braids is experiencing some type of mid life crisis, but my cousin think it's sexy. There is no right or wrong when it comes to this subject. My question is, why do people feel that they have to explain themselves to someone who is not in the relationship? Unless that relationship was built on shallowness and false pretense so now there is guilt. If you know you love this human unequivocally and righteously there is no explanation needed.
Posted 06-08-2010 04:11 pm
me says: That's what's up... The only comment thus far to make any sense!
Posted 06-09-2010 04:47 pm
Jza says: I think the word you're looking for is "TOO MUCH" freedom, not to much.
Posted 06-08-2010 12:43 pm
Miss_kbs says: I'm a black woman, my mother is African and my father is american, so I have a unique point of view, and i can honestly say that I know just as many African women who posess the traits you just listed. Your view of black women and black people in general is screwed up. You have decided to form a point of view about black women based on a few of your experiences? What type of people do YOU attract?! Your description about black women says more about YOU than it does about them. I have black and white friends, and ALL of the people i choose to deal with are drama free and could care less about haters...you seem to have this preconceived notion of what a black woman is and what defines a white woman. I've know some white women who were more trifflin than anything. LOL...the more I read your post the more I wonder why I even bothered to respond to you...lmbo...full of sterotypes...
Posted 06-08-2010 04:12 am
Stellebelle says: I agree with you. I know for exact, that I am not the "typical african american woman". I'm my own identity. I've actually asked my male friends, am I the "typical african american woman" if someone would ever date me, funny as to say all of them replied no. Now I don't have to prove myself with this response, but not many women are like that. Now I may have standards , but their not high, but its simple, but most men find it hard to follow. I can cook, clean, and I don't expect my man to pay for my food everytime we go out, I do work, so maybe I could get the tip, or pay the meal. He doesn't have to buy me nice things, but i don't mind buying nice things for my man. What I'm trying to say there are probably a handful a women who will read this article and they will disagree with it. Not all of us expect you to take care of us. Some of us want the simple things out of life, and I say I am yet to get that.
Posted 06-08-2010 08:31 pm
DeeDee says: You are a VERY foolish individual! I'm black you don't know me and have no clue who I am. Maybe its that you are ugly and a woman wouldn't want to be seen with you in public and maybe trash would. Have you ever thought about that? What gets me, is that you black sorry foolish men can go around here and categorize all blackwomen into one but then when one comes and get on your tired azz you go to hollin see theres my point. Stop categorizing all and then you wouldn't have that problem being put in your place. When I can't understand an african they are usually boring to me and I'm sure you are.
Posted 06-08-2010 06:27 am
E_DUB says: @DeeDee seeing every one of your comments you've done nothing but make blanket statements about black men from the jump so it's very hypocritical of you to even keep commenting on the article, you are indeed text book example of "the angry black woman" if there has ever been one, point that finger back at yourself.
Posted 06-08-2010 10:41 am
LOL....PLease says: You say black women are dishonest, but how many African dudes marry Americans and Europeans for citizenship and have an entire family with a wife and kids back home? How many Africans run scams 24/7 all over the world? I have lived in Paris, Barcelona and London and they are all scarred of Africans. I met Africans who did not like other Africans all over England. They said that most Africans were scam artist and carried diseases. I myself saw you guys mostly as street vendors that ran when the police came and prostitutes. But when I was over there I did not agree with it nor did I contribute to comments about it. So if you don't like black Americans, go home and be with other Africans. And if you like white people go to South Africa. You may think white people care about you more, but as you can see from history they don't give a shit about nobody.
Posted 06-08-2010 01:25 pm
smiley face says: we are boring cause we wont go in the wilderness and kill a lion with our bare hands...lmao..african right...yeah you dumb as hell
Posted 06-09-2010 01:49 am
proudafrican says: u one of those people who think just cause we are Africans we have lions living in our backyards,u were trying to be funny but this just shows how ignorant and stupid u are.u mad coz that stupid guy insulted black women and u go do the same thing insulting Africans.just coz im African doesn't make me stupid,im a very educated African woman and proud of it;u have serious mental issues
Posted 07-29-2010 06:46 pm
smiley face says: we are boring cause we wont go in the wilderness and kill a lion with our bare hands...lmao..african right...yeah you dumb as hell
Posted 06-09-2010 01:49 am
wow2tht says: TAKE YO AZZ BACK TO AFRICA....
ON another note does Slim think that his girlfriend is not black because she's mixed? Maybe he needs to go to college & take a few history classes because then he'll know that she'd be in the fields just like him. She wldnt b able to say she's "mixed"(whtever tht means).
Posted 06-09-2010 02:59 am
Shun says: STFU....have you dated all black women? So don't speak on ALL black women if you've only dated two. Maybe you just had the WRONG black woman in your life. And stop using thoe white people that you call friends!
Posted 06-09-2010 08:12 am
AKissFromDaddy says: I do not understand the point of your comment because it seems off topic, however, correct if I am wrong. On a side note, your bad grammar does not help the message as well.
Posted 06-08-2010 02:51 pm
Jones says: His delivery won't right but what he is saying is true. White women do want just as much if not more than black women but a white woman is willing to give a lot more than a sista to get it. A sista wants her man to get her a Gucci bag but when this man get home the house dirty. Yeah she work and she can pay her own bills but when she want something she looking to him like he is suppose to do it. The way I see it that bag she wants is an extra. You work like me and make your own money. If you want that extra from me then do something extra. It's always about nagging and complaining until a black woman wants something. White women act appreciative and like she need a man. All you hear from sistas is "I'm independent!" And that's why so many of them are lonely or your man is scoping other chicks. You want a black man to reach his full potential then plant a seed and take care of it so it grows. You want a successful man then stop looking at the men with all the bling. It's usually a front. I am fortunate to be the owner of a successful IT and Technology solutions firm but it amazes me that sistas pass up a good looking and intelligent brother because I don't do all the flashing and shining. The difference between me and that guy on 50" rims is that he spent $10k on rims and I put $10k in investments. Think about it!
Posted 06-08-2010 05:18 pm
YT says: Let me "axe" you sumthin, Just when did you gradumacate from da fif grade? Yo spellin be atrochous. Maybe u "peeple" wood get mo respeck if u dint sound like a retarded ape. Yes, my "nubian queen" I am making fun of you. I spell just fine. Is it possible that black women are truly materialistic and greedy? Just exactly how much did YOU spend last month on getting your hair and nails "did"
Posted 06-09-2010 10:10 pm
KEI DAI says: BLACK WOMEN ARE GRADUATING MORE THEN YOU BLACK MEN.CHECK YOURSELF AND DO U BLACK MEN THINK THAT IF SLAVERY WAS TO RETURN YOUR BLACK ASS WILL BE THE FIRST ONES YOUR SO-CALLED WHITE BETTER WOMEN GET RID OF.THATS WHY WE ARE SO FAR BEHIND OTHER RACES BECAUSE WE DO NOT SUPPORT OUR OWN RACE OF PEOPLE AND REGUARDLESS IF OTHER RACES ARE HAVING PROBLEMS WITH THEIR FEMALES THEY DONT TREAT THEM LIKE U MEN.
Posted 06-23-2010 04:39 am
Crystal says: I strongly agree. You don't see latino men or asian men disrespecting their women because the are proud of their heritage and the respect what they have. Not all black girls are the same just like not all white girls are the same. Black girl we need to be like Oprah and get that money with our heads held high and put all the stereotypes abou us out the window!!!
Posted 08-26-2010 06:05 pm
CHLOE says: SLIM THIS IS DEDICATED TO YOU WEVE BEEN THE SUPA GIRLFRIENDS AND WOMEN NO NO NO ANY BODY ELSE FED UP TOYA DIDNT WANT YOU ANYMO!!Yall slim is mad and ventign he aint shit and will neva be shit. You stay in da club with hoes you stay on 97.9 the only station that will give your broke ass any play jus few months ago you was on the radio live with 2 hoes in da bed with you so is that the whit woman your prasing. Shit when we saw what they was getin we started cause were the ones who put up with yall bs and never got to the goal line. And for the dude who said he would be something if he wasnt a hoo rapper yeah a tennis shoe hustla with a ball spot in the middle of his head broke runnin afta toys i know she hate da fact that she messed with you poor toya.Shit she was successful and owned her own, and you cheated. Also college dont make you so dont get it twisted people got degrees all day and aint shit.And yeah white girls are born into money and are taught to go get any way us black women are the ones who gotta work and fight for yall to do simple shit like take care of your kids we need to teach our daughters to want more than broke neighborhood rappers like you cause people didnt even move when you performed at vh1 hip hop awards. You need to give up slimmmm i dont even see why you try any more in da words of nikki minaj.Get you money up and stay out of scotts on sunday.... Tired of seeing you in a whit T
Posted 06-09-2010 11:30 pm
hi says: I am a homeowner who lives not too far from a new set of section 8 rented homes in the community. Almost every day that I walk out of my house, I see some bummy looking grown black man walking or driving to or from these homes.
Now I know they aren't getting approved to live in these homes themselves, so who are they living with? Black women, that's who. These black men don't have jobs and sit at home all day while the women wake up azz crack in the morning to see their kids off to school and then wait for the bus to go to work.
I know that any person in here who lives near these types of communities sees the same thing. You might see a grandmother, daughter with her kids, then some bum black man living in the house eating all the food up from the kids.
So for this slim "thug" (don't know where he got that nickname as his head looks like a light bulb) to say that black women need to support black men MORE. I completely disagree. I think that black women should support these black "men" much much LESS.
Focus on yourself -- black women, get your education, raise your kids right, and get out of those hoods. Non-working non-trying black "men" are not your only option in this life for a mate. Find yourself a true alpha male who works, helps, and loves your skin tone down to the bone, life is so much better. Leave these ungrateful black "men" to themselves once and for all.
Thank you for reading :)
Posted 06-10-2010 02:25 pm
Bye says: A question: why are black women choosing to be with losers and dead-beat black "men" when there are better ones out there?
The truth is that black women prefer to be with trashy men because they find them sexually stimulating...Go figure.
Posted 06-21-2010 01:34 am
GetYours.. says: I don't know if you know but, I gonna let you know that it's Slim Thug and not Bun B sweetie
Posted 06-10-2010 10:52 pm
Kiki says: To all the black women, why should we give a d*mn about what a man like slim thug or any other man say about black women. If thats the way he feels, f**k him! I continue to hold my down, I work full time and going to school to receive my master and dont have any children and I dont even have time for ignorant people like this. To my sistas out there, keep doing what you have to do for yourself and dont depend on any man who has money or who is broke as h*ll. One Luv!
Posted 06-11-2010 09:28 am
Michele says: I feel you even thow you got the name wrong what you say is true. I think black women need to stop holding black men to our heart and do like they do date outside the race. It ashame when a white man has more respect for you than black men. And they don't complain about paying for dinner every now and then.
Posted 06-07-2010 02:13 pm
DAKEMIST says: no you need to act like you act with a black man when you with a white man yall change because yall dont hold what the black man has supposedly done to you. And if you had any friends growin up you know why we dont respect black women because they dont show us any this man voiced his opinion which is very valid and you talkin about what his mother thinks about it like he didnt you cant even respect his mind and I dont listen to his music but I do recognize real shit when I hear it
Posted 06-07-2010 06:46 pm
DeeDee says: You don't recognize real when you hear it, you just like that stupid fool FAT THUG, are nothing more than womanizers. You don't respect black women because you don't have any respect for your mother. He has no mind to respect, being that he done forgot where he have come from. I'm sure his mother have done some of the same things. He write songs to help taint black peoples minds so maybe he needs to start the change in the music he produces! You are nothing but an ignorant fool! Men are suppose to be the leaders. If you can't lead then sit your tired azz down!
Posted 06-08-2010 06:42 am
Zae says: its funny how all the women in this thread are saying that slim thug is generalizing but then when i read the same women comments, everyone is generalizing. people generalize according to what they have experienced. if i dated 20 women in my life and they all were money hungry then that means to me most of the women i have come across are gold diggers whether you like it or not it is true. And to say that college educated women with jobs have their shit together is a generalization in itself. i know plenty of crazy educated women. Also plenty of educated women look down on men who are not on their level. if he can't do what i do then i don't need him. even though he has a job and takes care of himself. Its just that he can't give what she wants which has nothing to do with how he treats her. I respect my mother and my women but im not going to treat a hoe like a house wife. and alot of hoes pretend to be housewives and then when they get put to the test they don't want to do anything. work,clean, sex, etc they just want to go shopping. There are plenty of men out there that do well. All you women here saying that these guys are searching in the wrong places need a little dose of their own medicine...ur obviously searching in the wrong places. and DEEDEE good luck trying to find a man, i can't even read half the stuff that you are writing. its not even grammar, you just sound DUMB for lack of a better word.
Posted 06-08-2010 04:09 pm
dennis says: for every stereotype out there, theres a high percentage of truth my brother
Posted 06-09-2010 05:39 pm
Embarrassed says:
It's ignorant people like this that make black people look bad!!!!! I feel so sorry for him and everyone that thinks like him. This whole statement sounds like you had your personal issues with a few black women. How dare you make this blanket statement about us as if you speaking from true experience. I agree with one writer when they said that its BOYS like you that other women can have. You have no business raising a precious black child. You would only teach them to hate themselves just like you do.
And I don't know your girl but I would bet money that she wouldn't even look at you if she didn't think you had money. That's assuming you have some. I'm guessing you're semi-famous since you got this little spread (i never heard of you).
One last thing...Why is it that women of other races deserve it when they demand more. But when we want someone to provide for us (like men are supposed to), we are asking for too much?
Posted 06-07-2010 09:59 pm
vonna says: U ARE SOOOOOO RIGHT!!!!
Posted 06-08-2010 12:23 am
cncerned says: Thank you Embarrassed, this is certainly true....somehow we hv lost " Our" roles and men have this preconceived notion that we are to provide for them, and for some reason women likewise feel obligated to take care of men at all cost. I visited a prison with a friend Mother's Day Weekend, and although I had no one to visit, it was a very sad occasion, watching Mothers, Girlfriends, Wives, Children and Fathers visit these inmates (men), The demoralizing changes they go through just to get in...I tell you, it was very sad...I cried the entire 5 hrs I waited in the parking lot. an whereas the men care nothing for them or they wldnt be there. When do we stop believing in "Our" men? How easily they forget abt us when they get a lil change in their pockets:( I can go on and on but slim thug can got to Europe for all I care, and I definitely will not be buying his music.
Posted 06-08-2010 06:27 am
Very Embarressed says: Finally someone has spoken of what we need to be focused on and that is our PRECIOUS BLACK CHILDREN. Hopefully men who think like this do not have black children because you are sending the wrong message and furtharing the gap between us. I have been through something similar I got with a man that was use to white women and I am black. We (I) fell in love, things were good so I thought but he never did his part he used me and cheated on me while I treated him like a king and took his bull. But after I had his BLACK PRINCESS, I had enough of his abuse and name calling comparing me to white women and I cut the relationship off. Now he is running around with white women again of course and hooping and hollering like this fool about black women when he knows in his heart that I spent two years doing everything for him and would have never left his side if he would not have been abusing me. Now we have this beautiful black daughter who will have to one day not only face the stereotypes that society puts on her as a black female but that her own father has about her. It is sad. No woman of any race is just like the whole bunch. I am a good black woman and I have not given up on black men or black love. I just hope this world wakes up before we are disconnected as a people.
Posted 06-08-2010 02:22 pm
manONtop89 says: slimm thug is right we as people are very unorganized and have our priorities not planned properly...but from previous relationships slimm thug is correct black women want the man to do everything don't get it confused with him not being the primary caretaker and financial stronghold but black women in general don't understand the principle of balance or compromise because a relationship without compromises will not survive; the one black man or female will feel unappreciated and feel as if they are not being treated right please believe me i know...i never dated a caucasian woman before so i can't speak on that...but black women need to get in a better state of mind about relationships and a mentality that is equal to both parties....now black men we have characteristics about us that are just as bad...some men treat there women like slaves in which i disagree with...she is a queen and shouldn't be treated any less than that but women please don't let that go to your head...i mean men when does the golden rule come in to affect(treat other the way you would like to be treated)...but it still stands we as a people should get our issues straighten out+
Posted 06-08-2010 01:44 pm
AKissFromDaddy says: I thing love is just a word. Emotionally, it never happens in a short time frame, in a matter of fact, it takes years and it only forms out of attachment and sharing common ground initially form the relationship. I believe men and women do not need to compromise but come forward about what they really want to flourish out of any relationship, instead of assuming that the significant other will know or keeping him or her in the dark.
Posted 06-08-2010 02:48 pm
Zap says: Damn, I was just talking to a friend of mine about this same situation. You see, I had put my car in the shop but my NOW ex-girlfriend thought that I had lost the car totally--she didn't know that I will be getting it out in 3 days. So she finds a way to get into an argument with me and breakup. Lol. Once she found out I had pimped my car out, she came back to me like we had never agreed to breakup with each other.... Too late, I had already found something better.
Posted 06-08-2010 03:30 pm
501 says: DOG... YOU GONE GET RIGHT BACK WITH THIS BROKE ASS GAL ANYWAY AND WHO GIVES A FUCK ABOUT YO BULLSHIT ASS CAR WE CALL GALS LIKE YOU HAD IN AR RIM WATCHERS AND YOU SOUND SUPER LAME TO POST THAT ON THIS BLOG WHAT DOES THAT HAVE TO DO WITH ANYTHING THIS CAT SLIM IS TALKING ABOUT .
Posted 06-09-2010 04:47 pm
nelson says: learn 2 spell compromise is the correct spelling that is part of the problem
Posted 06-08-2010 03:55 pm
Rosygirl39 says: I hate these types of conversations, blacks downing blacks. Especially the ones that have made it over to "successfulville". That's bogus. How about when we get to the top, remember to pull some of your brothers and sisters up with you. In stead, this punk ass decided that when he made it to the top, he was gonna publicly nurse his grudge against all black women. It's no doubt because when he was a bum trying to make it, some black chicks gave him a hard time. There is some truth to what he's saying but only some. Not all black women are guilty being golddiggers. It's not hard to read between the lines that he's talking out of hurt and bad experiences with women BEFORE he made it. Now he's no good for the good sistas. Dude is toxic. One good thing about white women, they good at takin out our trash. Whatever we don't want, they'll take that too. Another OJ Simpson......sigh
Posted 06-08-2010 09:28 pm
sowait says: It is funny when he talks about black men going out and buying jewellery, cars and making it rain when that's exactly what he raps about. Where does he think that kinda mentality comes from? And IF he thinks it needs to change why doesn't he make that change in his music? All the black women being money hungry also can be found in the music and the culture we support. So how about we start there and adjust the culture and music.
