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Jonathan Plummer on Marriage To Terry And Making Amends As An Ex (Pg. 2)

Regarding you and Terry's marriage, there is still a segment of the population that believes you always knew you were gay, and that you married her to give yourself a better life. Want to answer charge once and for all?

Yes. I didn’t dupe or take advantage of Terry. I was twenty years old when I met her which people seem to forget. All they thought is that she was my meal ticket out of [Jamaica] but I’ve traveled before and I visited the states many times on several occasions before meeting her.  And I had no idea who she was when I met her. When she told me I was like ‘Wow, this is who she is.’ So for me it was all-new. I didn’t know who she was at the time and everything was innocent. It’s not like I didn’t love her. I loved her.


So  you're saying  your marriage was an average heterosexual one until you realized you were gay?

I met and led Terry in good faith, I entered the relationship in good faith. We had a path that if anything happened we’d let each other know. Unfortunately, our situation evolved and exploded in our faces. I did things for in our marriage that you do for someone if you’re in love with them. I did her flowers, I’d hold her hand, we’d go out to movies and we’d have romantic evenings together. I did normal things that you were supposed to do in a relationship and in a marriage. I don’t know why people think I took advantage of the whole situation or took advantage of her. We both went in not knowing what the outcome would have been.


And you think your traditional Jamaican upbringing may have delayed you realizing you were homosexual?

Everyone’s experience is completely different. I grew up in a society and culture where we didn’t see same sex relationships, marriages or same sex partners having kids. I grew up in a traditional lifestyle and family. Where once you got older after you went to school college and everything you got married and have kids and you lived happily ever after with the white picket fence. When I came to California I was like wow my world has opened up even more. That was when I realized there was something different about me but this was later.


After you came out to Terry as a gay man you two understandably hit a rough patch in your relationship. Your first appearance on The Oprah Winfrey Show back in 2005 was a particularly ugly period. andthen there were all the lawsuits back and forth that followed.

The journey wasn’t all great along the way; Terry and I went years without talking and it was too much. It was consuming everything in our lives and we weren’t in a good place. The moment we started talking, things fell back into place. It felt comfortable, like some kind of normalcy with us. We’ve known each other for 15 years—so we consider ourselves old friends.


When did you guys reconnect and what is your relationship like now?

Our reconnection is all recent— it’s only been like a year ago that we started talking again. As Terry would say we’re not BFFs, but I can always call her and say, ‘I was just thinking about you today I hope things are going well. If a movie would come on [that we would watch] from the time  we were together, or a song especially would come on the radio that would symbolize [a place we visited], ‘Oh we were in Tahoe skiing or we were on vacation somewhere’ that had some significance in our lives we might text or call each other. We do stuff like that.


I heard after you and Terry’s second and much friendlier joint appearance on The Oprah Winfrey Show this month, you accompanied her to a book signing for her new novel, Getting To Happy in Los Angeles. Is your renewed friendship why you wanted to be there?

Terry wasn’t feeling well and I wasn’t feeling well that day and I did it just to show my support for her. That’s her thing, that’s her world and I didn’t want to seem like I was apart of her entourage or something—which I wasn’t really. But it was actually kind of nice being there with her, supporting her and it just felt like old times. It was like déjà vu because I used to go to a lot of the readings with her. When we looked at each other it was like déjà vu and it felt natural and it took a lot for us to get this point. 


So you're divorced, out and proud, getting comfortable in your own public figure skin and have finally made amends with your ex. Are you dating anyone?

Unfortunately no. It’s sad but it’s true [laughs] It’s hard dating. It is so hard. I’m open to the possibilities of meeting somebody. My friends always say it happens when you least expect it. So I’m putting it out there to go with the flow basically. I’m not opposed to dating but unfortunately I’m not.


You’ve got a new gig on the web but what would your ultimate dream job be?

My dream job would to be an ambassador for the [gay] community. I’d like to be the gay face for Blair Underwood. Be on the forefront of awareness and maybe endorse a product I guess [laughs] I’m open to any possibility I’m not restricting myself at this point. Life is too short, I’m living life to the fullest and living it one day at a time. Nowadays with me, what you see is what you get.





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Fired Minnesota police officer Derek Chauvin was filmed jamming his knee into Floyd’s neck ass he lay handcuffed on the ground, pleading for air. Two additional officers were helping to apply pressure to Floyd's body, while a fourth officer stood and watched. Chauvin was arrested on third-degree murder and manslaughter charges last week. The other officers, Thomas Lane, J Alexander Kuen and Tou Thao, have not been arrested.

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Floyd’s family ordered the private autopsy after the Hennepin County Medical Examiner's Office claimed that his death was caused by pre-existing health conditions.

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Global protests continued to call for justice in the murders of Floyd, Breonna Taylor, and other victims of police brutality and racial violence.

Read the full autopsy statement below.


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“I don’t want to be here,” began Killer Mike. “I’m the son of an Atlanta city police officer, my cousin is a police officer…I got a lot of love and respect for police officers down to the original eight [Black] police officers in Atlanta that, even after becoming police, had to dress in a YMCA because white officers didn’t want to get dressed with ni**ers. And here we are, 80 years later and I watched a white officer assassinate a Black man and I know that tore your heart out. I know it’s crippling and I have nothing positive to say in this moment because I don’t want to be here.”

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Mayor Bottoms simply told protestors to simply “go home.”

“Above everything else, I am a mother to four Black children in America, one of whom is 18 years old,” she said. “When I saw the murder of George Floyd, I hurt like a mother would hurt. Yesterday, when I heard there was a rumor about violent protests in Atlanta, I did what a mother would do: I called my son and I said ‘where are you?’ I said ‘I cannot protect you and Black boys shouldn’t be out today.’ So you’re not going to out-concern me, and out care about where we are in America.

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A message from Breonna Taylor’s family urging protestors to be peaceful, go home and keep fighting for truth.

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On March 13, 2020, Louisville police officers kicked in Taylor’s door without warning and opened fire. Authorities claim that they were executing a “no-knock” search warrant stemming from an alleged drug investigation involving another man who did not live in Taylor’s home, and had already been arrested.

“Police just unloaded 25 to 30 rounds, I mean they’re shooting from the front door, they’re shooting from the window, they’re shooting from the patio,” attorney Benjamin Crump told Essence on Friday. “They’re so reckless, they shoot a bullet into the next door neighbor’s apartment where their five-year-old daughter is asleep in her room. “They didn’t even have to come in her [Taylor's] apartment. They already had the person they were searching for in custody.”

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