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Homophobia Is The Leading Cause of Gay & Bisexual Male Suicides

Homosexuality and bisexuality amongst black men is a taboo topic most likely shunned than accepted, especially in the music industry. Artists like Raz B who speak about alleged sexual encounters with other men, forced or otherwise, attract negativity and extreme hatred rather than care and concern. One would believe that in 2011, with the LGBT community's increase in number and political voice, more people would be less prejudice of the lifestyle. Unfortunately, many gay black men are suffering by their own hand out of fear of persecution for their romantic choices.


America has a bizarre stomach virus. When we vomit, fluid piles of ignorance and fear scatter across our land, reinvigorating our social prejudices. When we shit, bigotry splatters on the walls of our homes, schools, and social institutions, reaffirming our hypocrisy as a nation in failing to treat people as equals. There is nothing like the smell and consequences of ideological duplicity.

It’s time that we acknowledge the stench of homophobia and how many people have suffocated as a result of our intolerance. Suicide is a preventable death and it partially continues to thrive due to repeated acts of discrimination against individuals’ sexual orientations.

In 2010, the suicides of Joseph Jefferson and Raymond Chase held a mirror up to the continued struggle of gay and bisexual men of color and this country’s shortcomings in providing a safe haven for people of non-heterosexual orientations.

Before taking his life, Jefferson wrote to his friends:

“I could not bear the burden of living as a gay man of color in a world grown cold and hateful towards those of us who live and love differently than the so-called ‘social mainstream.’ Belonging is one of the basic human needs, when people feel isolated and excluded from a sense of communion with others, they suffer….”

For those who ask how we prevent additional acts of suicide from gay and bisexual men of color, it starts with redefining prejudice, reshaping tolerance, and confronting heterosexual chauvinism. Last week, Marsha Ambrosius released a powerful video entitled “Far Away,” which illustrated the emotional conflict within a man who happened to love another man. While this man was openly comfortable in his sexuality, numerous public encounters with bullying and bigotry caused him to struggle internally.

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Little Cheyenne's body temperature rose to a scorching 107 degrees before she died on Sept. 30, 2016. When Baker returned to the vehicle four hours later, Cheyenne was unresponsive. Baker, 29, pled guilty to manslaughter in a reduced plea deal Monday. (March 18) It's unclear if she intentionally left her 3-year-old in the backseat of the car.

“I don’t know what I could ever do to you that could be worse than what you’ve already experienced,” Harrison County Circuit Judge Larry Bourgeois told her. “You will forever be entombed in a prison of your own mind.”

Cheyenne's father says he's still tormented by his daughter's death and often pictures her final moments.

“Every time I close my eyes, I picture her suffering, and then I picture her laying in this coffin,” Ryan Hyer said Monday. “I still see her smiling and laughing in my head, and I would assume that smile and laughter turned to pain and suffering in that instance.”

Baker and her supervisor Clark Ladner were fired days later. While speaking with the Associated Press, he was able to avoid charges after telling authorities he was unaware Baker's daughter was in the car. Judge Bourgeois will consider the prosecution recommendation at Baker's April 1 sentencing.

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Tevin Campbell Lands Guest Role On 'Queen Sugar'

The cast of Queen Sugar plans to welcome a new face to its plot for the upcoming fourth season. On Tuesday (March 19), series creator/director/producer Ava DuVernay announced the addition of R&B legend Tevin Campbell in a guest starring role.

Since August 2018, DuVernay had plans to construct a persona for Campbell after the "Can We Talk" vocalist received controversial commentary on his importance to R&B. "Rebuking any Tevin Campbell slander from millennials and plotting to write him into an episode of Queen Sugar SOMEHOW," the award-winning director wrote on Twitter. "On general principle."

Campbell's film and television resume date back to his memorable appearances on The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, Moesha, The Parent 'Hood, voicing Powerline in A Goofy Movie, and now OWN's Queen Sugar.

"This is so exciting for me and I want to thank Ava DuVernay. She's a do-er, she kept her word," Campbell said in a video message on Twitter. "I want to thank the cast and the crew for making me feel like I'm home like I've been here for years."

Queen Sugar is set to premiere on OWN on June 12.

Rebuking any Tevin Campbell slander from millennials and plotting to write him into an episode of Queen Sugar SOMEHOW. On general principle. pic.twitter.com/mcNCGBnvDv

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— Queen Sugar (@QueenSugarOWN) March 19, 2019

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Lizzo And Missy Elliott Team Up For Hypnotic Single "Tempo"

Lizzo has a new banger. The Detroit artist teamed up with Missy Elliott for her new track, "Tempo" on Wednesday (Mar. 20), and it's bound to shake the table.

The song's theme falls in line with Lizzo's past work; it's a body positive single, paying tribute to thick and curvy girls. After a powerful electric guitar intro, the song erupts into a head-knocking beat. "Slow songs, they for skinny h*es / Can't move all of this here to one of those (Hey) / I'm a thick b***h, I need tempo," she raps on the chorus.

Misdemeanor comes in on the third verse with bad b***h energy, spits controlled bars. "All the thick girls down on the flrrr (On the floor) / Ice on my neck like brrr (Like brrr) / I'm big-boned with nice curves," she raps.

Amid the song's release, Lizzo sat down with Apple Music's Beats 1 to talk about how she and Missy collaborated on the track. "She sent me a memoji of herself singing her verse, that's how I got the verse," she explained. "I got a memoji of Missy like smiling and then she just started rapping, and I was like, 'OMG what the hell' so I had to hook it up to my speaker system. But it wasn't even the actual track, it was like her going along in her studio."

Lizzo is gearing up for the release of her new project, Cuz I Love You, which is slated to drop on Apr. 19. Listen to "Tempo" in the video above.

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