Posted 06-09-2010 04:39 am
D.S.9 says: True what Slim Thug said and I'm a black man from Texas so I know what he talking about. Not to say I don't love my black people but our thinking is off track and we have the mind frame of babys cause everyone want someone to take care of use. Other race think different of use cause we are a race that don't unite on a daily base and think out shining your own brothers and sisters and not shining together is the thing to do. I must say I've dated outside my race and am a believer that other race treat good black men better when they know they have a good black man. I'm not rich but I work my ass off and have a own and leave good but to most black women thats not enough, but they think having a fat ass will bring them the world. Just saying what I've been though with black women and it took me sometime to date outside my race and when did I fought out other races treat they men good...
Posted 06-09-2010 07:54 am
black_and_educated says: First, allow me to introduce myself. I'm a single, black mother of
two. I was born and raised in the projects as a child. As an adult,
I possess a BA in computer science and employed by the US governement
as a Software Engineer. Had my first child when I was a teen and he is
now working on his 3rd year of college majoring in engineering..following
in his mamma's footsteps one would say..
I say all that to say that what color you are has
no bearing on whether you will be a lazy freeloader or a go-getter..
It's what cloth you were cut from that makes the difference. If a woman
was taught that she needs a man to do everything for her then that is what
she will desire, if a man was taught that he needs a woman to serve him
and not think for herself then that is what he will desire..These things
are all patterns learned from childhood. Although I do like Slim Thugs
music and story telling lyrics, I resent that fact that he would stereo
type any race. None of us can be summed up into one category..I am clearly
an example of an exception to the so called "rule". You have to find a partner
with the same morals as yourself, that's the key to happiness,
remember..it's a partnership not a dictatorship.
Posted 06-09-2010 02:13 pm
dennis says: this is my point honey, alot of black women (alot not all) are to easily offended...if hes speaking about the majority...and you no deep down it doesn't concern you what's the problem...for every stereotype out there, there is a high percentage of truth...by your first few sentences from if what your saying is true you are very sucessfull and good on you,,so all in all he's not talking about you
Posted 06-09-2010 05:42 pm
LaKeisha Rollins says: I beleive he is absolutely right about standing by your man no matter what...In this world there are more successful black women than there are men so most women may think and I've heard women say I don't need a man except for dick and money....on the other hand successful men are looking for a woman to be by their side not only for the money and dick but for who they are as a person a successful business man, superstar, or a 9-5 laborer no matter the category. I believe women of any color should stand by their man more if they are handling business- this does not define men who lay on they ass wanting their women to take care of them...I'm talking about a grinder, provider a real nigga...I grew up listening to Slim Thug- I know some of his runners usE to come up to Carver High School and we buy Boss Hogg Outlaw CDs- I still have those records because it is real and Slim Thug is just simply speaking his mind and opinion aimed solely to black women is real and true what he experiences....I AM A BLACK WOMAN and I definitely would stand by man he compliments my swagg therefore we can SHINE TOGETHER. REAL TALK....NAWF SIDE REPRESENT FM 1960 HOUSTON, TX
Posted 06-09-2010 03:48 pm
unbreakablekc73 says: slim thug is an idiot.. uneducated people, and a land without morals is why relationships are no longer lasting. for an educated woman to date a man with minimal intelligence she must have saw success in his rap game. Money can b the only reason an educated woman would date such a foul mouth idiot.. either that or she has no common sense.
Posted 06-09-2010 05:04 pm
unbreakablekc73 says: slim thug is an idiot.. uneducated people, and a land without morals is why relationships are no longer lasting. for an educated woman to date a man with minimal intelligence she must have saw success in his rap game. Money can b the only reason an educated woman would date such a foul mouth idiot.. either that or she has no common sense.
Posted 06-09-2010 05:04 pm
aLgProduction says: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oSaGmBKyEV4
Posted 06-09-2010 10:42 pm
koko says: Slim, I would like to say that, I am a huge fan of yours and you're like my boyfriend in my head.(smile) Please think about what you say before you say it. I heard you on 97.9 the other morning and you mentioned that "black women need to lower their standards, and most of the women you come in contact with are goal diggers." Well, I will try to keep this short; I am so sick of BLACK men saying that we need to lower our standards; how about this, why don't you set your standards higher for what you are looking for in a woman? Instead of going for the pretty girls with a big butts that aint got shit. Try looking for a woman that has more THAN JUST A BIG ASS. Dont get me wrong, I am a very pretty girl,cute shape, and educated but guess what; most black men dont want that. They are to intimidated by me. WHY?
Posted 06-10-2010 01:56 am
saphire says: i have never asked any man to buy any thing i have never looked for a man whith a lot of money only with a good personality who i could just hang out with, infact it's been my expiriance that the more independant you are the more freeked out a black man gets because he thinks you don't need him and the more genuine you try to be the more some black men try to manipulate you so they can have you on the side
Posted 06-13-2010 02:00 pm
george thomas says: go on youtube and watch..THE UNTOLD BLACK HISTORY. this bother mlh is correct 100 percent
Posted 06-16-2010 07:09 pm
JAYE1982 says: Did he really say that successful black men are extinct!!!!!!! Really Slim Thug! Great way to uplift your race! Not all black women are the way he just described and if those type of woman are the ones he continues to attract maybe Slim Thug need to take a look at who he approaches. I dont appreciate the way he makes black women look like "gold-diggers". I also dont appreciate how he makes white women look like doormats!
Posted 06-18-2010 12:34 pm
wildflower says: Before people talk they really should think. Do you know all Black and White women Slim thug? This issue has so many levels. First Black men abandoned their role in the Black household long ago. Even when present rarely fully playing the man's role. Granted, not all their fault, they were somewhat emasculated by society(but they sure gave up the fight in record numbers). Thereby forcing Black women to play our role and partly yours. If I'm bringing home the bacon and cooking it up, what are the hell are you doing? You speak of bowing down, Do you want a women or a slave? Second I would be willing to bet your approach to me,(the black woman) Black man, is the not the same as your approach to that White woman. I bet you step to her different than you step to me (Black woman). You are most likeky chivalrous and treat her like lady, therefore she can respond like one. I dont mean to steroeotype you like you did me but, lets face it...Black men are not known for their chilvarous qualities, at least not in their own communities. How you act with them doesn't help me. I'm glad your girl went to Columbia, but there are many educated Black women, and just as many hard working ones with good hearts that would make great wives to deserving men. In the area I live in is surrounded by F schools(schools failing in the national avaerage). So all those little Black girls attending(there are no whites in my neighborhood), are at fault for the sub-par education they are receiving? Would you like to come here where it starrts and make some noise at the root of the problem? I don't think you will. It's easier to criticize the victim and make a bunch of stereotypical generalizations. But also give us our props! Black women are the most God fearing, loyal women on earth! We have stuck by the Black man through years of abandonment. The minute you have something you are suddemnly too good for us. Did you date White women when you were broke? Or did you suddenly acquire that taste along with your money? I could keep going ( you have pissed off this Black woman) but I have to end this somewhere..... I think you need to JESUS, you are projecting your self hatred onto me. And I don't need a degree from Columbia to see that! ---Ms WildFlower (independent artist from Miami)
Posted 06-25-2010 10:00 am
thomlaudcu says: It is true black people in america {in general} are mentally disfucntion.
However, we must learn to accept the past and move forward
focus on God and he will guide the way.Just like the slaves did to get us to this point. No body is perfect! Keep Pushing Stay Positive
http://www.2manproductions.com
Posted 07-27-2010 07:49 pm
ganga10 says: i think men& women need to compramise more because these days people dont understand the meaning of true love
Posted 06-07-2010 12:47 pm
annonymous says: I'm a black woman and these comments are not only offensive but are without merit. My man wants for nothing, as my mother showed me how to "love" and cherish a black man. White women are NOT perfect, and quite frankly I'm tired of this stigma that they are.
Posted 06-07-2010 01:22 pm
DAKEMIST says: he is on point I dont know where you live but women out here aint on no love and cherish shit and white women are not perfect but they dont like arguing which leads to relationships that fail because the man cannot express himself without the woman taking the way he feels the wrong way.
Posted 06-07-2010 06:52 pm
Cookie says: ~ you are right....I watch my white MOTHER do it all my life but the sad thing is ~I DIDNT KNOW IF MY FATHER THOUGHT SHE WAS ONE OF HIS KIDS OR IF HE LOVE HER OR THE A PAID MAID....NOT HIS WIFE THAT HE LOVE..
Posted 06-08-2010 04:36 am
MrHuey.com says: To paraphrase Thugga a bit, "PEOPLE need to be more genuine and be more 50/50 [but] It should be a fair exchange in a relationship period or eventually somebody is gonna feel like they’re getting fucked over whether it’s the woman or the man. I think that will help RELATIONSHIPS out a lot. - I respect Thug's ideals in this matter and even on finances. I've heard this dude kick a bunch of financial knowledge and that's admirable.
Way to rep the H, Thugga!
Posted 06-07-2010 01:26 pm
KatrinaME says: #cosign MrHuey.com
Posted 06-07-2010 05:05 pm
Zyhiitah35 says: YOU MUST BE CLOSED MINDED. IF YOU HAVE CHILDREN PERSONALLY A DAUGHTER HE'S SPEAKING OF HER ALSO. DUMB ASS.
Posted 06-08-2010 01:08 am
MrHuey.com says: @ Annonymous - you have a very good point. Good and bad are in every ethnicity and in both men and women. I think as you have pointed out, much of it starts at home and continues through to a person's morals and values as they mature in life. Seems that most of the women Thugga is speaking of are "relationship hustlers." Which is very sad. AND I am a witness, not all white women or women do what a man tells them and it shouldn't be that way anyway! LOL
Posted 06-07-2010 01:31 pm
Mrs. Thug says: I agree with your stats about educated and successful black men being limited in number but I think that just goes along with what Slim is saying about successful black men being nearly extinct. A lot of what he said in this article needs to be taken with a grain of salt and I think a lot of pol are taking it way too personal. People are overlooking the fact that he said most, not all, and I think what he says is true. A lot of black women, and women in general, don't buy into the typical gender roles of cooking and cleaning for their man because they think it takes away from their "independent woman" persona and I think if you want a successful black man and a happy relationship women need to stop being so defensive all the time.yes, as black women we do have to sacrifice more to get what we want, it's just the nature of the beast. I suggest dating outside your race. Instead of getting so up in arms about black men dating "other" women date "other" men. I think most black women don't cook and clean and cater to their man because a lot of us never had father figures in our homes so we didn't see our mothers doing these things and thus didn't learn how to take care of a man growing up. White women, on the other hand, are statistically more likely to grow up in two parent homes. Additionally, black men feel the need to be tKen care of by their woman because they grew up being catered to by their mothers; they've been the man of the house for pretty much their while lives because, like black women their homes lacked a consistent male presence. Bottom line: both men and women need to sacrifice to make a relationship successful. Stop being so defensive and look at why the same issues keep coming up, Slim is not the first black man to say/feel these things, nor will he be the last.
Posted 06-07-2010 08:36 pm
ProudBlkWmn says: Try again, Argument fails... I am A College educated black woman, working on my second degree. My black mother was murdered by her black boyfriend. I was raised by relatives, did not have a father figure. I am currently dating someone whom, I have been with for 11 years, no marriage because we are happy they way we are. In addition, we've seen to many of our friends headed to Divorce Court. You made a comment saying, "black women don't cook, clean, and cater to their man because a lot dont have father figures" I GREW UP without a father, I have held down a relationship for 11 years. I'm 28. Our relationship is mutual, my man is no COWARD nor is he INSECURE if he is hungry and I am busy working hard for our future. He will cook his OWN meal & mines too, or hell pick up dinner, takeout, which I LOVE. My bf and I clean together, we cater to one another 50/50. At one point, during my relationship where times when I did everything, cooking, cleaning etc.. My man did not like it and decided he wanted to help. He told, me that he didn't appreciate growing up seeing his mother cater to his father, and she not be rewarded or respected as much as she should have. He never seen his father cook or clean, he does not want the same for our future children because cookin & cleaning is not east. Futhermore, that is what MAIDs are for. Its sad, Its 2010 not 1960 times change (thank god) BOYS & GIRLS maybe u should take this argument up with your makers. Parents, who should have taught you NOT TO JUDGE and raised you to be INDEPENDENT!!!! My man is BLACK, boys step your game up. I love him too pieces..we are both dimes!!! Screw you ignorant HATERS!! And try not to generalize, there are bad women in every race, and boys go educate yourself, meet a sista in college. We aren't gold digger, atleast I'm not. I make the most money in my relationship and I love my man the same because he is a GOOD MAN. Behind every great woman is good man. hint..hint..
PS. I hope Slim thug eduacted gf, realize that he just degraded her by saying her white side is the better side of her WOW. If she doesn't get offended by that.... maybe he is with a gold digger. I wouldn't be with a guy who would degrade me like that.. IGNORANCE.. COME ON BLK PPL...READ A HISTORY BOOK, PLEASSEEE!!!
Posted 06-07-2010 11:46 pm
LOVEMEAWHITEMAN says: WELL THOSE SAME BLACK MEN GREW UP IN HOMES WITH OUT FATHERS TOO,THATS WHY THEY WANT US TO PLAY A ROLE ND THEY CANT EVEN PLAY THEIR ROLE.MY MOTHER COOKED AND CLEANED THE HOME (WEARE CARRIBEAN) BUT MY FATHER TOOK CARE OF THE FINANCES. IF YOU WANT ME T PLAY HOME MAKER YOU NEED T PLY YOUR ROLE AS THE PROVIDER, THATS HOW IT WORKS IF YOU ARE NOT GOING TO PROVIDE, THEN I NEED TO GO TO WORK AND IF I AM BUSSTING MY ASS I AM LESS LIKELY TO COME HOME AND COOKEVERYDAY BC I AM TIRED, FARE IS FARE, YOU WANT US TO PLAY OUT ROLE PLAY YOUR ROLE AS THE PROVIDER, UNFORTUNATLEY YOU CANT BECAUSE THE FACT REMAINS THAT YOU LAZY ASS BLACK MEN ARE OUT NUMBERED. BLACK WOMEN DO BETTER IN EDUCATION, SALARIES AND HOME OWNERSHIP. BLACK MEN OUTNUMBER US IN THE PRISONS AND THATS IT, LET THEM GO TO WHITE WOMEN, THAT IS A PLUS, WHO WANTS A LAZY BUM WITH THEIR PANTS HANGING LOW,NOT I,,,,I WILL TAKE A WHITE OR ASIAN MAN ANYDAY!!!
Posted 06-08-2010 12:53 am
DeeDee says: Say that sista!
Posted 06-08-2010 07:01 am
DeeDee says: Umm MrsTHUG Go Figure. Its not what he said, its how he said it. Why does the good side of his gf have the be the white part of her? Girl get a life! I could just fist slap some of ya'll if we were discussing this in person. My thing is I have ZERO tolerance for ignorance. My thing is this also, when I was in school one thing I did when I was reading, I made sure I paid attention to everything that was read. What you said was pure IGNORANCE! Get off his nut sack.
Posted 06-08-2010 06:52 am
DeeDee says: The reason why he isn't the first nor will he be the last one to say those things, is because he expect the black woman to be just like the white woman, easy and vulnerable, do what is tells her whether its right or wrong. Thats what a man with money or control wants. Only a fool would bow and worship that nut!
Posted 06-08-2010 06:55 am
Kb says: Okay Deedee, you're getting on my last nerve. Every comment thus far that you have left has degraded white woman by calling them vulnerable, weak, etc. Obviously you have a stereotype in your head just as 'slim' has with black women. You can't categorize all white women to be a certain way just because the women you've encountered seem to be this way. Who are you to judge? You're not in their relationship or with them all hours of the day. Maybe you're only seeing what you want to see or maybe the ones you know have low self esteem and don't know any better than to put up with catering to a man. I have white friends who do this and black female friends that do this. It all comes down to how you were raised and the experiences you've dealt with throughout the years. No one can judge anyone's lifestyle because we were all raised differently and have been through different experiences. Just please don't stuff all white women in a stereotypical box; by doing so you're point is about as valid as 'slims'
Posted 06-08-2010 05:28 pm
Reina says: I HATE when black men say stupid shit like this.. We need to stick by our man more bullshit when i see black women sticking by her man on a regular. I look at my friend mother this guy she with is a bum and a drunk living off her but everytime she kicks him out he says "why black women always trying to kick a brother when he down" Im not saying all blck women are sticking by they man but a mass majority are. And black women kinda have to settle if they want a African American man because Most Afrcian American men arent on the same level mentally, intelluctually and financially as African American women. African American women do NOT have alot to choose from.. 48% of AA men are incarcerated. Then for every 7 AA woman in college there is only 1 AA man. Its hard to find a AA man who can spend ANY money on you or take you ANYWHERE. They complain about you wanting to go out on dates and always say "well what im gonna get?" I shouldnt have to give you shit!! Thats quality time that we spending together and that should be enough.. I date men who are trying to court me and plan on marrying me not like most of these dudes just trying to fuck and live off you. I see this with AA women all the time, they the ones taking working and the dude sitting on they ass. They going to college while dude on the corner trying to sell drugs or trying to become the next rapper instead of being realistic. Its hard for me to find a AA man that is at my standards because they say its to high but i can easily find a Black man non American to meet my standards. Mine is just have a job, a place, a car, be in college but if your not in college atleast have a goal in life and not about all sex. Not alot to ask for because i have all these things but AA men always complain about it.. i rather be alone for the rest of my life than to be someones door mat and take care of them for the rest of my life..
Posted 06-07-2010 02:16 pm
jason32 says: Damn girl. You must really have a problem with black men don't you? All black men aren't bums-maybe you should change your environment and where you pick your men at. Go marry a white man and contribute to breeding our race out because just like a lot of simple women you care nothing of the continuity of a people and culture but only falling in love. A lot of you sisters are just like these sorry brothers; you complain and blame some one else for your situation instead of accepting responsibility. If you are a single mother you blame the men like god didnt bless you with a good enough brain to pick a decent man and get to know him before you open your legs. Not all those statistics about incarceration are true either so don't believe everything you see and read. Another thing since you know nothing about the world if it isn't connected to your capricious emotions black men bore the brunt of the oppression of the race. How else do you take over a people? Women are no threat they never have been. Why do Americans round up all the Iraqi males in a village when the village is hostile and leave the women? Because a woman isn't a threat she isn't percieved as a threat and thats why she wasn't hanging from trees in the south like black men were. Why are their substantial numbers of black males in jail and not women; better yet why are men period in gangs, armies etc? You know nothing about men and their nature. There are a lot of bad black women out there just like there are bad asian, white, indian and all other women from different groups. Ungrateful I swear. Sometimes I think its better when some of yall just shut the fuck up and cook.
