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The Vixen Blog: My Best Friend's Bachelorette Party [Pg. 2]

When it came to deciding what type of bachelortte party to plan, I hit a wall. The bride-to-be Kimberly is an educated, well-rounded, successful career gal with expensive taste. She's been my partner in crime for a decade, and like me, it takes a lot to impress her. We are not fans of male strippers; the last thing that makes me happy is some greased up bodybuilder picking me up and getting oil all over my Diane Von Furstenburg leggings. As far as travel, we had done Vegas more times than I can recall, and had criss-crossed the States, Mexico, Canada and Caribbean for various events: carnival, award shows, All-Star weekends, boxing matches, white linen yacht parties, work retreats, and all other types of fuckery hot girls in their mid to late 20's can get into. Reflecting on all of this not only made me more lost as to what could possibly satisfy Kim as her last hurrah as a single woman, it brought tears to my eyes. While our party lives had already calmed significantly over the last couple of years, this event would mark the end of an era.

I ultimately decided on an island getaway. Puerto Rico was perfect for many reasons. It is a US Commonwealth; which among many things means they use US currency and you do not need a passport to travel there. So our friend that had trouble renewing her passport on short notice was still able to join us. Also, while most of my friends are as well traveled as myself, I recommend San Juan, Puerto Rico to anyone that may be intimidated of international travel. It is a relatively fast-paced vibrant city with lots to do, the flight is only 2 hours from Ft. Lauderdale, and if you don't speak Spanish many of the locals are friendly and bi-lingual.

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Emotional Orange Releases Callings Of Love On "Corners Of My Mind"

Mysterious duo Emotional Oranges are taking a reflective route with "Corners Of My Mind," a gentle ode to an old love.

The track which can be found on the duo's SoundCloud page was inspired by their friend who went through a bad breakup. It seems to be the fitting track towards the end of a coming of age romance where the couple goes their separate ways. In an email to VIBE, the faceless group explained how love was the seed that planted the smooth track.

"I watched a close friend go through an awful heartbreak recently," they said. "This song was birthed by me attempting to reflect on how I would have reacted had it happened to me. The irony is as he was losing love, I was finding new love. It made the whole process of writing it all quite painful."

The LA-based pair croons about a painful love life on the soft pop beat. "It was yesterday/You couldn't look me in my eyes, and then/There was nothing more that I could say/I thought what we had was unbreakable/Guess I was wrong/Opened it up, gave you my all/I know it seemed like you weren't enough/Try to forget, peace and reset/But I can't forgive you no more." 

Emotional Oranges have released just a few singles, including the bouncy bop "Motion" and "Personal" that gained fanfare online.

According to the musical pair's Twitter page, fans can expect a new EP, as well as a tour announcement and "cute merch" following "Corners Of My Mind."

 

it’s going to be an exciting few weeks for the orange gang 🍊! new music, ep + tour announce, cute merch etc can’t wait for you guys to see it all x pic.twitter.com/R6biAHWl26

— Emotional Oranges 🍊 (@emotionalorange) March 19, 2019

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Jess Hilarious Apologizes For Xenophobic Comments About Sikh Men

Over the weekend, comedienne Jess Hilarious came under fire for xenophobic comments she made after several Sikh men were removed from a flight she was on.

"If I'm scared I'm scared. F**k y'all. F**k how y'all feel," Jess said. "Y'all mad at me because I don't side with any other black person, because I don't side with every other race. F**k y'all. I feel how I feel. I felt threatened and that was it. F**k y'all, and I'm not flying there. We were evacuated, bitch. Why? Why? with no technical difficulties or nothing."

The Rel actress' bitter language didn't go over well and Twitter quickly reacted. Tuesday morning (March 19) Jess took to social media to apologize.

“So naturally in my previous post, I was defensive, but that’s what happens when you don’t take the time to really know what’s transpiring,” Jess stated. “In understanding the error of my actions, I have to first acknowledge the rooted issues, which means racially profiling a group of individuals based on their appearance and on top of that—publicizing it on a platform where others can be hurt by it and others were hurt from it.”

The comic's comments were especially hurtful as they were made 48 hours after New Zealand's deadliest Muslim attack in the country's history, which left 51 men, women and children dead. The youngest was three-year-old Mucaas Ibrahim.

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Please don’t believe everything you see and hear, this is what it really is.

A post shared by Jess Moore (@jesshilarious_official) on Mar 18, 2019 at 7:27pm PDT

After several members of the Sikh community contacted Jess and spoke to her on why her comments were hurtful and potentially dangerous, she then vowed to donate money to the victim's families.

“I’m not sure if these particular individuals that were on the plane are aware of my actions by now, but either way, I would love to apologize personally to them first for my insensitive and ignorant behavior,” Jess said. “Yet, I would still like to apologize to all of you who were aware and offended by my actions.”

She ended her apology by reiterating her intention is to only bring people joy. “I refuse to teach, spread or be an advocate for hatred—I just want to make people laugh,” she said.

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Cardi B, wearing a long black blazer, a laced black shorts and black heels, is seen before the Mugler show on September 26, 2018 in Paris, France. (Photo by Claudio Lavenia/Getty Images)

Cardi B Remembers Young Fan Who Died From Cancer

Mourning the passing of a young fan, Cardi B posted a message to Instagram on Monday (March 19) to grieve the loss of Alaysia Crockett, who lost a tough battle to cancer.

The rapper began her message writing, "RIP baby girl" before continuing the heartfelt comments.

"When I met this young lady I literally had to hold her and put her against my body cause she could not stand yet she was so happy in a great spirit and her makeup [was] on super fleek," Cardi said when sharing a photo she took with Alaysia. "Her parents were so happy. Heaven gained the prettiest angel your not in pain anymore [sic]."

This makes me so sad 😓RIP babygirl.My condolence to her wonderful parents and family.When I met this young lady i literally had to hold her and put her against my body cause she couldn’t barely stand yet she was sooo happy in a great spirit and her make up on super fleek 💁🏽‍♀️her parents were so happy.Heaven gained the prettiest angel your not in pain anymore 💔💔Alaysia Crockett! FUCK CANCER !

A post shared by CARDIVENOM (@iamcardib) on Mar 18, 2019 at 12:57pm PDT

Some of the 26-year-old's fans also showed respect for the passing of Crockett posting their condolences to social media.

RIP Alaysia Crockett 💔@iamcardib #BardiGang pic.twitter.com/ZKNASZ703n

— harris (@TrueHarris) March 18, 2019

Chance the Rapper, Diddy, Evelyn Lozada, Tiny Harris and Yandy Smith also commented their condolences on Cardi's post.

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