Can You Be Angry If You’re Perceived As a Hoe?
This post stemmed from a rant that Amber Rose made on her Twitter page yesterday. It seems that she has had enough of people labeling her a “Hoe” and decided to speak up. In her rant she says:
“Didn’t really wake up in a good mood today. I’m just sick of being ridiculed. People assuming things without knowing. I’m super nice to everyone I meet. I’m a very caring compassionate person. I don’t deserve to be talked about so negatively. I really hate explaining myself that’s why I stay so quiet but I will say this. I was with my ex for 2 years and now I have a new Love. 2 people, that’s it. If that makes me a whore then so be it. I have never slept with Fabolous, Drake, Chris Brown, Amare, Lebron, Cassidy, ect nor have I ever been a prostitute.”
Here’s my thought, and Amber if you’re reading this, I don’t know you personally, and I mean this without any intent to hurt your feelings. I only want to keep it as real as possible with you and everyone else who may be reading this. Fact of the matter is, our perception is our reality. You’ve based your career out of being arm candy, kissing women in the mouth and prancing around beaches topless, so it’s not hard to believe that people would pass judgement on you. Is it wrong to pass judgement? absolutely! Does it happen all the time? YES! Face it, in this world, you are exactly what you put out there. If you’re constantly seen with a different man and you two are seemingly cozy, people are going to speculate that you two are sleeping together. Famous or not, that’s how things work. Welcome to the world of FAME that you wanted so much. Don’t want people to think you smashed Fabolous? Then how about NOT flirting with him on Twitter.
Amber, I’m sure you’re a sweet girl and no one is disputing that, but this is the life you created for yourself…
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