Posted 06-07-2010 02:40 pm
The Black Whole says: NICELY n' RIGHTLY said, Jason32!
http://theblackwhole.wordpress.com/2008/12/28/18-ta-all-ma-black-bitches/
http://theblackwhole.wordpress.com/2009/06/17/90-are-we-back-on-that-again/
= )
--TBW
Posted 06-07-2010 05:37 pm
Mz♥Blackness says: Wow I really think that you need to read her comment again...U just showed that you are simple minded person…What are you doing with your life to warrant a women to as you say "shut the fuck up and cook", You showed us how unintelligent you are… In her response I’m pretty sure she stated that some of our black males are bums I agree why is it that when this type of topic comes up “BLACK MEN” who aren’t doing shit like stepping up to the plate and handling their business always blaming either Black women or another race. IF YOU CALL YOURSELF A MAN THEN YOU WOULD BE TAKEN CARE OF BUSINESS 24/7, YOU WOULD DESERVE AND EXCEPT THE HELP OF A STRONG BLACK WOMAN. That’s the main problem that WE as AMERICANS have a problem with, if you see a women whether she is black, white, latino , asian and she handling hers you mad cause she is not SUBMITTING…ITS CALLED COMPROMISE, “U GOT TO GIVE TO GET”…. I LOVE BLACK MEN, and wish that some of them would stop playing the blame game and step up to the plate and be equals to their women, Unlike you I have no problem with interracial dating, if a black man wants a white,latino,asian women then that’s whats up vice versa for a black women, it just saddens me that black men keep using the excuse that black women don’t listen, maybe its time for them to except that in this day and age women are not just going to lay on their backs, clean or cook, I personally have no problem taking care of my man yet he does the same for me when its needed…SO AGAIN I SAY TO U STOP PLAYING THE BLAME GAME AND STEP THE HELL UP…
Posted 06-07-2010 06:41 pm
ProudBlkWmn says: I agree with you sista, What is up with blk men saying, "we don't listen" we aren't animals. Do you listen? Would you like it if you where a woman and she told, you need to listen to her? Yes communication wise, when we are having a conversation, but..aye, "get yo ass in here and cook my meal" WTF??? This reminds me of a Domestic Violence commercial, "man walks into the house, asked his wife where his meal was, she gave him pizza. He threw the pizza against the wall, and beat her up" It's sad, but incidents truly happen like this everyday.. My mother life was taken over a man, wanting control over her money, eventhough she had 4 children to raise. She died as a result of "not listening" SAD! The mentality that murdered my mom is still present today among all races.. I warn blk women stay away from those types of brother. You might end up 6 feet under, and his excuse, "she didn't listen". Heartless..non empathy having bastards.. Becky can have him.. hell Becky probably grew up with abusive parents. Stop judgung the blk race..its all races..
Posted 06-08-2010 12:25 am
LOVEMEAWHITEMAN says: YOU ARE THE REASON I HATE BLACK MEN, I WILLSHUT UP AND COOK WHEN YOU SHUT UP AND MAN UP AND BE THE PROVIDERS, ITS FUNNY HOW YOU LAZY BLACK MEN WANT US TO PLAY OUR PARTS BUT YOU FORGET THAT YOUR TRADITIONAL ROLE IS THE PROVIDER...BUT YOU CANT PROVIDE BECUSE BLACKWOMEN ARE DOING BETTER THAN YOU...YOU LEAVE BALCK WOMEN ALONE TO RAISE YOUR KIDS...LISTEN BLACK LADIES
BLACK MEN ARE THE ONLY MEN THAT DISRESPECT US, LATIN WHITE ASIAN MEN DONT D THIS TO THEIR WOMEN,EVEN WHITE MEN DISRESPECT US BECAUSE THEY HEAR AND SEE BLACK MEN DO IT (JOHN MAYER) YOU WOMEN ARE STUPID TO STICK BY BLACK MEN SIDE WHEN YOU CAN HAVE A WHITE MAN THAT RESPECTS YOU MORE THAN A BLACK MEN EVER WILL AND EVEN PLAY THE ROLE AS THE PROVIDER AND WILL STICK AROUND MARRY YOU AND RAISE YOUR KIDS TOGETHER AND BLACK MAN WONT DO ANY OF THAT....LMAO AND YOU ARE TELLING US TO PLAY OUR ROLE, YOU BUM NIGGERS..I HATE BLACK MEN...ONCE YOU DATE BLACK YUO WILL NEVER GO BACK (TO DATING BLACK) WHITE MEN RULE! I AM SO HAPPY I HAVE ONE!
Posted 06-08-2010 01:01 am
truee says: wow! not all black men are the same. ..& not all black women are the same.
...& Indian men murder their women when they do something the man dont like.
I luv all women! ;)
Posted 06-08-2010 12:26 pm
E_DUB says: @LOVEMEAWHITEMAN You have got to be the most ignorant, misguided individual I have ever read a comment on. Were White slave owners respecting Black women when they were raping them? How respectful were White men when they sprayed Black women down with hoses and beat them with billy clubs? How respectful are White men when they refer to Black Women as Black girls? When you have your male child with this White male, the Black community will view him as a Black male while your lily White male counterparts will see another Nigger. Put some thought behind what you say House Bunny!
Posted 06-08-2010 01:05 pm
Erica D says: Okay, while I don't agree with LOVEMEAWHITEMAN, I can't agree with your statements either. As a black woman, I have been taught extensively the history of whites and blacks in America, and as a person that has dated outside of her race, I am getting sick to death of this argument by Black males when they see a black woman dating a white man. What happened in the past needs to stay there. You need to learn from it and see to it that it does not happen again. HOWEVER, to continuously bring it up not only shows that you are too willing and ready to blame the white man for your problems, but are too lazy to do anything about it.
One of my best friends is a white woman who can trace her lineage back to Slavery and can - without a doubt - say and prove that her family did not own slaves and were poor Irish folks themselves who were treated worse than slaves and joined the Abolishionist Movement. Are you going to say that her family has to be held accountable for something that other white families in the past had done? And why do the white people born today have to pay for something that their ancestors did? If they've never raped anyone or sprayed women down with hoses, are they just as responsible? How so? How are they just as responsible if they had nothing to do with it?
And, how is calling a black woman a "girl" any MORE disrespectful than BLACK males calling black women "bitches" and "hoes" and what have you? Telling them in their music and videos that they want to "fall in love with a stripper"? That they are trying to find something nice to say about a beautiful black woman "without being disrespectful"? Seriously, I think a white man calling a black woman a girl is MUCH less offensive than being whistled at like a dog, cat-called "aye, baybay" or physically grabbed in public like I'm some kind of piece of meat. OR, being driven upon like I'm some kind of street walker and not even getting so much of a "Hello, Miss, what's your name?" as opposed to a "Aye yo, girl, what yo name is?"
Excuse me, but I think YOU need to check yourself and think before you speak. Your ignorance is showing, sir.
Posted 06-09-2010 01:19 am
E_DUB says: @Erica D First off you don't know anything about me to tell me I'm lazy, I have a four year degree, held high management positions, left corporate America and have my own business. I'm born and raised in the South and went to a high school where I was one of 4 black people in a graduating class of 145 people and graduated with honors and was treated differently than my other black classmates because I was an athlete and had good grades. I know first hand being around them and hearing them say things about Black people but then look at me and say but you're different. I've had white friends and still have them so all that you're telling me about you having them isn't important to me based on what I've lived and know.
Having been in corporate America and have White men so called try to talk "black" until you speak English better than they do before they give you any respect. I know what they say behind our backs and damn near to your face and this wasn't back in the 60's this has been for as long as I've been in the workforce.
My point which you totally missed is don't go trying to make the white man out to be better than anybody because they are just as disrespectful if not more than anyone else so by you trying to assume me being lazy and doing nothing you showed your ignorance, ma'am.
Posted 06-09-2010 07:50 pm
DeeDee says: You are really pushing it trying to sound all educated. Everyone that went to school knows that you don't end a sentence with the word at! You getting mad at the girl who talked about you tired busted up ass men, why don't ya'll step up and make these single baby mama's not single and help take care of ya'lls kids. Why don't you take your own advice and you shut the fuck up and cook. How many kids and baby mama's do you have? Did you think about the first girl you screwed b4 you fucked her?
Posted 06-08-2010 07:06 am
Sasha says: You are so right. I've seen alot of White men like...Tom Cruise, George Clooney. and Justin Timberlake who are sexy as hell! Would I date them...HELL NO!! When I think about Black/White relations in this country..it unfortunately takes me bk to slavery days. Black women have been dogged through all their generations. The slave-master would "pick" one of the slaves to have his children or because he was mesmorized by the color of their skin, their "Queenly"walk, their love of God and immediately wanted to "prey" on them wanting to know their "secret" to making it while being tortured by their asses. So, no when I thnk abt how our Black men think it is okay to date outside our race, it sickens me. I think abt Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr; Harriet Tubman; Sojourner Truth; all our ancestors who fought for our God-given rights to be free ....and it hurts to see that our Black men have forgotten that. They're in it for the glory of having a White woman on their arms. Some call us gold-diggers, but there are a hell of a lot more Black women taking care of their families without help from the fathers than White women. They are the ones who go and get the lawyers and take their asses to court. Sure, they seem nice on the surface..waiting to go in for the kill. Nobody had a problem when Kobe fucked up on Vanessa and bought her that huge ass engagement ring. But if I had of been a Black woman...she would have been dubbed as wrong, not standing by her man, or a gold digger...in it for what she could get. it's a damn shame that at this day and age we still have these type discussions. To each his own, but Black men must understand that they are literally killing our race!!
Posted 06-07-2010 06:00 pm
WillArk says: @ Sasha- You are so stupid. Listen to what you just said. You say that our ancestors fought and died for our God given rights well guess what that's what black men are doing we are living our God given rights. It sickens me when black women who don't know me wants to get angry at me for being with a woman of another race when its really none of their damn business. If I was by myself you all wouldn't give a damn about me. Get a life black women because we black men don't owe you anything. Just remember it was the black man who was getting lynched, attacked by police dogs and shot with fire hoses while black women just stood on the porch crying. Hell if the black woman cared so much about the black man in those days they could have at least threw a damn rock or something while the black man was getting his azz attacked by the white lynch mob.
Posted 06-07-2010 09:58 pm
LOTUS says: Hey DUMBASS, there were plenty of Black women being put in JAIL, being RAPED, and DYING for the same cause their Black men were. Sorry no one decided to take points for stupid people like. And to make another point in case you forgot; THERE WAS A LOT OF BLACK MEN WHO GOT LYNCHED ON THE SIMPLE BASIS THAT A WHITE WOMAN WANTED SOME ATTENTION. So you might want to go back and do some research before making a display on what a jackass you truly are again. Have a nice a day : )
Posted 06-07-2010 11:50 pm
Cookie says: ~OH NOW LET BLACK WOMEN START TALKING ABOUT DATING OR BEING WITH A WHITE MEN YOU WANT TO START CRYING AND CALLING "BLACK SISTERS GOT TO BE DUMB ASS ...WELL LET'S NOT FORGET WHO STARTED ALL THIS MESS YOU DUMB AZZ MEN TALKING ABOUT THE BLACK WOMEN AND HOW WHITE WOMEN THIS AND THAT. PS BLACK WOMEN AND CHILDREN WAS LYNCHED BY BLACK WHITE ON THE DAILY TO THIS DAY.....SO YOU LYNCHED YOUR SELF WITH THIS MESS!!!!!!
Posted 06-08-2010 04:48 am
ProudBlkWmn says: Black women love Good blk men, You are a Boy! We dont want you. LMAO maybe that why you are angry. A blk woman is not going to let you call her stupid. Bet you dont call Becky stupid. Self Hatred....Asshole. You're right, wouldn't give a damn about U. Blk wmn aren't on here saying you owe us anything. You don't represent blk men. You represent a blk self hating, angry, ignorant boy!!!! 7th grade level... don't know any better. PS. "throw a rock", Are you stupid? A man wouldn't want his wife to be anywhere around him getting lynched. Real men protect their wives from danger. They'd put their lives on the line for her. OMG.. Wow, Who raised this idiots? I love my blk uncles, I'm so happy they taught me to take a stand when facing the enemy. u are the enemy BROTHA, very sad.
Posted 06-08-2010 12:56 am
SorryImBlack says: There's a saying that states: It is better to remain silent and to be though of as a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt." (paraphrased). You are a prime example of that statement. Are you serious? I suggest while you are banging women outside your race (and I'm can only hope you continue to with such ignorance as you have stated here), that you pick up a book, and if at all possible, read it. I'm not talking about a coloring book, but a book that gives you a clue about history and the Civil Rights movement. Black women have always stood by black men and real men back in the day, did the same. You punks today don't know what manhood is. It's a shame that women of other races continue to lower their standards by being with bitter, angry, self-loathing black men. I can't imagine a woman of any race wanting you. What redeeming qualities must she see? Your penis. Yeah, Mandingo, that must be it. That's all they want because by what I've read, you really don't have much in your head.
Posted 06-08-2010 02:02 am
KOOLY says: A WHITE WOMEN WILL KILL THEM FR THE INSURANCE PLICY, WHITE WOMEN ARE LINED UP IN THE LOCKERRM TRYING TO GET WITH NBA PLAYER RAPPERSETC. THEY GOLD DIG TOO BUT BLACKMEN HATE THEMSELVES AND NNED AN EXCUSE T BE WITH A WHITE WOMEN, MY THING IS, IF THATS YOUR PREFERENCE COOL BUT DONT DOG ME OUT.....ITS LIKE SAYING THAT YOU ALL ARE DUMB ILLITERATE CRIMINALS....
Posted 06-08-2010 01:05 am
DAKEMIST says: I hear you on that but let me tell you a lil something. AA womens attitudes are the reasons why the black men are the way they are. Ok I love my black women I have had two long relationships that are over but cherished. But AA women were set up to think the way they think back in the day when a couple had a (boy) men were still cheatin like they do today but the woman knew that the son would need a father if he was to become a man so she did what she had to do.....Not saying that the man was right (even though HE is from africa and is basically a king whos woman has been taught another bible that him having companions is wrong) but this was critical to the future which is now. Once AA women were given welfare some women who would have stayed got support which led them to think that the black man wasnt needed but they forgot about the children. Most young men today wereraised by women and most of there fathers werent there because the women were quicker to give up on relationships. Think about it a man most times dont leave until he got caught or the woman leaves him most times this is what i see and I have read there was I man named willy lynch he wrote this and it is still being used today. the speech given by Willie Lynch a slave owner who over 300 years ago devised a plan to help keep Black people divided...
Gentlemen:
I greet you here on the bank of the James River in the year of our lord, one thousand seven hundred and twelve. First , I shall thank you, the gentlemen of the of the colony of Virginia, for bringing me here. I am here to help you solve some of your problems with slaves. Your invitation reached me in my modest plantation in the West Indies where I have experimented with some of the newest and still the oldest method for control of slaves. Ancient Rome would envy us if my program is implemented. As our boat sailed south on the James River, named for our illustrious KING JAMES, whose BIBLE we CHERISH, I saw enough to know that our problem is not unique. While Rome used cords or wood as crosses for standing human bodies along the old highways in great numbers, you are here using the tree and the rope on occasion.
I caught the whiff of a dead slave hanging from a tree a couple of miles back. You are losing valuable stock by hangings, you are having uprisings, slaves are running away, your crops are sometimes left in the fields too long for maximum profit, you suffer occasional fires, your animals are killed, Gentleman,...You know what your problems are; I do not need to elaborate. I am not here to enumerate your problems, I am here to introduce you to a method of solving them.
In my bag, I have a fool proof method for controlling your slaves. I guarantee everyone of you that if installed it will control the slaves for at least three hundred years. My method is simple, any member of your family or any OVERSEER can use it.
I have outlined a number of differences among the slaves, and I take these differences and make them bigger. I use FEAR, DISTRUST, and ENVY for control purposes. These methods have worked on my modest plantation in the West Indies, and it will work throughout the SOUTH. Take this simple little list of differences and think about them. On the top of my list is "AGE" but it is only there because it starts with an "A"; The second is"COLOR" or shade; there is INTELLIGENCE, SIZE, SEX, SIZE OF PLANTATION, ATTITUDE of owner, whether the slaves live in the valley, on a hill, east or west, north, south, have fine or coarse hair, or is tall or short. Now that you have a list of differences, I shall give you an outline of action- but before that, I shall assure you that DISTRUST IS STRONGER THAN TRUST, AND ENVY IS STRONGER THAN ADULATION, RESPECT OR ADMIRATION.
The black slave, after receiving this indoctrination, shall carry on and will become self-refueling and self-generating for hundreds of years, maybe thousands.
Don't forget you must pitch the old black VS. the young black males, and the young black male against the old black male. You must use the dark skinned slaves VS. the light skin slaves. You must use the female VS the male, and the male VS, the female. You must always have your servants and OVERSEERS distrust all blacks, but it is necessary that your slaves trust and depend on us.
Gentlemen, these kits are your keys to control, use them. Never miss an opportunity. My plan is guaranteed, and the good thing about this plan is that if used intensely for one year the slave will remain perpetually distrustful.
-WILLIAM LYNCH-1772
The letter above is one of the major problems of the African-American race today. And with this knowledge we as a race can and will over come. So with this letter still in your mind I ask that you enlighten someone else and send this letter to as many brothers and sisters. We as a race must start somewhere in learning our problems what better place than the document that started the destruction of our MOST POWERFUL RACE!!!
see what most church people dont realize is that this worldly shit dont mean shit there are men out here that didnt have a daddy
Posted 06-07-2010 07:20 pm
Erica D says: Seriously? Willie Lynch was proven to be a hoax. That whole degradation of the black race and the division is a myth! There was no man named Willie Lynch who devised that plan, and while the black community (and I use that word loosely) is fractured in that way, it certainly wasn't because of Willie Lynch. And no, quoting wikipedia does not count as actual research. Thanks!
