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Eureka! How To Make A Girl Feel Good

How to Make a Girl Feel GoodBeing a Vixen is about knowing yourself, and that very much includes knowing your body!

Need a quickie during your morning shower? Ready to de-stress after a hard day at work? Been away from your lover for too long? Grab your purse or unlock that private drawer, it’s time to get one of those toys.

As you probably know, not every orgasm requires another human; women have owned sex toys for decades. Call it masturbation or “self-love,” it’s essential that you explore your body and learn to pleasure yourself. Get yours without him or her!

Below is a list of the most popular sex toys for your viewing pleasure:

The Rabbit
If you’re a Sex and The City junkie, you’ve already heard about the wonders of the Rabbit. In its most simplistic form, the bunny ears vibrate on your clit as the dildo piece rotates to hit your g-spot. It’s like an orgasm magnet! Sometimes, the Rabbit comes with rotating beads sealed in the center that will work the opening of your vagina. Or if you’re into anal play, you can order one with an anal extension. Whatever your desire, the Rabbit is a perfect device for intense orgasmic bliss.

The Dildo
Vibrators aside, there are simpler measures for getting a self-induced orgasm. Your standard dildo should hit your g-spot and inspire an orgasm without vibration. Made to look and function like a penis, you simply glide it in and out your vagina until you reach a climax. If you need a little extra motivation, try using your other hand to massage your clit. While the standard dildo is nothing fancy, a little hand power gets the job done.

The Lipstick Vibrator
There are sex toys for everyone, in every setting. The Lipstick Vibrator is for the discreet lady who might want to steal an orgasm in a public. Disguised as a fake tube of lipstick, the Lipstick Vibrator is made to massage your clit and give you a quick quiver. Whether using it under your desk or leaving it visible in your purse, no one will know what you’re up to (unless they’re getting theirs too!).

Wand Massager
Like the camouflage option? The Wand Massager looks like a back massager with a long handle and standard round tip. It vibrates, soothing your pelvic muscles and vaginal walls. However, there are Wand Massagers that take it to the next level with clitoral extensions and ridges on the tip. Consider the easiest way that your body reaches an orgasm and choose the Wand Massager that’s best for you!

Couples Vibrator
While self-pleasure is fun, sex toys don’t have to be an individual sport. Your partner can use all of the above toys on you (or you on them). But even better, there are couples sex toys that are made for you and your honey. While there are strap-on and double-sided dildos (some with vibration capabilities, some not), the We Vibe has become a vibrating bestseller for heterosexual couples. Shaped like a small horseshoe, one side rests on the clit while the other slides into the vagina, leaving plenty of room for penetration. As your man slides in and out, he’ll feel the vibrations, doubling the pleasure for him and you!

While it may be intimidating to walk into an adult store, there are plenty of websites that sell the above sex toys, providing informational guides, non-pornographic video examples, and detailed diagrams. Check out or for more examples. Don’t be afraid to explore!

What’s your favorite sex toy? Or if you’re a toy virgin, which sounds most appealing? Sound off, Vixens!

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Six years ago, Kelly Rowland released her fourth studio album titled Talk a Good Game. The project boasted hit singles like "Kisses Down Low" and the transparent "Dirty Laundry." Now, the Houston native is preparing to release a project that'll surely satisfy fans' patient earbuds.

In an interview with Billboard, Rowland shared her hopes for putting out a new body of work and the pressure that she's encountered since she's been in the studio. "This is by far the longest, most pressure-filled process ever, only because I know what it's supposed to be and I have been so hard on myself. I know it," she said. "And it's the first time I've said it out loud. I've been extremely hard on myself. But it's definitely coming, and I'm more so excited about this project than anything else."

The news follows the recent release of Rowland's "Kelly" track, which was met with critical acclaim in November 2018. In addition to preparing the release of new music, the "Motivation" singer discussed fans' wish for a Destiny's Child reunion. The rumors have been fueled by social media photographs of Rowland with either Beyonce or Michelle or all three, especially during Beyonce's past Coachella performance. But Rowland assures readers that it's not what they think.

"It's so funny. I guess every time people see us together, they just see music but I see sisterhood, and that's what we are and that's what me, her, Michelle [Williams] and Solange and I are. People see us all together, they immediately think music. I'm like, no. Just family." As Rowland previously mentioned Solange, she hopes to one day work with her again.

"I'm a huge fan," she said. "I love her writing and how detailed and particular she is. I always wanted to figure out how the heck she has so many different layers of harmonies when she is constructing these vocals, and it's so complex but simple. It's genius. It's the genius in her genius mind that she has in there." One of the last times the pair collaborated was on Rowland's "Simply Deep" track off her debut solo album of the same name. Solange also penned a few songs off the same project. Fast forward to 2016, and Rowland's vocals were featured on Solange's iconic A Seat at the Table.

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Teyana Taylor aims to keep her hot streak of innovative videos coming thanks to this recent announcement. Taking to Instagram on Wednesday (Jan. 9), the "Gonna Love Me" singer will show adoration to ballroom culture in the visual for "WTP."

Directed by Gregory "Beef" Jones, The Aunties Inc., and Taylor herself, the Harlemite takes viewers on her journey to the expression-filled space where she hopes to rack up 10s across the board from a group of judges. The premise of the video also seems to follow a mockumentary format airing on a fictional network named FEMTV. Alongside Taylor, other men and women get ready to display their talents and confidence on the ballroom floor.

"WTP" is featured on the mother-of-one's sophomore album, K.T.S.E., which was released in June 2018. While the rollout's controversy didn't entirely muddle the excitement behind the project's debut, Taylor said she was sold on the idea that her album would be treated as the biggest out of G.O.O.D. Music's string of releases last year.

"I didn't know ahead of time that there wouldn't be any singles or visuals. But I knew that it was going to be the five-album thing," she said during a HOT 97 interview. "[Kanye] wanted [my album] to be last, he wanted mine to be the biggest. That's the way they sauced it up. I was sold."

The video will debut on Jan. 19. Check out the teaser below.


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Gabe Solis, the ex-husband of Trina Braxton, lost his battle with cancer, Thursday (Dec. 20),  TMZ reports. He was 43.

Solis passed away at his home in Texas, surrounded by friends and family, according to the outlet. No official details have been released about his passing.

Solis had reportedly been keeping his cancer battle private. His death came as a shock to his loved ones. On Friday (Dec. 21), Braxton seemingly mourned the loss of her ex-husband with a cryptic Instagram meme reading, “I need a hug..E bottle of wine.”

The former couple tied the knot in 2003, and appeared together on previous seasons of WEtv’s Braxton Family Values. Despite finalizing their divorce in 2015, Braxton and Solis confronted lingering issues from their marriage during an episode of Iyanla: Fix My Life, earlier in the year.

Braxton has since moved on to a new relationship, but remained friends with Solis.


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