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4 Ways to Bring Out Your Inner and Sexy You-Know-What

Earlier this week, Toni Braxton spoke candidly (again) on Chelsea Lately about dating on the other side of the interracial line. This time, she embarked on an even more shocking (not really) topic: sex with said white man. While Chelsea eagerly persuaded the singer turn up the bedroom heat with her new guy, Toni admitted that she was still dating her ex-hubby and her inner slut (can we say that?) was buried within her locked-down goodies.

"I've gone out on a couple dates with my ex-husband.  But the white guy I'm dating doesn't know.  We [Toni and her white boyfriend] haven't had sex yet.  I've been locked down for 10 years. I'm not comfortable with the slut in me yet.  I'm working on her though."

Right there, it dawned on us! Other Vixens battle with this, too. Several women want to explore their sexual liberation after a relationship or be a healthy serial dating for the pure enjoyment of being single. Can you bring your inner and sexy you-know-what out to play, you ask? Indeed, and here are a few ways to get it done... in a good way!
First, try and try again!

I have so many friends tell me that they're afraid of rejection or they've been hurt before or blah blah blah! VV understands, but we also know that you have to dust yourself off and try again (word to Aaliyah). You were loyal to your ex, great. He did you dirty, we hear you.

Now, it's time to build your confidence up for the next guy and get back to being sexy. Own it! Just because the last guy was trash doesn't mean the next won't realize you're a treasure.
Date abundantly!

How can you know what you like, if you do not know what you don't like? Dating is like looking over a menu. Yes, our age group has quite a small dating pool (once you review your checklist), but there's nothing wrong with grabbing a bite to eat or chatting over coffee.

The extra suggestion? Don't lock in on one guy and don't dat 30 guys in one month. There has to be a healthy balance to your exploration.
Go on sexy dates!

No, a dinner and a movie is not sexy. Hit the strip club together or take a dancing class (this clearly depends on your level of comfortability).

Bringing that sexual energy to the table will help move things along, not straight to the bedroom but you know what we mean. You can be flirty, affectionate and confident in situations like these. Don't be bashful at all. Be you!

Don't be bashful in the bedroom!

With dating comes sex. Whether you've implemented that 30-day rule or you're a on-the-first night kind of girl, sex will eventually come into play.

Our only advice is to, first, use protection (duh!) and, second, be confident. Don't be afraid to unleash your über sexy side. Men, obviously, love sex. If you two are mutually into one another, why not? Now, don't pull out all the stops. Leave a little to the imagination, but don't be shy or virginal either.

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Melody Thornton Provides Power Vocals To Stirring Solo Single "Love Will Return"

There's a romantic and mysterious aura that seeps into Melody Thornton's solo single, "Love Will Return." From the big band production to Thornton's riveting vocals, it's almost shocking that a gem so bright was hiding in plain sight.

The recent release is the lead single for her forthcoming EP expected to be released next year. Formerly a member of the pop group The Pussycat Dolls, Thornton has shown off her singing chops over the years through the group's most popular tracks like "Buttons," "I Don't Need A Man" and her 2012 solo project, POYBL. With "Love Will Return," Thornton pays homage to inspirations like Eartha Kitt and her Arizona roots. Co-producing the track with Eric Zayne, the singer shared with VIBE how cinematic the creative process was.

“The entire evolution of the song was magic,” she explained. “There’s just something spiritual about it. It moves me in a way like no other song I’ve written before.” The track is a strong introduction to her vocal abilities that appeared to be gravely overlooked during her PCD days.

Last week, The Pussycat Dolls reunited without Thornton, leaving many wondering why. "What I want for myself and for my bandmates are for them is to really enjoy their lives," she told Chart Show TV in January when rumors began to surface of a possible reunion. "When I was in the group, I was a kid...I'm primarily a vocalist. Nicole had been signed twice so it only made sense for her to sing the majority of the leads. But then, I kept being asked to wait my turn and it never came– and we only released two albums. So it's this mistaken identity that I've kind of had to unravel. For me, there's really nothing to go back to."