Posted 06-09-2010 01:29 am
coolpat says: This stupid comment she made shows how money hungry, judgemental and materialistic alot of sista's are. They care more about money and material things than romance. Court -- lmao - alot of sista's dont want to get to know the guy to see if they are compatable - its always he has to take her out to dinner, movies or plays instead of going to a park, playing pool, playing putt putt, etc. Alot of sistas think its manditory to have lunch or dinner when you meet or go out. I've talked to multiple sista's and alot of them seem like they want a free meal. if they want a free meal I will take them to a soup kitchen. lol. Same level -- alot of black men dont have the same education or finacial level because society is set up like that. Alot of times when a man is growing up or needs help they look at him and say he's a man he can fend for himself - send himself to college but if its a woman they say or think we have to look out for her. So that excuse about being on the same level is BS. You cant compare especially when you had someone looking for you but the guys dont. Your like soo many steps ahead of him from the jump and its not the guys fault but you want to judge him. You was talking about sex -- its not about sex and you dont say that crap its not about sex when you seeing or screwing multiple guys in a short period of time. Basically behave like your gonna be on an episode of Maury. LOL
Posted 06-08-2010 12:55 am
Zyhiitah35 says: I SECOND THIS EMOTION, I'D RATHER DATE MEN FROM AFRICA WHO APPRECIATE ME FOR WHO I AM AND WHAT I HAVE BECOME, AND MY INDEPENDENCE. THE ADORE YOU AS A BLACK WOMAN. I DISLIKE AMERICAN MEN. THEY WANT TO HATE WHEN WE SAY WE DATE OUT OUR RACE. PLEASE STOP THE BULL. NO ONE RACE IS BETTER THAN THE OTHER EVERY ONE HAS THEIR FLAWS.
Posted 06-08-2010 01:18 am
allegra says: Ive read alot of commets, not just on this subject, but yours is most real I appreciate it because i live it. im like really why should i be expected to be all this when i hold myself to a certain standard.
Posted 06-08-2010 08:50 am
Allergic2suckaz says: Some statements that Slim made is true and the others are without any merit. A majority of African American women DO stick by their men throught thick and thin... but when he makes it big or gets his 15 minutes in the light the first thing he goes and does is get him a white girl. Now, I am not against whites and blacks dating... because you cant control who you fall in love with. What I am saying is that black men want us to stick by them through the good and the bad but they dont even stick by us. NOT all African American females standards are that hight. All we mainly want is a good guy with a job, a home and some goals. You dont have to make 6 figures or be the next Jonnie Cocheran... just be you...
Posted 06-07-2010 02:32 pm
cublktigress says: This from the dude that cheated on Letoya Luckett to have a baby by his cousin....Dude you need more people!
Posted 06-07-2010 02:48 pm
LoveMyBlackWoman says: I think slim thug and dudes like him are weak in the mind and spoiled. Why would you want a woman that will let you roll over her? He says his girl graduated from Columbia and treats him like a king. Does he think a black woman who graduated from Columbia would not do the same? It seems the only black women he deals with are money-hungry and poorly educated while the white women (or half white, in his case) have a college education and some common sense. Black men like him don't want to be held accountable for their actions and therefore go after the type of woman that will let them do whatever they want. More often than not, a good black woman will hold you down and treat her black man like a king, as long as he treats her like his queen. I love my black wife and all her attitude. I know she has my best interest at heart. And I also know that I can't do something that is detrimental to our relationship and expect her to accept it. She is a damn good cook and a wonderful mother to our child. What more could I want?
Posted 06-07-2010 02:49 pm
Zyhiitah35 says: THANK YOU LOVE MY BLACK WOMAN . A BLACK MAN WITH SOME SENSE. YOU ARE A RARE GEM AND YOUR WIFE IS BLESSED TO HAVE YOU
Posted 06-08-2010 01:30 am
jason32 says: And you know what it is not our fault you all choose niggas to be with instead of black men
Posted 06-07-2010 02:54 pm
Ima says: Miss nikki hasselbarth I would have hoped your degree from Columbia would have gotten you further then bed hopping with dudes like this. You are much better then that. Put that degree to use.
Posted 06-07-2010 02:55 pm
jason32 says: I noticed aLL YOU BITTER ASS WOMEN ARE IGNORING MY COMMENTS. It is not our fault you all chose bad men. Thats why parents used to pick their daughters husband because if a guy say some nice lines next thing you know you all are in love.
Posted 06-07-2010 03:08 pm
kooly says: @ JASON32 WE ARE IGNORING YOU BECUASE WE DONT CONVERSE WITH JACK ASSES. YOU MEN SOUND BITTER BETTER YET LIKE BITCHES, HOW MANY PEOPLE ARE YOU GOING TO BLAME AND BITCH ABOUT, FIRST IT WAS THE WHITE MAN, NOW ITS THE SISTERS. WE ARE MORE EDUCATED THEN YOU THUGS. ITS A FACT LOOK IT UP. YOU ARE LEAST LIKELY TO GRADUATE FROM COLLEGE PERIOD OUT OF ALL RACES. WHO WANTS THAT, PLEASE GO TO WHITE WOMEN AND LET THEM DEAL WITH YOUR BULLSHIT. MORE AND MORE BLACK WOMEN ARE DATING WHITE MEN. JUST LOOK AT THE STARS, GARCELLE BEAUVAIS, EVE, HALLE BERRY, THE VERY SEXY KERRY WASHINGTON, NAOMI CAMPBELL, IMAN, ...NO ONE OF SUBSTANCE IS CHECKING OFR YOU! STOP BITCHING AND MOVE ON!
Posted 06-08-2010 10:09 am
Coffey0072 says: You know, I am getting so sick and tired of this tug-o-war between Black men and women. Black men have been espousing this antiquated rhetoric for the past 50 years or so. Slim Thug outlined a lot of what *he* wants but didn't outline how *he'd* reciprocate those gestures. I'd like to think that relationships go a little deeper than cooking and catering to someone, who feels self-entitled and doesn't think he should do something to nourish.
Slim Thug and Black men of his ilk will perpetuate the fuckery he gave as examples... rapping about taking women on shopping sprees and lavish trips... but will be angry when they're held to that particular standard. What he outlined in his interview spans a wide spectrum and is not behavior exclusive to *just* Black women. ALL women and men have the capacity to hurt someone or be jerks. The last time I checked, the bulk of the mistresses/gold diggers in the news aren't just Black women. The energy you put out is what you get back, bottom line. You go looking for drama or looking to find flaws in someone... waiting to pick them apart; then guess what? ... the relation-SHIP will sink faster than the Titanic.
The same way his brother relates to his White wife, is probably different than how he tried to get on w/ a Black woman. Respect is a two way street. It's not rocket science. He's hurting, so I'll forgive his generalizations and ignorance.
Posted 06-07-2010 03:19 pm
Hmph says: It's not right, Bub B, but it's okay.
Posted 06-07-2010 03:28 pm
mich says: I find it hard to believe that this type of stupidity somehow finds a public platform. What in the Unkle Ruckus hell is going on here? "Successful black men are kind of extinct" So he's throwing black men and women under the bus in this article. I have no problem with IR dating on either side. Do you. However, its when black women and men that date out and feel the necessity to throw the opposite gender under the bus that we have a problem. It is also why lots of blacks assume when they see someone dating outside of their race that they hate black men or women. When you go out of your way to make generalized, untrue statements like this, you might as well be a racist white person.
Posted 06-07-2010 03:32 pm
Mr. C says: Hmm ! what Slim is saying has some truths to it but only in the 'hood' if you're going to go after hood chick whose only way out is to have a baby collect child Support or keep messing with the drug dealers because thatwhat's she's around 24/7.
in the mean time, there are a lot of sister out there who can not recognize a man with potential. if an AA woman is only going to clubs, and around the corner for a potential mate, of course the chances or running with some "jailbirds" is very highly ( can't blame a sista for not knowing , you got to blame the environement that she grew up in and the parents that thaught her if any). you got sista growing thinking having babies in the absense of the father is the norm, hustling is the norm and an easy way out is the way to go in life.
Im speaking from experience when I say, being a good student in schoolw as considered a "GEEK", not smoking and drinking, I was considered "whack" and if you dont have the latest gear out, youre' "CORNY" ( these women was too caught up in what's up to date but forgot what was "RELEVANT". after all said and done,now I'm the one with the good jobs and living live with ease and not have to worry about bad credit ( because I spent my money wisely instead of smoking weed with it and not paying my bills on time).
now I don't even look at them twice ( black, white, or blue). if you're not about something, I "AIN"T' even going to entertain the idea because a lot of them want the geek, the well educated guy with the credit, the house, the car now and have NOTHING to show for. ( where the hell were you when I was putting in work???..lol).
Posted 06-07-2010 03:39 pm
Ceole_Diva28 says: Well i must say this is truly interesting..... i didn't read it all but wat i did read is true, like he said 50/50 i do everthing for my man, what ever he ask & he does da same. He is home ever night no questions asked : house always clean, dinner cooked ever night, kids in bed when he gets home, lights out it goes down & i'm a QUEEN of BEAUTY. He lets every one knew he is going no where & we've been together 5 1/2 yrs. ((MR. SLIM has da right idea)) he not saying kiss their ass just stand by their side ladies ((THATS MY FEELINGS)) !!!!!!!
Posted 06-07-2010 03:51 pm
Cookie says: ~YES IF IT IS SOME HUSSAL MESS THEN ITS 50/50 ...BUT IF IT IS LOVE 100/100~ NOW THAT IS REAL L O V E~
Posted 06-08-2010 04:52 am
you must be slow. says: There are just so many things DISTURBINGLY wrong with this.
One, generalizations like the ones found in this shameful excuse of a quote are what hold people back.
Two, sorry, but last time I checked, if a woman is doing EVERYTHING you "TELL" her to, I'm figuring she's trying to get into your pocket.
Three, Black women need to bow down ...what, is this a publicity stunt? Are you trying to sell another record or something?
Four, you have the audacity to talk about "Black people's" mentality when yours is two seconds away from the short bus.
There's too much in this for me to even process. Thanks a lot Vibe for actually publishing this ignorance.
Posted 06-07-2010 03:54 pm
you must be slow. says: Oh, wait, aren't you the same one that was constantly cheating on LaToya Luckett, a Black woman? It's alright, I'll wait.
Posted 06-07-2010 03:55 pm
Zyhiitah35 says: LOL! LOL! I LIKE THIS . PREACH.. HE'S AN ASS. HE'S TRYING SELL RECORDS.. THIS IS A PUBLICITY STUNT. JUS THAT HE LOOKS LIKE AN ASS DOIN IT..
Posted 06-08-2010 01:52 am
Epitamy says: THUGGA WTF IS YOUR PROBLEM?? (just pondering)
This article is pretty ignorant I'm a black attractive female living in NYC with a good job and white friends and black friends male and female with good jobs.. I surround myself with good people, the negativity spewed at blacks of both genders is pretty outrageous and the fact that artist we" look up" (use this term loosely) to have the audacity to propel this ignorant way of thinking is just as sad. Slim Thug a black man saying "successful black men are extinct" is pretty sad, considering he is one himself one should only measure success on a personal basis....perhaps he subconsciously considers himself unsuccessful considering his stalled career. Stereotypes are something we as a people cannot escape but we don't need to turn against each other with them. I've dated outside my race, i'm educated, social,marketable :) i've been told, very well cultured, and actually date men outside of my race as well as black men. Do I feel the need to obliterate black men or downplay "MY FATHER'S" (a strong black man's) role in my life. No! So what i've dated deadbeat black men do i think all black men are deadbeats no that's called "Stereotyping" its pretty ironic all these black men/rappers whining abt black women forgot they were the ones there when shit was going sour, before they got the big deals, nice chains etc. Now that ish don't matter anymore, ha ironic how every bar you hear from a rapper is abt loyalty and they seem to lack it the most when it comes to black women. wrapping it up if you wanna date outside your race do it I could care less, but its the negative connotations you wanna put on allll black women that eff me up in the head :/
Posted 06-07-2010 04:09 pm
Epitamy says: THUGGA WTF IS YOUR PROBLEM?? (just pondering)
This article is pretty ignorant I'm a black attractive female living in NYC with a good job and white friends and black friends male and female with good jobs.. I surround myself with good people, the negativity spewed at blacks of both genders is pretty outrageous and the fact that artist we" look up" (use this term loosely) to have the audacity to propel this ignorant way of thinking is just as sad. Slim Thug a black man saying "successful black men are extinct" is pretty sad, considering he is one himself one should only measure success on a personal basis....perhaps he subconsciously considers himself unsuccessful considering his stalled career. Stereotypes are something we as a people cannot escape but we don't need to turn against each other with them. I've dated outside my race, i'm educated, social,marketable :) i've been told, very well cultured, and actually date men outside of my race as well as black men. Do I feel the need to obliterate black men or downplay "MY FATHER'S" (a strong black man's) role in my life. No! So what i've dated deadbeat black men do i think all black men are deadbeats no that's called "Stereotyping" its pretty ironic all these black men/rappers whining abt black women forgot they were the ones there when shit was going sour, before they got the big deals, nice chains etc. Now that ish don't matter anymore, ha ironic how every bar you hear from a rapper is abt loyalty and they seem to lack it the most when it comes to black women. wrapping it up if you wanna date outside your race do it I could care less, but its the negative connotations you wanna put on allll black women that eff me up in the head :/
Posted 06-07-2010 04:09 pm
Epitamy says: THUGGA WTF IS YOUR PROBLEM?? (just pondering)
This article is pretty ignorant I'm a black attractive female living in NYC with a good job and white friends and black friends male and female with good jobs.. I surround myself with good people, the negativity spewed at blacks of both genders is pretty outrageous and the fact that artist we" look up" (I use this term loosely) to have the audacity to propel this ignorant way of thinking is just as sad. Slim Thug a black man saying "successful black men are extinct" is pretty sad, considering he is one himself one should only measure success on a personal basis....perhaps he subconsciously considers himself unsuccessful considering his stalled career. Stereotypes are something we as a people cannot escape but we don't need to turn against each other with them. I've dated outside my race, i'm educated, social,marketable :) i've been told, very well cultured, and actually date men outside of my race as well as black men. Do I feel the need to obliterate black men or downplay "MY FATHER'S" (a strong black man's) role in my life. No! So what i've dated deadbeat black men do i think all black men are deadbeats no that's called "Stereotyping" its pretty ironic all these black men/rappers whining abt black women forgot they were the ones there when shit was going sour, before they got the big deals, nice chains etc. Now that ish don't matter anymore, ha ironic how every bar you hear from a rapper is abt loyalty and they seem to lack it the most when it comes to black women. wrapping it up if you wanna date outside your race do it I could care less, but its the negative connotations you wanna put on allll black women that eff me up in the head :/
Posted 06-07-2010 04:13 pm
dertoit dimplez says: straight up and that right because have of these hoes want money but dont want to get down for they daddy stand for nothing settle for less dat bitch dimplez
Posted 06-07-2010 04:15 pm
BLACK AND WHTE SWEETNESS says: @ YOU DUMB ...LETS SEE WHAT IS YOUR NAME dertoit dimplez...... LMAO.... you see you are not my daddy or any grown women daddy... Because my daddy did not make me stand up but my father took care of me ..now that is a daddy ... so dont call your weak pimping azz a daddy...
Posted 06-08-2010 05:00 am
MissMemorable says: All of these supposed 'men' that are on here talking about how right this man is, are deplorable. Before you go out expecting the world from a woman, do us a solid and get a decent education, job, and self respect and then we can chat. Your spelling is embarrassing and your viewpoint in skewed at best. Find some real empirical evidence that supports your BS or sit the hell down. Listening to a man that rumored to have slept with his own cousin makes you look the fool, not black women.
Posted 06-07-2010 04:23 pm
GodFearing says: I wonder who told Slim Thug to write this article about relationship. It's the blind leading the blind. If you wan to know the true meaning of real women please open your bible to Proverbs 31. Don't let Slim Thug tell you how a your woman (White or Black) should act. Let God tell you! Then you know if you trust in Him, he will make sure your relationships is a success if built on His foundation.
Posted 06-07-2010 04:29 pm
Shanna says: OR how about you go to the right places and stop tryna f*ck every gutta b*tch. Always searching for a female that will give it up and that you barely know and expect her to be a wife the next day. Let a female with morals come around and shes considered a square. I'll let it be known that just because you have an education doesn't mean you can't be a hoe! I'm a black female and could easily say black men have too many kids, more than one baby mama, can't committ, no job, in jail, got a record, a felon, no education, down low and lazy but I choose not to because I know there are good black men out there. I'll just be smart and not look in the wrong places. Can anyone tell me when the roles changed around here? When black women try and be independent we are stuck up and tryna be white. When we try and let you be head of household, we are lazy, gold diggers and tryna get over on you. Could you make up your mind? Maybe if we had stronger black men who did not disrespect us or call us out of our name you would receive something different. My personal opinion, if you wanna go that way then go ahead. I have yet to find a black man with a white woman I would want so in no way is this affecting me! Good Day! (Oh, I guess this comment means I'm a black woman with an attitude! Get Real!)
Posted 06-07-2010 04:30 pm
Mr. C says: Hey Shanna I feel you 100%, a lot of "Brothas and Siatas, (black men and black Women) are looking at the worng places and complaining and whinning about the ish.
I'm college educated, job, no jail record, no baby moms, and no babies, but yet I'm considered picky and think I'm all that because I refuse to deal or settle for the so called "norm' ( the flashy women, the weed smokers, the getting drunk all weekend instead of picking up a book or do something productive type)..lol
but I can see where you're coming from and I totatly agree with you.
Posted 06-07-2010 04:39 pm
Mz♥Blackness says: THANK YOU..I agree with you, please help the rest of these so called Brothas understand that without standards you will get what you seek out. I too am college educated, job, no record, no baby daddies, and think that men who think that I should just talk to them cause they cute or what not..if you have no goals to do something better with yourself we can never see eye to eye...
Posted 06-07-2010 06:47 pm
Mychal Smith says: http://lifestyle.thisweekinblackness.com/2010/05/27/dear-black-men-lets-just-stop/ and that's all I have to say about that...
Posted 06-07-2010 04:30 pm
ejae says: the bottom line is there nothing wrong with black women thats who they are if you don't know how to handle them without beating then your going to go threw some thangs i dealt with every type and stereotype blackwomen what the the thing is they want a man or the preception of one at least if you look like you bout something then they act right if you tell them the truth up front they'll ride and die for you to me black women are the easiest to how should i say love, control,manipulate, get you to treat you like a king, to pimp, etc.etc. im saying that to hurt but tomake aware of the blackwomen faults if you been hurt or your the mad blackwomen then your the easiest tomake you fall in love and get you to stand by me cause more in likely you never had a dude like me that tells you everything even if it hurts your feelngs but in the end you 'll understand thats what a man suppose to do.
