Vixen Chat: ‘Tough Love Miami’s’ Claudia Lopez Talks Top 5 Dating Rules + Balance
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What are your dating 101 tips for your daughter?
What’s funny is that even though she is not of the dating age, I have been kind of molding her. They are like my own little Tough Love boot camp lessons. Besides the obvious, which are to have morals, guys like you to be a lady. I think that men, at the end of the day, are hunters. They like the chase, so if a woman is just going to serve them everything on a platter and give it to them all at once, he won’t want to chase her. I have spoken to so many of my guy friends, and they all agree with me. Of course, we aren’t talking make the guy wait for a whole year, but take it easy. I am really against sex on the first date or even a really intense kiss. This is what sets up the potential to go on a second date, so control yourself.
Okay, so what would be your top five first date rules?
First Rule: Don’t let it get physical at all. I know that at times we have chemistry with our date, but under no circumstance do you let it get physical. Second Rule: Keep it simple. You don’t have to share your whole life story, especially about your ex. They don’t need to know that on a first date. It’s pretty much a conversation about what do I do, what are my aspirations, just very simple nothing too deep. Third Rule: Be careful what you wear. This is the main one for me because I’m a voluptuous woman. I might be sending the wrong signals in the same dress as someone who is thin. It’s okay to be sexy, but don’t put it all out there. Forth Rule: Be a good listener. A lot of times, we are so eager to talk and share, we forget to listen. Fifth Rule: Be open-minded. Girls have a lot of superficial deal breakers. ‘I want a guy who is 6’5 who makes $200,000, or I can’t date him because his eyes are slanted this way.’ Some girls are too superficial. Maybe he is only 5’8”, but are you really going to let a few inches stop you from being happy? So that is absolutely the fifth and most important rule! Be open-minded.