The ladies are all on good terms with Thornton as Nicole Sherzinger and the rest of the ladies wished her well wishes on her solo endeavors. "It just didn't align [with] where she is in her life right now," Sherzinger said. "She's doing a lot and doing her own music and we totally respect and understand and support her."

Nonetheless, we're thrilled about Thornton's new journey.

Listen to "Love Will Return" below.

 

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Ashanti Joins Omarion's Millennium Tour

Our prayers for a female presence on Omarion's Millenium Tour have been answered with one of the most talented singers in R&B.

On Thursday (Dec. 5), Omarion announced singer-songwriter Ashanti as a special guest for the upcoming tour. "So excited to announce that Ashanti will be joining The Millennium Tour lineup!" he said in an Instagram post. The singer announced the follow-up show last week to what was perceived as a B2K reunion tour featuring Mario, Lloyd, Pretty Ricky, Chingy, Bobby Valentino and the Ying Yang Twins earlier this year.

Hailed as The "Millenium Tour 2020," the new bill features Soulja Boy and Sammie, with the Ying Yang Twins, Pretty Ricky and Lloyd returning to the mix. The tour will also include Bow Wow, who has several jams (and an album) with Omarion like "Let Me Hold You" and "Girlfriend."

Before joining the tour, Ashanti was a special guest during Lloyd's performances of their 2004 hit, "Southside." With such a large and memorable discography, fans will be thrilled to hear some of the Grammy-winner's biggest hits like "Foolish," "Only U," and recent releases like "Say Less" featuring Ty Dolla $ign and "Pretty Little Thing" featuring Afro B.

This will more than likely be a another big financial boost to the tour. The inaugural Millennium Tour grossed $6.7 million from its first eight reports, according to Billboard and set a career-high for B2K. They also went on to earn $5 million from three additional dates at The Forum in Inglewood, Calif. (April 13-14), State Farm Arena in Atlanta (April 4-5), and Oracle Arena in Oakland, Calif. (April 12).

 

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Boss Goals: B. Simone Earns $100K In Two Months With Beauty Line

Renaissance woman B. Simone is wrapping up her year in a big way. The comedienne, rapper and businesswoman scored a major win after raking up $100K in sales of her beauty line.

B. Simone Beauty was announced over the summer but has been in the making for over a year. Vegan and cruelty-free, her line supplies colorful lip liners, bold lipsticks, makeup bags and accessories. Simone officially launched a site for her products just two months ago with a plan to make $100K. The goal was met ironically on the last day of November, leaving her speechless.

B. Simone shared the moment in an emotional Instagram post Monday (Dec. 2). "This is bigger than me it has NOTHING to do with me," she captioned the video. "It has EVERYTHING to do with God and showing people Him by the way I act and spread LOVE. Even on every tube of lip gloss it says “FAITH OVER FEAR” on the back! I live by that ... God won’t let you down you just have to believe even when you can’t see the outcome. The sky is the limit when it comes to me I swear I’m a monster and I’ll never quit! Manifestation at its finest ... God favors me because he trusts me.

Simone also opened up about her doubts but continued to have faith in meeting her goal. "I had one more day to meet my goal and I started thinking, 'Maybe you aimed too high! Let’s just do a 100k$ goal for December.'  THAT WAS THE ENEMY y’all !!! When I woke up this is what happened... I do none of this alone I keep God-fearing people around me who love me, believe in me and see my vision. Thank you to my manager, my team, all of you and God. None of this is about money it’s all about walking in your purpose and changing the world around you to a more comfortable better place."

 

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B. Simone has experienced plenty of other wins with her other talents. As XONecole reports, she hosted Will Smith's birthday party, produced and starred in her own hilarious dating show, provided comedic relief on the VH1 series Girls Cruise with Mya, Lil Kim and Chilli, as well as sharing tips on monetizing in the social media space at the Revolt Summit.

Boss goals indeed. Check out B. Simone's stunning beauty line here.

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