Posted 06-07-2010 04:41 pm
DCChic says: I'm going to need equal bashing of men and why the successful black man is in limited supply. Lucky that Slim has a rap career and money, but every other dude out here wants to be a rapper or some shit. Are we suppose to bow down to them when they aren't doing anything with their lives but hoping and wishing someone will come along and grant their wishes. I think not.
This is exactly why i date outside my race, this is exactly why I don't trip off of having a man, because at the end of the day. I'm not about to bow down for a loser. I totally think that woman who want to get and cheap a man need to do something to keep him coming around. At the same time some men aren't looking for all that, and just want to enjoy a womans company.
I will treat a real man good, like a woman should but not these anything ass men who are in the club but broke, men who would rather buy a pair od jordans then save that shit...men who will put some 2000 rims on his bucket ass car lol. If i'm in school and working 40 hrs...then he needs to work and bring something to table also. I finally found a old school gentleman and i make sure I keep his ass around.
Posted 06-07-2010 04:42 pm
Marcy says: First, Slim Thug need to go back to school to learn how to write. I saw so many errors in his commentary.... His analogy of black and white women shows his ignorance... What woman white or black wants a man who cannot speak or write proper grammar?
Posted 06-07-2010 05:04 pm
kooly says: @ marcy
he cant black men aren the least likely to graduate college out of all races. they always talk about us playing our roles, how about your role as the provider or head of household. Majority of black men are missing in action (prison). black women are more and more successful because we have no choice, lets continue to build that success! forget these men moaoing and groaning about the white man, and the black sisters, the are all bitches that are bitter and they call us bitter, while you are bitching we are handling our business...LOOK UP THE STATS. WE ARE BECOMING MORE AND MORE SUCCESFUL!
YALL BETTER STOP WASTING YOUR TIME WITH THESE LOSER AND GET WITH A MAN THAT WOULD DARE DIRESPECT YOU, LOVE YOUR HAIR AND SKIN AND FEEL U ARE WORTH PAYING FOR DINNER! NON BLACK MEN IS WHERE IT IS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! CHECK OUT THIS WEBSITE INTERRACIALLYMARRIAGEMINDEDSITERS ...GOOGLE IT, THERE ARE TONS OF SITE FOR BLACK WOMEN, THEY ARE PLENTY OF NON BLACK MEN THAT WILL PUT A RING ON IT. BOTH MY SISTERS ARE HAPPILY MARRIED TO WHITE MAN AND I AM NEXT!
Posted 06-08-2010 10:20 am
ejae says: also there nothing wrong with the blackmale either the problem is that black men and women trying to change people in to them . if wvery body was a tree huggin lift every voice and sing, uplift the blacks read a book, then you've would found them by nowokay.. two don't believe evrything you see ,read or watch just you see every blackman tryna to be a drug dealer rapper, balller ,nba star fuckin every blackwomen and the golddiger the red bttom wearing hoda accord driving , mrs ghetteo fab out there doesn't mean thats not there is out here it amaze how some people use this or say that there no blackmanouthere cause there lock up, or gay or dead while its true that not the entire blackmale race see blackmen think diffrent we know that there more women then men on this planet so we have the mind frame we can get another chic black white mix etc.. woen don't have this mind frame so the get f'ed up then both sides keep dating , messing around with the same type of person but the reality is that all men are the same and ladies listen cause all of y'alll use this line "i'm not like most girls i'm diffrent " in reality you to are all the same . so recap stop trying to change people find someone that is the counter part of you for example im a leo to the T so my girl is an excact counter part of me
she my fe male leo so we have alot things in common good and bad we love we fight we play yaaadaa yaadaa but thingsis she doesn't try to change me and i don't try to change her .
blackwomen and blackmen need to know that .
Posted 06-07-2010 05:06 pm
Grown Up says: This is all about him taking jabs, Slim could care less about a black woman or any other woman for that matter. True love don't blast anybody in a magazine (and the jabs at Latoya don't make you a man, hint hint, that's weak). If and when men began to care truly about black women they will stop rapping about women in the their songs, calling them disrespectful names and stop showing naked butts in their videos. MEN will begin to somehow sit down with women to dialogue about this subject. I love men, yeap men in general, but we don't know like one another never-the-less love or care for each other. Jumping on magazines and talking in interviews about how black women are not treating black with respect is not a resolution. I have so much I could say, but I'm going to pray instead of getting angry.
Posted 06-07-2010 05:12 pm
CW says: I think Black women need to wake-up and see the "Black Community Machine" for the dysfunction it really is:
http://blackwomendeservebetter.com/?p=3912
http://sojournerspassport.com/the-first-national-tune-out-neutral-low-value-and-no-value-black-men-week/
Posted 06-07-2010 05:18 pm
mycityisHOUSTON says: first of all we have to remember that this guy is not like most black men. He is a famous underground rapper where as i am just a hard working black man. i'm not saying i agree with him just that he attracts a different group of women. he started out as a hood star so i can see how he attracted money hungry black women. but as for me, i am the king of my castle and my black queen is down like 4 flat tires! she stands by my side through thick and thin and i wouldn't trade her for anyone no matter their race. slimthug just hasn't met the right black woman. damn i'm glad i'm not him!
Posted 06-07-2010 05:20 pm
Ceole_Diva28 says: WoooooooooooooooooooW is all i hav to say (flav voice) Slim don't let ours feeling get at you u said wat u had to say & thats that .....sum gona hate sum gona love__ ON 2 DA NEXT 1 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NEXT TOPIC
Posted 06-07-2010 05:30 pm
Doesn't_represent_all says: @Ceole_Diva28 LMAO.. You are the ignorant classic example of the type of girl slim thug dated in his past excluding Letoya..that made him think the way he does. You didn't even read the whole article, which shows clearly your lack of education. Sista... these BOYS are talking about YOU step your game. Go read a book.. (inyourvoice) on 2 da next 1!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You give us all a bad name. (ignorantchick) WOW .. he would not date lmao I'm sure of it.. Idk why your backing him..
Posted 06-08-2010 01:32 am
BLACK AND WHTE SWEETNESS says: ~ @ Ceole_Diva Can I ask you something??? Are you looking for a job from SLIMIE ..ok then go to: www.I need 2 feel Dumb more the I already sound and look.com ...... this is the TOPIC you lost soul.... where is your man @ while you are here on co-signing for SLIMIE SLIM tryin to ride his C&%K..... if that is to hard for you make out ...just azz your so call happy man that you left to write all your messy mess for slimie slim and all these azz of SUPER DUMB babies ..would want to be MEN...but dont want to to work for it..... like they want Black Women to do.... DONT YOU GET IT>>>>PLZ read past the word RAPPER
Posted 06-08-2010 05:33 am
karenwwe says: I'm glad he's not referring to me...I pay my own bills and put myself through college and I can cook. LOL Now my friends on the other hand, they need to read this. I keep telling them to stop depending on a man for everything and take care of their own shit. But nope!!! Just like some of these chicken heads on here getting upset and being all defensive, they'll never learn or they'll learn the hard way when dude rolls on to the next chic and gets married to her. LOL Man up ladies and take care of your own dayum selves!!!
Posted 06-07-2010 05:40 pm
Anon says: Your thoughts are offensive, and insulting to black women. I'm glad that you've let your thoughts out all in the open so that we'll be sure to steer clear of you, and warn others not to pay any attention to your balderash.
Posted 06-07-2010 05:41 pm
Tayah says: Although he had SOME valid points, it was unfair and incorrect of him to generalize ALL black women and white women. To say that white women are submissive or domestic, and that black women just want expensive gifts, etc., is wrong. That is not my mentality at all (black woman), and not all white women are submissive or domestic. It all depends on your mindset, how you were raised and what you were exposed to in life. Period. PEOPLE need to work on themselves and relationships in general. People as a whole. No specific race.
Posted 06-07-2010 05:51 pm
jazmin says: alot of people judge now a days about mixed relationships and it is totally wrong coz a man is a man and woman is a woman regradless of their colour or religion. i am in a mixed relationship i am white and my partner is black and the area we live we get alot of trouble and things off people who dont like it which is the whole street. but i wont move because we are happy and they are just small minded people wit noting better to do
Posted 06-07-2010 06:00 pm
jazmin says: alot of people judge now a days about mixed relationships and it is totally wrong coz a man is a man and woman is a woman regradless of their colour or religion. i am in a mixed relationship i am white and my partner is black and the area we live we get alot of trouble and things off people who dont like it which is the whole street. but i wont move because we are happy and they are just small minded people wit noting better to do
Posted 06-07-2010 06:00 pm
Big Ric says: Everything Thugga said is absolutely correct. Look no further than shallow black women on the basketball wives, chilli, and lisa raye. There is no problem with having legitimate standards, but when you come at fokes acting like you holier than though, and yo shit dont stink, you need to check yourself. Alot of black women are superficia, and prefer a dude that will treat them any kind of way but that will buy them shit as opposed to a stand up dude trying to do the right thing, and build his way from the ground up. Ive been in a relationship with plenty of black women, it was always the same old shit. wasn't about holding each other down, it was about what can you do for me black man. So i dated a couple of white women, and the one thing i noticed was that not only do they have no problem catering to you, all the expect is you keep it real with em, and companionship in return. Now when a black woman sees me with a white girl, they roll they eyes, but just yesterday you wasnt tryna hear what I was saying in ya ear cause I wasnt saying gucci, louis, prada. Don't get mad at a good dude for being sick of that bullshit, step ya game up!
Posted 06-07-2010 06:05 pm
KOOLY says: STEP YOUR GAME UP! WE ARE DOING BETTER THAN YOU..ITS A FACT THE WHITE MAN AT MY OFFICE LAUGH AT THE FACT THEIR ARE MORE BLACKWOMEN GRADUATING COLLEGE THEN BLACK MEN, WE OWN HOMES AND CARS AND MAKE A BIGGER SALARY...YOU SHOULD STEPYOUR GAME UP..YOU LIVE WITH YOUR MOMMA IN THE PJs.
FOR THE RECORD THE 6 WOMEN ON BASKET BALL WIVES AND 3 OF THEM ARE BLACK THE OTHER 3 SPANISH, BUT ALL YOU SEEM T SEE IS THE BLACK WOMEN....YOU BLACK MEN ARE THE BITTER MAD ONES AND THIS IS PROOF, OPEN YOUR EYES, WHITE WOMEN ON DESPERATE HOUSE WIVES OF ORANGE COUNTY, NJ AND NY ARE DOING WHAT YOU ARE SAYING THAT BLACK WOMEN ARE DOING THE ONYL DIFFERENCE IS THAT THEIR MEN DONT DISRESPECT THEM ONLY BLACK MEN DISRESPECT THEIR WOMEN...LADIES THEIR IS NOTHING LIKE A MAN THAT LOVES EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU, YOUR SKIN, HAIR, AND BODY...A WHITE MAN IS STRONG ENOUGH TO WIFE YOU A BLACK MAN CANT HANDLE US BC THEY ARE SCARED INTIMIDATED INSECURE AND FILLED WITH SELF HATE FOR THEIR COMPLEXION AND HAIR. IN OTHER WORDS THEY ARE THE ANGRY PUSSIES,,,,,WHITE AND NON BLACK MEN IS WHERE IT IS AT, JUST ASK
CHILI, NAOMI CAMPBELL, EVE, VENICE WILLIAMS, GARCELLE BEAUVAIS, KERRY WASHINGTON, IMAN, ALEKWEK AND THE LIST GOES ON WHITE MEN ARE THE TRUTH STOP MESSING WITH THESE BLACKLOSERS! DONT SETTLE FOR A THUG, WE ARE EDUCATED AND SUCCESFUL WE NEED T FIND A PARTNER TO COMPLIMENT THAT NOT BRING US DOWN AND DISRESPECT US
Posted 06-08-2010 01:17 am
Big Ric says: Amen sister! You told me! Lol! I agree with you that most of these nigas need to step they game up too! They are the ones making the smart ones like myself have to work ten times as hard to overcome the sterotypes society has when it comes to black me. You found happiness in other races, well you are just like me, the situation is just flipped. My problem with black women is they criticize black men for dating other races (black women don't get that same criticism) and turn their noses up at black men who do so, but what they don't realise is that all that we did was meet someone of another color that loved us for who we were, and not what we could do for them, and decided to see past a color to find happiness. Again I say, black women with that mentality, step your game up! As a black man, I have already stepped mine up!
Posted 06-08-2010 01:41 am
kooly says: THAT IS RIDICULOUS, MAYBE IN THE 90s, BUT EDUCATED BLACK WOMEN CAN CARELESS WHO YOU ARE WWITH, WE HAD THIS DISCUSSION BEFORE, BLACK WOMEN HAVE MOVED ON AND EMBRACED NON BLACK MEN, BOTH MY SISITERS MARRIED A WHITE MAN, I MARRIED A BLACK MAN THAT WAS JEALOUS OF MY SUCCESS, I HAD TO BUY OUR HOME ALON , BC HIS CREDIT SCORE WAS TO LOW AND THAT TURNED A WHOLE CAN OF WORMS AND BITTERNESS TOWARDS ME, I WILL NOT STOP MY PROGRESS FOR YOU LAZY IGNORANT HOODS. THE FACT THAT YOU THINK WE ARE EVEN THINKING A CERTAIN WAY IS HILLARIOUS, THE ONLY BEEF WE HAVE IS THAT INSTEAD OF SAYING I AM ATTRACTED TO WHITE WOMEN, YOU MAKE FALSE ACCUSATIONS TO JUSTIFY YOUR ACTIONS, MAN UP. FIRST IT WAS THE WHITE MAN KEEP YOU DOWN , NOW ITS BLACK WOMEN,...I LAUGH AT YOU BLACK MEN BC, MY MOTHERS FAMILY IS FROM DR AND THEY TALK ABOUT BLACK MEN LIKE DOGS, BUT THEY WILL GET WITH ONE FOR A MEAL TICKET. STOP BITHCING ITS GETTING OLD, WHO ARE YOU GOING TO BLAME MEXT. YOU GUYS ARE PATHETIC, LATINO MEN ARE MORE LIKELY TO GRADUATE COLLEGE THAN BLACK MEN, GOOGLE THAT. YOU GUYS ARE AN EMBARASSMENT TO THE HUMAN RACE PERIOD! BLACK WOMEN CONTINUE TO CLIMB THE COPORATE LADDER...AND WE ARE DOING IT WITH WHITE MEN GIVING US THAT SUPPORT. LOOK AT EVE, KERRY WASHINGTON, NAOMI CAMPBELL, IMAN, ZOE SALDNANA, ALEK WEK, VENIS WILLIAMS, HALLE BERRY, GARCELLE BEAUVAIS, AND MANY MANY MORE WE DONT WANT YOU AND CERTAINLY NEVER NEEDED YOU BUMS!
STEP UP YOUR GAME YOU WILL NEVER BE ON OUR LEVEL AS WELL AS OUR WHITE HUSBANDS!
Posted 06-08-2010 09:59 am
eve says: *mind blown*
i'm only 19.
i just got off work.
sitting in MY apartment.
working on stuff for my classes. third year of COLLEGE. (hook 'em!)
that's first.
THEN i'm black.
at least in my naive mind, i guess.
so this makes me sad. no matter what i do, at face value, i'll just be the black girl who does/wants/never [fill in the blank]. I literally laughed when i got to the "my girl is black and white" part. this can't be true. i almost give up.
i doubt the writer/poster will even read the comments, but if could ask, what was the purpose of this post?!?!?!?
positivity or negativity? and i know it's not for the sake of "debate". everyone's already made their point, and slim thug (please tell me he has a real name) seems to be set in his ways. so....what then?
-sincerely,
one disappointed as hell black chick.
Posted 06-07-2010 06:11 pm
Psssh says: This low life doofus of a rapper needs to be igged right into obscurity and out of commercial existence, and low life doofus magazines like the silly NEW vibe need for us as black consumers to do the same.
It's a new decade, a new president, a new millenium, and a fresh opportunity to heal our nation. I believe in us my Black sisters and brothers, I really do.
Posted 06-07-2010 06:17 pm
CW says: Dear Slim Thugg,
Have you ever seen Snapped? If not, you really should watch it. It depicts what happens in households were men have women who just "shut up and listen" and require nothing of them. Eventually they snap and that "king" is no more.
How is it that you feel men should give orders and directions without providing? See, your job as a man is to provide, if you believe her job as a woman is to cook, clean and nurture.
You may have this idealistic view of "white women" and what they do or don't do, and see it as something spectacular. However, if you ever get a moment, you'll also see what lies beneath. These women are shattered to their core. They pop valiums, xanax and anything else they can consume to keep themselves from snapping.
The core of issues in relationships is lack of communciation and lack of respect. Clearly your brother sees women as servants. He likes to give directives. That's fine if you're in the military. But God never saw it as so. Read the Bible (if you have that type of belief system). The first line in the text about submission is "Submit yourselves one to another". Meaning both are to submit. Everyone always skips that part.
If you want a woman to "do what you say", join the military. There are a number of female soldiers. Your woman is not supposed to be a weeping willow. Life comes through her and from you. You are equals. That means you give love and you get love. You step up as a man and she should need for nothing and want for little. That is the same for her.
But if you want to be commander in chief, it is not to happen in a harmonious household. Black men who think the way you do have a problem with their own masculinity. You think you have to rule over someone to be a man. Makes no sense. You are a man by birthright, act like one.
Posted 06-07-2010 06:27 pm
CW says: @Big Ric
Sweetie, how long to you expect women to wait for you to come up? Stop using women as an excuse for your own lack of drive, grit and determination. If you weren't looking for women like Chilli and the basketballwives (you know, being shallow yourself), you'd see the number of average women who you can actually get.
If you want a woman wearing Prada, Gucci, and Louis; then you need to have means to provide it. Otherwise, seek women you are able and equipt to provide for as a man. If you want to be with a white woman, by all means, do so. Just stop blaming sistas for your inadequacies. If a woman takes you as you are and asks for nothing in return, then she doesn't have much value in herself.
A relationship is about give and take. Not about someone listening to your "I'm trying" song or "Work with me" blues. Get yourself together and don't expect a woman to be your crutch.
Posted 06-07-2010 06:35 pm
Big Ric says: Lol at black women like you who take offense to something that you may not even be included in, but the fact remains that if so, you are an exception, not the majority. The days of our grandmothers, and mothers have long passed. My generation of black women as a whole (cause just like I get categorized with the stereotype of most black men, same has to go for the women) are lazy as hell, want everything delievered to them on a silver platter, and ain't even willing to clean up they own damn house. True enough it's a bunch of lame ass, lazy ass negroes running around out here that take pride in stupid superficial shit. I'm not one of them. I'm a young intelectual. Go back and read carefully what I said before you respond with stupidity, because I guarantee I can talk circles around you in a debate on current events that's going on in the world at this time. You talk about me watching shallow ass black women that claim to be successful off of someone elses success on tv, but I'm lthe new form of psychologist. I look at the shit and wonder what makes our culture base our existance on bullshit. You on the other hand are single handedly responding to everyone's post. Got alot of time on your hands huh? Lol. I'm a wonderful father, extremely intelligent, and treat my women like royalty. Black women need to step the game up like thugger say! The reason why these kids are killing and dropping out of school is because the women are too busy chasing these lame ass nigas with tatoos all in they face over real men like myself. Then they dumbass act suprised at the end result, 2, or 3 kids, stalker ass baby daddy, and thats when a real man like myself just pass right by they ass in the street shaking my head. Raise ya damn kids, y'all are the foundation of the black community, black men are the pillars. If you don't fit into the category, you won't take offense. I don't need a female period to validate who I am. Black women are the one's depending on men for their crutch. Don't get mad at thugga for calling it like he seen it, cause as a successfull black man, he has had his share of triflin ass chicks running up to him offering they temples for luxury like this the barter system we are operating on. Shit, most of the women who mad that he said this gonna try to get at him still if they see him in the streets. I wish it were more solid black women out here to choose from, but in this day and time, most of the good looking ones are organized groupies. and If they are not, they need to get they ass from behind these keyboards, and get out here and lead the way and show people it's another side to our culture like I do on a daily bases for the men. Then tell me something. When I see more Michelle Obama wanna be's than Rhianna wanna be's then holler at me. Walking around with ya nose all turned up at black men driving these damn pintos or at the bus stop, and then got the nerve to get mad at black men cause they tired of yall shit. At least the black women like my grandmother who talk shit know how to cook a damn full course meal, step ya game up!
Posted 06-07-2010 11:50 pm
KOOLY says: YOU ARE A TRUE JOKE AND NOT AS INTELLIGENT AS YOU CLAIM,THE REASON WHY THESE KIDS ARE KILLING AND PARTICIPATING IN SELFISH CRIMES IS THE LACK OF FATHERS,THATS WHY BLACK WOMEN ARE FAR MORE SUCCESSFUL THAN BLACKMEN...YOU ARE THE INTELLECTUAL THEN YOU SHOULD KNOW THE STATS,I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH YOU WANTING TO BE WITH A WHITE WOMEN ,BUT DONT DRAG US THROUGH THE MUD,,,THE ONLY RACE OF MEN THAT DISRESPECT THEIR WOMEN, I DONT DESIRE BLACK MEN PERIOD, STOP BLAMING BLACK WMEN FOR THE FALL OF THE BLACK COMMUNITY TAKE RESPONSIBILITY, THE ROOT OF THE FAMILY IS THE BLACK MAN IF HE WAS AT HOME WITH THE FAMILY LIKE BACK IN THE DAY, HALF THIS MESS WOULD NOT BE HAPPENING, I DONT DEAL WITH OPINIONS OR EMOTIONAL RANTING JUST FACTS AND THE FACTS SAY IT IS BLACK MEN THAT NEED TO STEP THEIR GAME UP. BLACK MEN ARE THE LEAST IN THE ENTIRE COUNTRY TO GRADUATE COLLEGE, HISPANIC MEN WILL GRADUATE BEFORE A BLACK MAN, ITS A FACT LOOK IT UP, WE ARE ACTAULLY DOING WELL FOR OUR SELF....YOU ARE IN PRISON, LIVING ON THE DL OR JUST PLAIN ILLITERATE THUGS THAT CANT CONSTRUCT SENTENCE OR FORM A THOUGHT, PULL UP YOUR PANTS AND STEP YOUR GAME UP!!!!!!! THATS A FACT NOT YOUR EMOTIONAL INTELLECT BS!!!!
Posted 06-08-2010 01:27 am
E_DUB says: @KOOLY All you can ever say on here is look at the stats, how about dig deeper and find out what the root cause of the stats are, you keep claiming how intelligent you are. Food for thought because your brain is starving, a woman White, Black, Asian or whatever race or nationality will only go so far because it is still a man's world and a White man's world at that. A Black male is more threatening than a Black female to take a White man's job in his White World. He will give you a Black female a great salary and give you a small position of power but in the end you will be passed over for bigger positions , larger salaries for his white male counterpart. Then it's Black females like yourself (not all) that take this job and little status and run with it, thinking Mr White Man gave me this great paying job so now I am now better than you. This has caused so much division between Black men and women it's ridiculous, but the stats don't show that. The stats don't show some of these successful Black women that talk down to their hardworking garbage man husband because he's not making the money she is and she doesn't forget to let him know it but that Black man worships the ground she walks on, I've seen that quite a few times I haven't published stats on it though so oh well. You fell for the whole division scheme take the man from the woman and watch the race fall.
Posted 06-08-2010 01:58 pm
CW says: Sorry, I am the last two CWs, I didn't see that someone had already used that monicker.
Posted 06-07-2010 06:43 pm
butterfly says: That dumb ass NIGGA...Maybe its the level class of women he ben fucking wit...He really shows how IGNORANT he is...It can be black, white or any color for that manner. If you come from the ghetto that is all you know, nothing else. So that stupid ASS nigga been fucking around with GHETTO as black women because his ASS fromthe ghetto. What he dont know is that if his ass didnt have NO money he would have not came across the quality class women he claims to have now, because he would not have had the money to be in her circle...DUMB ASS NIGGA! It has NOTHING to do with COLOR but everything to do with the level of class that you have...dummy came from the GHETTO so he still sound like as dumb broke NIGGA....WHAT A FUCK UP MIND SET THIS FOOL HAS.....STRAIGHT UP DUMMY AND NOW WE LOOK DUMB AS BLACK PEOPLE AGAIN....KEEP THOSE DUMB COMMENT IN YOUR DUMB HEAD....IT SOUNDS SO MUCH BETTER THERE...SMDH!
Posted 06-07-2010 06:51 pm
Rich says: CW, As much as you say the relationship is give and take, you have contradicted yourself by saying "If a woman takes you as you are and asks for nothing in return, then she doesn't have much value in herself". It couldn't be that she's possibly content without material possesions. I mean don't get me wrong, I love spoiling my girl, but the reason why is because she doesn't ask all of the time. Being black yourself you should realize how hard it can be on US as a race, and because some of us don't have the means to support ourselves through college, doesn't mean that we aren't worthy of being loved. Don't get me wrong, TLC didn't want no scrubs, and neither does the population. But because we can't indulge you all the time, we shouldn't be considered? This is another reason for inequality in our nation, women can't be considered equals by the government solely because they don't WANT to be treated equally as individuals. When was the last time you gave something to your man and didn't ask for anything back?
Posted 06-07-2010 06:54 pm
Rich says: BUT OF COURSE, you have to realize that this is SLIM THUG we're dealing with. A rapper. Not a consciencess one like Nas, or Lupe, or Common etc, but a rapper who always talks about chains, women, drugs etc. And if you're taking heart what HE has to say, then you need to get your priorities straightened out.
Posted 06-07-2010 06:56 pm
whytekoco says: On sum real talk... How u feel is how u feel... I culd care less, bt I do think it is funny 2 how many ppl took it there... I didnt get mad bout how evry1 talk ths an tht bout the white women... N the end blk/wht man/woman ppl jus don't kno what it takes 2 make each other happy... stop worryin bout what the next 1 think... its ur life ur livin it f the next 1 tht don't like it or cant appreciate what u do 2 b happy, bc they not as happy as they wanna be... maybe u an ur man shuld cook 2gether sumtimes... maybe we shuld meet n the middle an have each other...
Posted 06-07-2010 06:59 pm
aisha1908 says: If all Slim Thug wants in a woman is someone who will cook, clean & do as he says, he should hire a maid that is willing to sleep with him. I am glad that I have never in my life met any man who espouses these ideas. White, black, latina, whatever - any woman doing as her man says without reciprocity will get tired of it. without fail, that act gets tired. no human being - period - will continue to take orders with no benefits for very long. I am not offended by this post because Slim Thug couldn't attract a woman like me in his wildest dreams. If this is how he feels, let him & the other clowns who agree with him continue fooling with the clownettes who live up to his beliefs.
Posted 06-07-2010 07:05 pm
afropick85 says: Exactly. I hate when black women in the media are always viewed as something negative. It is hardly anything positive that depicts black women in a positive light. I'm tired of people like Slim Thug who always generalize black women vs white women or black women vs latinas and so on. All women have their fair share of problems. It is not just black women who have the problems. Black men also have properties problems too! Spending more money on their cars then taking care of their family. The black community as one needs to address their insecurities together without the generalizing so damn much about how other races are better.
As for Slim Thug, hey, do me no favors as a black woman in retracting your blog! Yet you are now aware the words you've said have struck a nerve in black women.
Posted 06-10-2010 05:22 pm
formerly CW, now CMWriter says: @Rich
There were no contradictions in my comments. He wants a woman to take directives without supplying her with anything. (Material or otherwise.)
If you go after materialistic women, this is what you get in return. Women who ask ask ask ask. And if you honestly believe that the only woman who is materialistic is the one who asks all the time, you have been blessed enough to have protection from really materialistic women. They ask for nothing, but manipulate to get what they want.
I didn't take anything to heart. I write a relationship column. Slim Thugg is not the only black man uttering such thoughts. There are Black doctors, lawyers, postmen, and whomever else who share his logic and his perception of what should happen in relationships. Slim does not exist within a vacuum. Read some of the comments from the men here who are "cosigning". I'm certain they aren't all "ignorant" rappers.
Posted 06-07-2010 07:08 pm
idrislove says: I'm sorry but I strongly disagree with your setiments, I think black men complain about situation such as materlistic women because they never really experienced a true relationship, It puzzles me how as a man you strive for success then don't want to except what goes along with it, and I mean all that goes with it, Why do you think any human wants success, notarity, fame, and fortune? They want people, women, and the like to look and them and say how important they are so why wouldn't you expect for a women to want you for the same things you attained?
Posted 06-07-2010 11:06 pm
Jill says: Its quite interesting how a star would make all those negative comments about any woman in general…... I wonder if he knows that people from other races will be watching and reading to see how the black race will continue to strip each other of dignity and respect with their crude comments. I am a black Canadian female and I can proudly say that I watched my parents take care of each other *Mentally, spiritually & with sharing cooking duties* And im quite sure that I do the same. This is something that I dont understand its bad enough that we as human beings are divided by colour but why must black women and men have so much animosity towards each other?? Slim is someone who poses a little power to influence people….why would he in turn be so hypocritical and ignorant about people that look like him and are also a part of his family. This is why I don’t listen to music from people like him, its corruption and frankly very sad. Id be ashamed of myself if I were him, because on behalf of AMZING, talented and kind hearted black females im ashamed of what this man has dared to publicly say to the world. He’s probably a great person but he has chosen the wrong route in speaking his mind about people that have come such a long way. I’d like to dare him and anyone else in that entertainment industry to get to know me for who I am and hopefully learn not to judge a whole race so negatively. Peace, love and self-respect.
Posted 06-07-2010 07:09 pm
formerly CW, now CMWriter says: @Rich
There were no contradictions in my comments. He wants a woman to take directives without supplying her with anything. (Material or otherwise.)
If you go after materialistic women, this is what you get in return. Women who ask ask ask ask. And if you honestly believe that the only woman who is materialistic is the one who asks all the time, you have been blessed enough to have protection from really materialistic women. They ask for nothing, but manipulate to get what they want.
I didn't take anything to heart. I write a relationship column. Slim Thugg is not the only black man uttering such thoughts. There are Black doctors, lawyers, postmen, and whomever else who share his logic and his perception of what should happen in relationships. Slim does not exist within a vacuum. Read some of the comments from the men here who are "cosigning". I'm certain they aren't all "ignorant" rappers.
Posted 06-07-2010 07:09 pm
enia says: Finally,Someone Speaks The Truth-But Baby This Aint Just Blacks -Hunny Thats All Race.
Posted 06-07-2010 07:34 pm
Vicky O. says: Every time I see a post/article on this topic I think to myself, "wow, we really live in an ignorant world". What most guys don't seem to realize is you get what you go after. You want a woman who is always dressed in top of the line stuff, always has her hair/nails done, always looks movie star ready? Newsflash! Chances are she's not the one paying for it, and if you want to hook up with her and keep her that way you have to foot the bill. On the other hand, if you look for a woman who is educated, has morals, and grounded, and you present yourself correctly to her (don't try to get in her pants on the first date) chances are you can find yourself a good woman. Most "good" women look average because they are content with themselves. They don't feel the need to show out for attention, because they know they possess the real deal and that once a man looks beyond the outer image, he will appreciate her. To make a long story short, a lot of black men have been brainwashed into thinking that a certain type is what they should be striving for, not realizing the things that come with the certain type. Men should date people on the content of their character, and then they'll be able to weed out the gold diggers. And if you keep running into the same type of woman, change your criteria and your search radius, because chances are you are just being to shallow. Good women exist, unfortunately, most men are to lazy/shallow to find them. And on the black/white thing. I don't have an issue w/ it. My problem is that men think that white women are better, because that what society has told them, so they refuse to search for the good black woman. The reason why I personally would prefer a black man is because they understand the struggle, the culture, the history. That gets lost in interracial relationships. I've dated outside my race, and its awkward b/c others don't understand the struggle. That's what the issue is. And its sad. And now I'm rambling. *ends opinion*
Posted 06-07-2010 07:35 pm
The One1 says: @CW Or Who ever you are. Look, a relationship is not about give and take, FOOL. Its about compromise and being 50/50. Thats the reason Slim is fed up. Im a successful graduate with 2 degrees in architecture, So succesfull black men do exist. The woman im about to marry accepts me for who i am and what i offer (even if i only offer a loaf of bread and a glass of water at that time, she still loves me). It has never been about money, this is why we will make to the alter and will have a happy life together. She stayed by her man, even during times when he had only 2 dollars and a ball of lent to his name.CW, honestly, Grow up, and go read Yahoo's top ten reasons of how to keep a Relationship from failing. Its sounds like you need to brush up on some new reading
Posted 06-07-2010 07:40 pm
Rich says: @CMWriter I see your point, and I assume that I have been blessed :D.
@The One1 Err. For a person with 2 degrees, you're sounding really uneducated right about now. I mean in a sense with the name calling. Such is not necessary, and if you're taking advice from Yahoo... well... LOL.
Posted 06-07-2010 07:45 pm
Slack says: To everyone reading, writing, and so on, Slim was trying to make a point. The problem is that he did it in a manner that only moderately educated people can understand. For those of you that need a visual reference, please go watch "Not Easily Broken" starring Morris Chestnut and Taraji Henson. It is one of my favorite movies because it displays what some men actually feel inside and can not verbally express. Plus it shows how detrimental a mother's input can be to a relationship. Simmer down people. We are not the enemy.
Posted 06-07-2010 07:50 pm
E.Monique says: this mans opinion shouldn't make nor break some of you leaving comments. We as black women (the good ones) know what we do and we do it well. I am an educated young black woman working 2 jobs and i don't expect for any man walking this earth to take care of me. I take care of myself, i work hard for the things i have and i expect a man that wants to be with me to do the same. I don't agree with a man living off of his woman nor a woman just sitting around being a baby maker. black women stand by their "man" and it is not easy to do so. I stood by my so called man and all that came about in that relationship was a child born a year after we were dating. I commend theses women for the things they put up with. although i love black men i have noticed that men of other races have treated me as a queen more so than black men. I don't understand how a man can expect for a woman to "listen" to him, in a relationship we are equal. A woman is not her mans child. respect goes a long way and i personally have no problem respecting my man as long as he respects me. and as for black women being gold diggers, gold diggers are not just black. Its so sad that black women have to bear the burden of this stigma and foolishness
Posted 06-07-2010 07:58 pm
The One1 says: Rich, The person was called a fool, because i find it insulting that a woman has to be seen as not having value in herself if she gets with a dude based off of love without expecting cash, cars, and clothes. Is that not what we all want.....Someone down to love and trust for life. Oh and by the way, the Yahoo comment was a sarcastic one.
Posted 06-07-2010 08:04 pm
Baby Huey29 says: I'm going to put it out there like this first of all slim thug says that black women are not to be trusted but some of these black mens are not to be trusted either cause some of these mens don't realize they have a good woman and some do and still treat them like dogs and shit but see they always with this excuse that some mens are not raised up with daddies and what bout the females who are not raised up with neither or raised up in foster homes and how they was raised so that's not an excuse at all cause they have some that are raised up with bot parents and still treat females like shit. Honestly to me it all depends on what that person man or female want out of life and where they want to be. So this slim thug needs to watch what he say bout black womens can't be trusted cause men can't either. I'M STRONG BLACK 29 YR. OLD FEMALE WITH 2 KIDS AND I WENT TO COLLEGE HAVE A GOOD JOB WORKING AT THE HOSPITAL I ALSO HAVE MY OWN HOUSE SITTING ON MY OWN LAND AND MY CAR IN PAID FOR PLUS I LOVE TO COOK AND I LOVE TO TAKE VACATIONS WITH MY KIDS. So personal with me if you can't respect my kids you can't respect me. I DON'T ASK A MAN FOR NOTHING NO MONEY, NO CAR, NO CLOTHES OR ANYTHING THAT HE THANK A BLACK WOMAN CAN ASK FOR EVERYTHING I GOT I DID BY MYSELF AND STILL DOING IT!!!!!!!!!!
Posted 06-07-2010 08:10 pm
formerly CW, now CMWriter says: @Rich, Thank you sir.
@TheONE
Reading? Really? Ummm ok. Do you not understand that compromise is equivalent to "give and take"? When you compromise you give up something to get something. Meaning there is reciprocity?
"Give and take" has nothing to do with being materialistic. It is understanding that you do not rule over someone. You share the load, the successes and failures. Slim Thugg asserts that he wants a woman who does what he says. There is no reciprocity or 50/50 in what he's saying.
Kudos to you for having two degrees and receiving love advice from Yahoo. If it worked for you, bravo!
Posted 06-07-2010 08:12 pm
CMWriter says: @TheOne1
I see you just don't get it. But that doesn't make ME the fool. If a woman wants NOTHING from you, she does not value herself.
Love is cute for a little while, but that "in love" feeling waxes and wanes. And if all you're offering is a loaf of bread, what are you going to have when it runs out? If you are not taking care of your other husbandly duties, trust and believe that "love" feeling is going to vanish quickly.
I know there are several women who feel they can live off love, then the mortgage comes due. And they realize love does not pay the bills.
Love is beautiful, especially the kind that puts faith and emotions into action. Meaning you stop saying what you do not have and you go out and take care of your family and responsibilities.
I never said you should not work with a man who is already working toward something (which apparently is how you read it). My comment was for the continuous "I'm struggling" song being replayed over and over. Therefore it was directed at the person who said it. (was that you?)
You should really learn how to control your emotions. Not a good look for a grown man.
Posted 06-07-2010 08:27 pm
AlwaysPenUltimate says: All of this back and forth is so crazy! I wish people could respect each other! If a relationship is not 50/50, I don't want it, period. I don't think it is fair that a Black woman should have to "bow down" to a many who sees her as one of many he can have. I can't respect a man as my King if he doesn't see me as his Queen.
I'm not one to always complain about being single, but I do believe I would enjoy (and am ready for) a 50/50 relationship. However,if there is an issue, we should be able to talk and discuss it without me being seen as "nagging" or whatever. This is upsetting. I'm beginning to think that I'll be single forever. I don't have it in me to adopt the kind of attitude that Black men seem to want me to have. Respect is a two-way street. I can be "submissive," but not disrespected or taken advantage of. Submissive is a word that people don't seem to understand anyway. If it is in a Biblical sense, then yes, women are submissive, but still respected. Men are to hold them in a loving standard similar to how Christ regarded the church.
I don't need a man to buy me things, but I do need emotional support, and that is where a lot of men seem to be lacking. If we don't "get it together," they are on to the next one, leaving us to wonder what happened, when all we wanted was some emotional reciprocity. Not all, but many.
Black women have issues, but so do Black men. Why are we the ones that need to drastically change?
Anyway... I could talk forever (kinda just did), but I'll leave this... Until the next comment... :)
Posted 06-07-2010 08:36 pm
Anonymous dude says: Well, just to share an experience, I remember when I was younger I was riding public transportation. While standing at a bus stop, I used to he these hot sistas all the time, and they never responded to a brutha. However, try had a lot to say when they saw me get on the bus one day with a white girl! I left from that experience thinking if I would have rolled up in an SUV, maybe they would have responded to me differently?? Sad but true..
BTW, I am now happily married to a Latina that didn't mind comin up with a brutha, and I'm now the owner of 4 successful businesses. Maybe all sistas are not like those, but that is just one experience of many that I've had as an African American man.
My defense when someone clowned me about dating outside my race was "so I guess I'll be alone to please the black woman the...yeah right!!"
Posted 06-07-2010 08:44 pm
Stacie Coleman says: I am not about to entertain Slim Thug's remarks, as a matter of fact: Slim Thug who?! He made a stupid generalization about black women and it was unwarrented. He can kick rock without any shoes.
Posted 06-07-2010 09:05 pm
BLACK AND WHTE SWEETNESS says: ~LMAO~ YES HE CAN....no wait broken Glass with out shoes on and anybody who feel the same way....and he cant Rapp unless he gets a REAL JOB WRAPPING gifts oh wait I think he did and he might be the reason Most of JCPenny went out of business....(that is if my notes is right)....just joking....
Posted 06-08-2010 05:17 am
KayJayDBD says: He makes some valid points. And some of y’all sistas who simply overreacted without taking time to really take heed to the message he was trying to convey are probably guilty of doing the same shit he calling y’all out on. There’s really no need to get into the whole nuance of racial dating, because when you look at it, strong women come in all colors & flex strength in different ways. However, I do see a general consensus among brothers who date other ethnicities about how the non-black woman is more likely to compromise. That consensus IS disturbing on the grounds you ain't gotta be black to NOT put up with bullshit & compromise with your significant other. But since we are talking gender relationships within the black community, I will say this: No one side can get the blame. Each side is guilty of selfish fuckery which has endangered us & future generations. I ain’t even gonna sit here & try to dig up what he’s done in his personal life to justify his comments. I’m all about the message & the message is that we must raise the standards on BOTH sides.
Posted 06-07-2010 09:06 pm
MS.REALTALK says: If you can't respect his mind you don't deserve a black man.
Posted 06-07-2010 09:20 pm
Phoxxnphoenix says: I second Alwayspenultimate,
Honestly Brothers you are Kings and as a queen I should never have to be on my knees to please you. I understand how the brother feels that talked about his bus stop drama. I am a hardworking professional, and honestly I have always been looked are sideways. I don't have kids because I wanted to be married. I don't need any money or $3000 bags. I am independent because simply I am alone. I am not really upset about Slim's views because he is NOT my target audience anyway lol. I am really happy that the world is changing. Brothers I am your #1 supporter and want you to date whoever you want black white whatever I don't care. I got fed up along time ago, maybe there is just too much painful history between black men and women. Women who sacrificed too much of themselves for brothers that didn't love them back. I apologize to brothers who gave up their $$ to some gold digger because he thought that’s what she wanted.
Either way brothers...... listen ya'll I take personal responsibility for all the times I stayed in relationships that sucked. I will try not to blame my new man stuff that was done by men in my pass. It's easy for me to let it go, so when you see me out; remember that I have a career, I pay my own bills, I cook, I clean and I can sew.... not buttons …..Clothes like your grandma used to. Please don't look at me dirty when I am with a white man etc. I work hard and out of necessity I too have evolved. All I want is a man I can stand next to who loves me for who I am * and if my past is painful he is willing to love me beyond that too! I will not spend my time searching for a needle in a haystack when I can go out and get a back of them with no trouble!
Posted 06-07-2010 09:35 pm
mcanderson says: "slim thug says that black women are not to be trusted but some of these black mens are not to be trusted either"
People can't look past their own pride to see the message he's trying to convey. The point is not all black women are this way but a large percentage are. He is speaking from a perspective for normal good guys who are looked over because they don't have the funds to provide the luxury life the majority of minorities dream of attaining. Treating you as a Queen does not necessarily mean putting a diamond studded crown upon your head, it means attending to every NEED you may have not the Louis Vuitton purse you've been eying for the last 3 months. Women these days aren't down for the adversity all successful men have to face but are happy to take full advantage of his achievements as If they deserve it just for being there during the good times. Then while enjoying the benefits of the work he put in they aren't even willing to comply to simple things a man may ask.
Look even past race and just comprehend the concept.
This has nothing to do with bum ass niggas because he wasn't speaking on behalf of them.
His personal life doesn't matter whatsoever, his words for the most part are valid.
Posted 06-07-2010 09:38 pm
Love anyway says: Mr. C , u summed it up pretty much on why Slim feels the way he do about black women.. U can't go looking for a clean towel in the mud...
Posted 06-07-2010 09:42 pm
patricia wilson says: i agree with slim in one aspect and that is when he says black peoples (not all in my opinion) mentality is messed up. but what he forgot to point out that means his included. listen to what he says about his own lady (the white part of her is the part that cleans cooks etc...you see he has proven with his own words the he is a product of mass media brainwashing... an agenda that has been pushed by the elite since the dawning of time. it is design to make the black race feel inferior thus promoting white on a pedestal. like we gotta get like white to be right. whatever happen to just falling in love..instead of seeking to fall in love with a particular shade of hue...once again they have suceeded in promoting ignorance amongst the human race by even waisting time on the putrid ignorance spewd from the mouth of a truly confused individual.
Posted 06-07-2010 09:42 pm
Love anyway says: Oh that applies to blk women also. Simply looking for love in all the wrong places. When u stop trying to match materials and start matching hearts, the light will shine!!
Posted 06-07-2010 09:44 pm
oo says: Thats why real men focus on money and say fuck love until their mid 30's when they can find a woman that's off that bullshit
Posted 06-07-2010 09:50 pm
Kevin says: This is some of the most racially self-effacing shit I have heard a negro utter in a while and I'm not even old yet. Like who you like, Do who you Do but don't make sweeping generalizations. There was almost a shred of logic in Slim's umm..argument untill this NIGGA said his girlfriend is 50% white.....REALLY SLIM, no NIGGA, REALLY did you just use that Willie Lynch related logic to help heal the state of relations between black men and women?? Come harder than that. It is a systematic problem and pointing the finger and making half baked/thought up comments will do nothing to heal the situation. Slim first change ur stage name, b/c you are perpetuating the thug stereotype that many of these black disillusioned black women seek and start a foundation for inner-city girls and other SLIM THUGS (humph) in the hood which is an untiring machine for producing and inculcating of values or lack thereof in these types of young men and women. Smoke on nat!
Posted 06-07-2010 09:53 pm
Kevin says: and anothA thing...lol I want to apologize to all black woman on behalf of black men, most dudes don't know it -but just don't want to do the work it takes to find the right one and want everything to fall in our laps, and if anything else does for a black man in life-right? No one in your life worth a dam is always going to "do all the shit I say" as Slim so eloquently worded. His word choice spoke volumes to his character and what he seeks so just say that and keep it pushing bruh. You do not represent what all most of what "successful" black men think! We have forgotten that we are CONQUERORS and it is only in the mind that this situation shall change, black successful women now outnumber us for a myriad of reasons, so Slim's article makes even LESS sense b/c we have more choices of successful black women, he failed to mention that important dimension of this equation. Respect one another people, it does SOO much, b/c it's almost over anyway and what memories will we have created to look back upon?
Posted 06-07-2010 10:12 pm
Kimmi says: well said! clearly he can only speak from his experiences, so that what hw should speak on. im so tired of people saying there is a shortage of black men and black women, there isnt. or good mean or good women period. its jsut hype. glad to see an intelligent perspective :)
Posted 06-07-2010 10:46 pm
me too says: Preach on! Thanks for that! it's nice to be reminded that there are some real brothas out there that have their priorities straight. You da man!
Posted 06-14-2010 04:20 pm
kelly ford says: The biggest difference between women and men, especially black is that if men F@ck with a woman they have to like them, either physically or mentally. Money won't make that much difference. Most men don't care if a woman has a car, house etc. They may even help them attain those things. A womans TOP priorty is MONEY. The ugliest man on earth will be instantly attractive if he hits the lottery. Men will gladly be broke with a woman they really like than be with one they don't like who has money. Women will gladly put up with any man if he has money. The only way to tell if a woman really likes a man is if he's down on his luck when she's with him. Sorry if it's offensive. The truth hurts sometimes.
Posted 06-07-2010 10:23 pm
Kimmi says: Slimm Thugg sounds like a retared idiot. Sorry, but maybe the women that you deal with treat him this way because this is maybe the tyoe of women you hang around. You have not dated every white or black woman out there, so until you do, stop categorizing everyone. Women would be wrong to say, all white men want is to show you off, have you help them build the up throughout the years, then leave you for a younger women, or all black men are good for is making babies and leaving them. So please slimm thug, stop with the ignorance :)
Posted 06-07-2010 10:32 pm
Cocoa says: black women need to stick by their men like Slim needs to turn himself into the cops. Cuz I'm quite sure he's guilty of sumpin, yo. Jus keepin it reyal, yo...word.
Posted 06-07-2010 10:34 pm
VCouture says: In the end,when it's all said and done the majority of us are searching for what is perceived to be the "right things" in the wierdest places! What happened to He that findeth a WIFE findeth a good thing?? I mean I'm just saying, the teachings of the Bible will not lead you astray, yet so many people find themselves lost playing this relationship game. All the opinions have been cast, the differences noted but until we invest more time into living morally and righteous, we'll always have men AND women making "suspect" statements that we spend countless hours commenting on. "Trying our case in front of a jury of our peers".......We all know the common issues that we're faced with year after year, generation after generation. Men say women are gold diggers, black women complain, women say black men are dogs, white women bow down, white men pick up the tab......................YADA YADA YADA YADA!!!! When will we look past these silly stereotypes and find other things to discuss??? Yes there are these types of people around, there's no denying this BUT...they don't have to exist in your personal environment. Your life is what YOU MAKE IT...doesn't have to include the bum baby daddy with ten kids or the Chanel Gucci Prada honey who lives off any man willing with nothing but a foodstamp card in her overpriced bag. Know who you are wherever you are and while these comments may prick a nerve here and there, they don't define YOU.
I'm a black woman who looks for the good in anyone I encounter, doesn't mean I have to DATE everyone I encounter...sometimes people are just linked up with the wrong mate, turning a situation that simply shouldn't have been into a "he/she ain't SH-- blame game"
Maybe her needs were valid and normal, you just couldn't provide them at the time...doesn't make her a gold digger, doesn't make you a bum either...just bad timing for the both of you. If we take our time when searching for someone to love, GOD doesn't lead us to destruction. Prayer has a funny way of sending you on a detour past all the nonsense.........
God Bless everyone!!
V
Posted 06-07-2010 10:34 pm
jasmin says: wow! read my blog for my opinion. http://jraquel503.blogspot.com/
Posted 06-07-2010 10:40 pm
Ebony says: I think this is a testiment to the sad state of affairs of the black community! How does somebody like this have the nerve to make such ignorant statements such as these, Black people are in such denial about how pathetic,superficial, disjointed, and negative were are as a race and then turn a blind eye to the real problems, sense black women want so much why the hell aren't all of these black men man enough to take care of their children, or make better decisions by not idiolizing stupid rappers like "Slim Thug" and invest in themselves, and not still try to be "Rappers" at 40 and keep their butts out of the system, and quit using excuses to why they can't be responsible, how about you work as hard as us, while we raise more black boys, and pray to who ever we believe in that he doesn't turn out like the fathers that abandon them? Slim Thug why don't you talk about that...oh I forgot your just another selfish, greed happy, Nicca who thinks that he got his success from being some community activist, and not exploiting his community, black women, and his success! I wonder how many white, mixed, or Latino women he has in his videos? Not many I suppose his videos are full of black, big butt, big chested, black women that he probably paid $100 for the shoot....Go to Hell you hypocrite
Posted 06-07-2010 10:44 pm
VCouture says: What's even more sad is the fact that there will still be countless men and women buying his records...........SMH
Posted 06-07-2010 10:51 pm
idrislove says: And another thing when did it become so fashionable for "Black Women" to except less, why is that ever other race won't even let there girls marry a man if can't be a provider, the only race of men who think that women are suppose to take care of them are "Black Men" slim thug, says his girl graduated from Columbia, did he settle for less, did he get with some chick from his hood, and except her for all her Ghetto Fabolousness, no he got a mixed chick who graduated from Columbia, why the hell as a graduate would I except a man who can't get a job because of his inability to stay out of trouble, or because he decided to have 6 children by multiply women, or some dude who stays with his mother, because he is too lazy and weak to become his own man, Slim Thug please give me a definition of what "Black Women" are suppose to except? I bet he would never answer any of those questions from someone who is really educated and cares about their community, Slim Thug is who we have representing us, and he is making us look baddddd! Shut Up Please
Posted 06-07-2010 11:01 pm
Twistin says: Slim im very dissapointed with your comment.I looked at you diffrent being you know how hard it is for a back women.I know a lot of us have anger problem.But that come from somewhere a white women would not know about.All we look for is a good man that can love us right. But i understand after u had a rough one you can't take the heat.
Posted 06-07-2010 11:22 pm
Twistin says: Slim I am very disappointed with your comment.I looked at you diffrent being you know how hard it is for a back women.I know a lot of us have anger problem.But that come from somewhere a white women would not know about.All we look for is a good man that can love us right. But i understand after u had a rough one you can't take the heat.
Posted 06-07-2010 11:25 pm
LOTUS says: As I read these comments cant believe how may hateful idiots are out on the internet.
Last time I checked being materialistic was not just a black woman's trait. Have you ever thought if the same people gives the same attitude that just may be it is your approach. Or just maybe you find gold digging bad attitude women that happens to be Black because that is what you go looking for.
YOU DON'T GO VISITING A WHORE HOUSE THEN GET MAD BECAUSE ALL YOU CAN FIND ARE WHORES!!!!!!!!!!
And when did expecting a man to be able to take care of his household become to high expectation for a Black woman to have. If you dont think that a white, latina or any other woman would not expect that same thing then you are truly MISTAKEN.
For anybody who happened to have agreed with that story GROW UP its only half a truth to a bigger story.
Posted 06-07-2010 11:36 pm
2cool says: Slim has made some very good points. However, some of his statements could be revised. I don't have a problem with interracial relationships, everyone has a choice. I have only dated african american women and I don't have any regrets. It is a shame that successful african american men are becoming extinct. The biggest issue is that there are so many brothers that aren't doing anything with their lives, that african american women tend to give up and go elsewhere to be treated correctly and progress in a positive direction. A relationship should be 50/50 no matter what the race of the couple. Also, for a man to want a woman to jump when he says jump and sit when he says sit, he will be better off getting a puppy. A relationship can't be 50/50 if the man is expecting the woman to submit to him as if she is a child. There should be checks and balances in relationships. When a man goes over board, the woman should be there to bring him back to reality and vice versa for a woman. If a woman is in total submission and doesn't say anything, it isn't a relationship. That is what you call slavery.
Posted 06-07-2010 11:45 pm
Big Ric says: I'd like to thank slim for bringing this issue to the surface! This has been brewing for a long while. All the angry black women upset at the shit, but we are not entitled to have to be with some non-supportive ass women just because of a skin color. Do something with yourself, complete yourself as a person before you step out into the world chasing luxury instead of happiness. Quit going for money, go for companionship. The money will come if you work as a team instead of trying to conrol young negroes like corporations.
Posted 06-08-2010 12:08 am
PELLEGRO'SWOMAN says: BIG RIC NOBODY OF SUBSTANCE WANT YOU YOU ARE A LOSER, YOU ARE PROBABLY AND EX CON...MORE AND MORE BLACK WMEN ARE TURNING TO WHITE MWN, IN BK AND SF BAY! GO TO THE WHITE WOMEN WE DONT NEED THE STRESS AND THE LACKOF SUCCESS AND INCOMPOTENCE. BLACK WOMEN ARE DOING BETTER THAN BLACK MEN GOOGLE THAT! YOU ARE MORE LIKELY TO LIVE IN THE PJs WITH MOMMY, AND HAVE AN EXPENSICVE CAR. I DRIVE A MODESTHONDA PILOT THAT I OWN, BUT I OWN A HOME IN BROOKLYN, I AM ONLY 32. I HAVE MASTERS.CANT FIND A BROTHER ON MY LEVEL AND THE FUNNY THING IS I DONT WANT ONE. I LOVE WHITE MEN! SORRY JUST BEING HONEST
Posted 06-08-2010 01:36 am
Big Ric says: Well you sure don't have a masters in English! Anyday I'll challenge you and your masters to a debate in current world events or whatever you choose. Please believe this is not the typical black male. The only Pharmacueticals I deal in is the legit one! My whole family is go getters, believe that. Step your game up! Lol.
Posted 06-08-2010 01:48 am
THE CALI BAY 415 510 707 SWEETNESS says: @ so call biG Ric in the SF BAY..you know that Black or Mexican will cut yo azz if come to them with that mess... but are you in the closet gay .... come you can tell me...I already know... was that you I seen on mARTIN bLVD OR IN THE TOWN OR THE RICH El Sereinooooo???? yee YEE!!!!
Posted 06-08-2010 05:51 am
kooly says: YOUR RIGHT ITS NOT IN ENGLISH, AND THIS IS NOT A PLACE TO PROVE THAT I HAVE A MASTERS, TEACHERS AND NURSES ARE NOT CONSIDERED GO GETTERS, I AM NOT BLACK AMERICAN, SO YOU ALREADY KNOW THAT WE KNOW CHOSE TO GET A MASTERS OR HIGHER...YOU BLACK MEN ARE PATHETIC.....THE LEASE LIKELY TO GRDUATE, SO I WILL LEAVE THE PERFECT GRAMMAR TO YOU BECUASE LOED KNOW YOU HAVE TO PROVE YOURSELF. STOP BICHING ALREADY FIRST IT WAS THE WHITE MAN AND NOW ITS BLACK WOMEN! LOL YOUR GAME WILL NEVER BE UP..ASK THE WORLD..YOU ARE THE LOWEST OF THE LOW AND IT WILL ALWAYS BE THAT WAY, LMBAO!!!!!!!!!! GO TO PRISON AND PULL UP YOUR PANTS YOU EBONIC SPEAKING ASSHOLE
Posted 06-08-2010 10:26 am
PELLEGROSWOMAN says: "MY WHOLEFAMILY IS GO GETTERS" ITS ACTUALLY MY WHOLE FAMILY ARE GO GETTERS, AND YOU ARE ONE TO TALK...POINT PROVEN..YOU ARE LEAST LIKELY TO GRADUATE AND YOU CAN EVEN CONSTRUCT A DESCENT SENTENCE.......WE OUTNUMBER YOU IN HOMEOWNERSHIP, SCHOOL, FINANCES AND ENGLISH FOR THAT MATTER!!!LOL LMAO YOU ARE WILL ALWAY BE A HOOD! STOP BICHING FIRST IT WAS THE WHITE MAN, NOW ITS THE BLACK WOMEN WHO IS NEXT...OWN YOUR OWN DESTINY BITTER BOY!
Posted 06-08-2010 10:33 am
PELLEGROSWOMAN says: @ BIG RIC
My whole family is go getters,
YOU DONT EITHER...THE PROPER FORMATION OF OUR SENTENCE WOULD BE
USING THE WORD ARE NOT IS......LIKE I SAID PERFECT EXAMPLE, LEAST LIKELY TO GRADUATE AND USE STANDARD ENGLISH.....LMAO
BLACK MEN SOUND BITTER, WE MOVED ON, WE DATE OUTSIDE OUR RACE, WE ARE GRADUATING AT A MUCH HIGHER RATE, WE OWN MORE HOMES, LEAST LIKELY TO LVE WITH MOMMY AND GO TO JAIL....FIRST YOU BLAMED THE WHITE MAN NOW YOU BLAME THE BLACK WOMEN WHOS NEXT....BOTTOM LINE YOUR PATHETIC!!!! LOSER THUGS!
Posted 06-08-2010 10:37 am
THE CALI BAY 415 510 707 SWEETNESS says: ...@ duM DUM big ric ...WHAT COLOR IS THE SKIN OF YOUR MOTHER AND SISTER OR AUNT OR GRANDMOTHER..... YOUR SUPER DUMB SELF DONT GET IT ...... WAKE UP AND GET A REAL JOB AND STOP KILLING OR HOE'IN YOUR OWN PEOPLE OVER A FEW $$$$ THAT THE MAN IS GOING TO TAKE FROM YOU ANYWAY ...THAT IS IF YOU DONT GET KILL OVER IT FIRST... ARE WE OUR OWN MEN IN WHITE HUDDINS LIKE BACK IN THE 50'S 60'S ..... take care you own PEOPLE..... BUT REAL LOVE SEE NO COLOR.....NOT EVEN GREEN....$$$$$
Posted 06-08-2010 06:03 am
Kandace says: All I have to say is that I am no longer a Fan of slim thug. I have been loyal since he was doing his first mixtapes. We are from the same area of Houston, Tx and it's sad that he would say things like this about his own people. There is no perfect race of people, no perfect race of women or men. There are good and bad in us all. But for him to label us Black women as being this way is out of line. I can't believe that a man that comes from where I'm from would have these views just because he has had some bad experiences. He needs to look within if these are the only types of black that he is coming in contact with.
Posted 06-08-2010 12:18 am
Big Ric says: Kandace dont take offense, as black people, its our job to call each other out, and hold each other accountable. If not, these other races damn sure will. It aint like he said this shit on fox news, he just starting the dialogue. Black women are always calling out black me for dating white women, he is just expressing shit from his point of view. All we can speak on is what we know. Anyone can say, oh its who you come in contact with, but he is the celebrity, they coming in contact with him. for every 1, there is 10 who consider themselves independent, but show no such actions that validate it.
Posted 06-08-2010 12:36 am
THE CALI BAY 415 510 707 SWEETNESS says: ~ what are watching FROM FOX news because all I saw was this "Fox News’ Brian Kilmeade who is very white ....revealed a glimpse into the depths of his own racism on the air recently. During a discussion of a study based on research done in Finland and Sweden which showed people who stay married are less likely to suffer from Alzheimer’s, this exchange happened (short, less than 1 minute):
Posted 06-08-2010 06:17 am
Im_25 says: This is why there's more and more Black Women that are turning to other races..Black Men constantly put us down and uplift Women of other races, but expect loyalty. Black men are the worst examples of manhood on this earth..you lie ,cheat,abandon your kids,sell drugs.are in prison in staggering numbers and kill each other in the streets...This Fat ugly jerk can talk all that White Woman shit he wants but Black men always end up cheatiing and having multiple baby mamas on them too..look in the News..Tiki Barber...OJ..Damon Dash..Barry Bonds..diddy..Tiger Woods are only a few that were with White Women and with disaterous results ..Black men and White Women have very high divorce rates(check the census). I stopped dating and have very little interaction with Black Men because of your mean attitudes and hatred of Black Women in general. I love white and hispanic guys because they treat me well, they love my curves,they love my skin tone and don't try to tear me down at every turn like you do. I say to all the sisters her..don't sell yourself short..try to meet different men..please don't limit yourself..it's just not worth it.
Posted 06-08-2010 12:34 am
KOOLY says: AMEN!!!!! GIRL YOU HIT IT ON THE NAIL! WE ARE MORE SUCCESSFUL THEN THESE BLACK MEN, WHY SETTLE, I DONT AND WILL NEVER DATE A BLACK MEN, THEY ARE JUST NOT FOR ME. THE ONLY RACE THAT PUT DOWN THEIR WOMEN, AS FAR AS I AM CONCERN I FEEL SORRY FOR WHITE WOMEN, THEY CAN HAVE ALL THOSE NON SPEAKING THUG LOSERS!!!
Posted 06-08-2010 01:31 am
Zyhiitah35 says: First let me say I'm A BLACK WOMAN. And i take good care of my home and my man. I'm a single mother of a teenage son, and i have to teach him how to appreciate any woman. SLIM THUG looks to me that you're BLACK. How would you feel if We women start saying that BLACK MEN aren't SHIT. All you want to do is get high, get fucked, and waste money, you have no respect for women. Did it dawn on you that You came from a long line of BLACK WOMAN. And FYI WHITE women have their SHIT with them also. No one race is better than the other, and if so prove it. And is this the mentality you want your daughter to grow up with or should I say you won't be around to raise her. Please LITTLE BOY go sit down you have been seen!!!!! I feel for your mother, that she raised an ASS such your self.
Posted 06-08-2010 12:58 am
SorryImBlack says: Whenever I read foolishness such as this, I wish to God I wasn't born black. Black men are the only ones who publicly and private put down women of their own race. White, Asian, Latino, and others can have bad experiences, but they will never turn it around and blame a whole race of people, and they surely don't do it in a public form, but leave it to the bitter, angry, uncultured black man to do so.
I pity this boy (yes, boy) more than anything because he is pathetic. I suggest the bitter, angry, self-loathing black men take a long good look in the mirror and start talking to your gender about their inability to keep their asses out of prison, from killing each other, from being unemployed, etc., b/c the last time I checked, black women have ALWAYS been holding it down for the family and community. You want to be treated like a king, then you better damn well treat me like a queen because your kingdom must be EARNED. It isn't yours simply because of that dangling muscle between your legs. You want a woman to do good unto you, well you damn better be going good under her.
White women are quickly discovering that your asses ain't about nothing. I'm by no means addressing the down brothers; the stand-up brothers that love and take care of their families and households. I'm talking about the Slim Thugs and those of his ilk.
Lastly, if you don't like black women, more power to you. Keep us out your mouth. If you're happy with the snowflake on your arm, so be it. I'd rather she had to deal with you than sisters. WE'VE dealt long enough.
Kudos to the brothers that have some sense.
Posted 06-08-2010 01:43 am
SorryImBlack says: Attention: To understand the pathology and likes of Mr. Slim, I suggest you read the book, "Brainwashed." Every black person on the planet should read it. It outlines the pathology of the black community and the origins of such pathology. It's a must read!
Posted 06-08-2010 01:50 am
Miss D says: Stayve Jerome Thomas - is Slim Thugs birth name, how dare he bash AA women,
first and foremost, he's needs to get an education, second, he needs to learn how to speak the English language, third, he's probably angry, because no one in their right mind would have his ignorant A!#, fourth, he has no class, fifth, some white women will do anything to be seen with a low class black man such as Slim Thug. Your birth name is ghetto, your rap name is ghetto, and your music is ghetto, (although I have never heard your sorry music) I am sure its sounds just like you speak. And Vibe magazine, sales must be very low, for you to print some garbage such as this interview with this a@# wipe. Desperate times calls for desperate measures. What every Afro American woman needs to do is boycott his stupid music. I love black men, my father was a black man, my son is a black man, my husband was a black man.
Also, he should remember, while he's bashing AA women, he's also talking about his mama.
Oh and Vibe Magazine, I will be canceling my subscription.
Posted 06-08-2010 03:49 am
kelly says: hold on, relationships need to be a "fair exchange", but he wants his woman to do w/e he wants him to do?that's fair?! =/
Posted 06-08-2010 03:55 am
kelly says: hold on, relationships need to be a "fair exchange", but he wants his woman to do w/e he wants him to do?that's fair?! =/
Posted 06-08-2010 03:55 am
DAMOND says: FOR SOME OF THE WOMEN ON HERE THAT SAY THEY HATE BLACK MEN,THANKS FOR LETTING PEOPLE KNOW THAT YOUR A HOE OR YOU JUST HATE THAT YOUR BLACK. I MEAN YOU GOTTA BE A HOE OR A RACIST IF YOU HATE BLACK MEN. THATS TELLIN ME THAT YOU HATE ALL BLACK MEN AND IN ORDER FOR YOU HATE ALL BLACK MEN, I SAY THIS AGAIN YOU HAVE TO BE RACIST OR EITHER BEEN WITH EVER BLACK MAN IN THE WORLD WICH THAT WOULD BE RONG BECAUSE YOU HAVENT BEEN WITH ME,NOT SAYIN THAT I'M ANY BETTER THAN OTHERS WHO KNOWS,CAN ANYBODY TELL ME? I DON'T THINK SO. YOU CAN'T JUDGE EVERY BLACK MAN IF YOU HAVENT BEEN WITH OR SOCIALIZED WITH EVERYBLACK MAN. I JUST THINK YA'LL WOULD LIKE IT BETTER IF WE AS BLACK MEN WOULD JUST DIE AND GO AWAY WOULDN'T YOU? I KNOW YOU WOULD, BUT THATS TO BAD WE ARENT GOIN NO WHERE... SO THE WORLD IS STUCK WITH US UNTIL THE LORD TAKE US AWAY. NO RACE IS BETTER THAN OTHERS,ALOT OF PEOPLE DO RONG,NO MATTER THE RACE. ALOT WHITE MEN AND WOMEN CHEAT,FUSS,FIGHT AS WELL ASIAN,MEXICAN,AND BLACK MEN AND WOMEN. I'VE BEEN WITH A WHITE & A MAXICAN GIRL AND THEY ARE NO DIFFERENT BUT DO I BLAME IT ON ALL WHITE AND MEXICAN WOMEN? HELL NAH JUST I DON'T BLAME ALL BLACK WOMEN FROM ALL THE HEART ACHE AND PAIN THAT I RECIEVED FROM SOME OR THEM IN THE PAST.
Posted 06-08-2010 04:14 am
Uh Huh says: I'll pass on the relationship advise from somebody named "Slim Thug" with a receding hairline. Hmmkay thanks.
Posted 06-08-2010 05:37 am
Uh Huh says: I'll pass on the relationship advise from somebody named "Slim Thug" with a receding hairline. Hmmkay thanks.
Posted 06-08-2010 05:37 am
Ummm! says: Is this the same cat that got somebody else pregnant but his mutt of a girlfriend. Then he needs to stop trying to date the girls for the looks and then he found out their gold diggers now he realizes...Oh im trying to drive a bently instead of a cadillac realizing hes a washed up rapper and his monies not that long to take care of that exspensive ride(female) stay in your lane and then you want think of us (BLACK WOMEN) as a problem. Ive had my own with and without someone and yes i choose not to settle for a simple minded hypocrit like you who degrade us in his music oh and cheats on his mutt girlfriend and expect us to have respect for him. Get a life oh and some new music.
Posted 06-08-2010 06:24 am
Nikks says: What I find amusing is that all of these fools on this board who are agreeing with him. He insulted you your ass as well. He said that when a black man gets a little money he goes into the club and "makes it rain" in not so many words.
This comming from a man who wears million dollar chains. Letoya was so smart to get rid of his ass. The way he is talking in this article it doesn't sound like he wants a companion it sounds like he wants a slave. I really hope that his current girlfriend realizes what a tool he is and gets her ass away from him. I don't know why women on this board are so angry if anything we should be happy that another damaged,troubled,man boy is out of our hair. He weeded himself out.
BTW successful white women will not take a second look at him and mark my words by this time next year his little girlfriends daddy will have her set to marry a successful man. Not some homo thug with his pants around his ankles.
Posted 06-08-2010 07:32 am
Nikks says: What I find amusing is that all of these fools on this board who are agreeing with him. He insulted you your ass as well. He said that when a black man gets a little money he goes into the club and "makes it rain" in not so many words.
This comming from a man who wears million dollar chains. Letoya was so smart to get rid of his ass. The way he is talking in this article it doesn't sound like he wants a companion it sounds like he wants a slave. I really hope that his current girlfriend realizes what a tool he is and gets her ass away from him. I don't know why women on this board are so angry if anything we should be happy that another damaged,troubled,man boy is out of our hair. He weeded himself out.
BTW successful white women will not take a second look at him and mark my words by this time next year his little girlfriends daddy will have her set to marry a successful man. Not some homo thug with his pants around his ankles.
Posted 06-08-2010 07:32 am
J says: I am a black woman that has stood by man through thick AND thin AND when others said I should leave him... I am the type of woman that will work all day, come home take care of the kids, cook, clean and give my man some great loving when we go to bed.
For him to say that the pool of woman he came from isn't as good as other pools of woman is a totally dis. The way Slim Thug carries himself, I wouldn't be surprised if he was attracting only hood rats. However, I think Slim Thug is a fool if he believes that the only reason the woman he is with cook, cleans and allows him to be a man is because she is mixed. That statement is just as ignorant as he obviously is.
ALL cultures and races have "gold diggers" just like all cultures and races have good and bad woman and men. I do believe that the "gold diggers" of other races and cultures hide their true motives better by being more submissive and catering more to a man's ego.
I have never liked Slim Thug much. I always though him and his style were wack. This is the first interview of his I have read. Gotta love that gut feeling. I wonder if he and his current girl have a daughter that turns out well, will he ONLY give credit to the white in his child for that.
What a loser!
Posted 06-08-2010 07:44 am
J says: One last thing... I personally think dating outside of your race is fine. My BFF is a black woman with a white husband and they love each other very much. If you happen to meet and love somebody that is outside of your race, GO FOR IT! Be happy. That is what you deserve....
BUT Please do not say that ANY pool of women or men is better than the pool of woman or men that birthed you. When comments like that are made, you are disrespecting not only your race, but yourself. That is what I have a problem with.
Posted 06-08-2010 08:09 am
PELLEGROSWOMAN says: no one is stating that dating outside your race is a problem, are you reading the same article and comments we are.. its ok to date outside your race, the number of black women dating outside thier race is growing rapidly, the problem is disrespecting black women in order to validate your actions. Theres no need to put black women down. Just date your preference.
Posted 06-08-2010 10:49 am
Genevieve says: Another poor excuse of a black man that made it, putting down black women. Instead of charging of whole race of women with being, gold digging, non-listening, non-cooking creatures, why don't you take a step back and look at the woman your dating. That is what's wrong with the black community in general. No one takes the time to get to know one another. Black men in general, look at a woman's physical attributes to determine is she is worthy of being with. Now I ask you, how can the size of a woman's ass help you determine the kind of person she is?
I am a Black woman, who is at this point frustrated with the ideas of these negros, running their mouths about Black woman. Who appointed these morons as judge and jury?
I am a Black woman who works full time and pay my own bills. I have my own car and apartment. I have paid for dinners, movies, and other date night activities. I also cook, clean and I sew. Presently, I am dating a Brother that makes less money than I do, and he is still the "Alpha Male" in my home.
Now, I ask you, if all of this is the case, how can you charge me with not being there for my man? Or where do I fit on your gold-digger scale? I don't.
Posted 06-08-2010 09:01 am
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