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Vixen Chat: Emily B Shares Advice on Finding Style, Talks Chrissy's New Designing Gig

We know (and love) the Emily Bustamante of Love & Hip-Hop. After reading countless interviews about her rocky relationship with Fabolous, we decided to chat with the Virginia native about one of her other first loves: fashion.

She's a rising stylist and designer who is tirelessly creating a fashion line, Emily B, set to be available in fall 2012. Incorporating her personal style and know-how from working as a celebrity stylist, the mommy-of-two is anxious to release the collection despite added weight from her reality star success ("Now that I've put it on TV, it's so much pressure"). Even though this leading lady of the show was headed to taping, she took a few minutes to offer tips in getting a fashionable foot in the designing door and what she tells her daughter about sexual health. -Niki McGloster (@missjournalism)

You're working on your fashion line and have been for some time. What are some words of advice for young ladies trying to follow in your footsteps?
Becoming a stylist, a lot of people think it's easy. It's been a very long road for me; I've been doing this for a very long time. It's easy to be a stylist, but it's harder to be a celebrity stylist because there's not that many celebrities. There's a lot of competition. My main advice would be to just build your portfolio. Start at a small scale, even if you have to get your girlfriend and dress her up, just to show what you're capable of and show your personal vision. Build relationships with photographers and directors. Those are the main keys to getting in the door and getting started.

What advice do you have for a young woman who is trying to find her personal style?
Style is not about money or the brand that you're wearing, it's about how you put it together. That's what fashion is really about. Like, right now I have on a Target t-shirt and leggings and some really cute, high UGG boots. I'm comfortable, I'm stylish at the same time and my shirt was $17 [Laughs], so it doesn't always have to be name brand. You can layer your stuff and mix and match brands to make it look good. Find stuff that fits your body, fits your curves, is comfortable and looks good.

What tips do you have for Chrissy who's going to be helping Jim Jones with Vampire Life?
Vampire Life is a t-shirt brand, and they're doing an outwear line that's separate from Vampire Life. She's helping design the coats and other outerwear. Chrissy has an eye. If you have an eye, a vision and style, you're capable of designing. With her, as long as she has the business side right, she's good. The business side is the toughest part. With me, I know about designing and I know about fashion but I don't know the business part. You really have to educate yourself on the business end of being a designer and being a stylist. It might look cute--you dress people--but at the end of the day, when it's time to get paid, make sure you know your numbers!

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[Laughs] You have to know what your cut is going to be!
Exactly! You have to know how to spend your clients money, too. They're looking to you for advice on not only shopping but how to get value out of their money. A good stylist isn't  someone who takes $10,000 from their client and buys two things. No! [Laughs] You have to know how to get the best deals, how to pull, how to get free things for your client... It's a lot more technical than people think.

Would you encourage rising designers to go to college, take classes or just grab books?
All, of course. You know, I read constantly. I went to vocational high school for fashion design and have been doing this since I was a teenager, and I still don't know everything. You can never have too much information. Definitely educate yourself, read, take a course. To get your degree in fashion design only [takes] two years, so it's never too late.

Definitely. Where are you at in the process of having your line ready for next fall?
It's been a long process, and it was all about getting the business end right. I've had my ideas and sketches forever, and I've constantly had to revamp my sketches because fashions changes with time. Right now, we're in the design process and whatever I have to do to make it happen, I'm doing it. But now that I've put it on TV, it's so much pressure! [Laughs] I'm like, this has to be the hottest thing ever because all these eyes are on me now.

Now, in the first episode you sat with your daughter to discuss the state of yours and Fab's relationship. With World AIDS Day being celebrated yesterday and HIV/AIDS awareness taking place all month, do you talk to her about sex and sexual health?
Absolutely, we have those conversations where we talk about sex before marriage. I try to instill in her that she should wait to have sex until you're married, but we talk about AIDS and any STD. I need to let her know everything that could possibly happen when having sex, [Laughs] so we definitely have those conversations. I even show her pictures! [Laughs] She was like, 'I'm never having sex, Ma!'

[Laughs] That's good! That's what you want.
We've sat down and Google [searched] pictures. STD's don't have a face, and you have to protect yourself. That's something that's very important to me.

Do you feel that you've open up a line of communication where she'll be comfortable telling you when she does start having sex?
Oh yeah. I know deep down in my heart that she won't have a problem telling me anything because we have an open line of communication. I trust, and I love her so much. She knows that I'm going to give her the best advice and it's going to come from my heart.

Tune into VH1 on Mondays at its new time of 8pm EST to take a peek into Emily's world!

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Six years ago, Kelly Rowland released her fourth studio album titled Talk a Good Game. The project boasted hit singles like "Kisses Down Low" and the transparent "Dirty Laundry." Now, the Houston native is preparing to release a project that'll surely satisfy fans' patient earbuds.

In an interview with Billboard, Rowland shared her hopes for putting out a new body of work and the pressure that she's encountered since she's been in the studio. "This is by far the longest, most pressure-filled process ever, only because I know what it's supposed to be and I have been so hard on myself. I know it," she said. "And it's the first time I've said it out loud. I've been extremely hard on myself. But it's definitely coming, and I'm more so excited about this project than anything else."

The news follows the recent release of Rowland's "Kelly" track, which was met with critical acclaim in November 2018. In addition to preparing the release of new music, the "Motivation" singer discussed fans' wish for a Destiny's Child reunion. The rumors have been fueled by social media photographs of Rowland with either Beyonce or Michelle or all three, especially during Beyonce's past Coachella performance. But Rowland assures readers that it's not what they think.

"It's so funny. I guess every time people see us together, they just see music but I see sisterhood, and that's what we are and that's what me, her, Michelle [Williams] and Solange and I are. People see us all together, they immediately think music. I'm like, no. Just family." As Rowland previously mentioned Solange, she hopes to one day work with her again.

"I'm a huge fan," she said. "I love her writing and how detailed and particular she is. I always wanted to figure out how the heck she has so many different layers of harmonies when she is constructing these vocals, and it's so complex but simple. It's genius. It's the genius in her genius mind that she has in there." One of the last times the pair collaborated was on Rowland's "Simply Deep" track off her debut solo album of the same name. Solange also penned a few songs off the same project. Fast forward to 2016, and Rowland's vocals were featured on Solange's iconic A Seat at the Table.

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Teyana Taylor To Pay Homage To Ballroom Culture In "WTP" Video

Teyana Taylor aims to keep her hot streak of innovative videos coming thanks to this recent announcement. Taking to Instagram on Wednesday (Jan. 9), the "Gonna Love Me" singer will show adoration to ballroom culture in the visual for "WTP."

Directed by Gregory "Beef" Jones, The Aunties Inc., and Taylor herself, the Harlemite takes viewers on her journey to the expression-filled space where she hopes to rack up 10s across the board from a group of judges. The premise of the video also seems to follow a mockumentary format airing on a fictional network named FEMTV. Alongside Taylor, other men and women get ready to display their talents and confidence on the ballroom floor.

"WTP" is featured on the mother-of-one's sophomore album, K.T.S.E., which was released in June 2018. While the rollout's controversy didn't entirely muddle the excitement behind the project's debut, Taylor said she was sold on the idea that her album would be treated as the biggest out of G.O.O.D. Music's string of releases last year.

"I didn't know ahead of time that there wouldn't be any singles or visuals. But I knew that it was going to be the five-album thing," she said during a HOT 97 interview. "[Kanye] wanted [my album] to be last, he wanted mine to be the biggest. That's the way they sauced it up. I was sold."

The video will debut on Jan. 19. Check out the teaser below.

 

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Trina Braxton’s Ex-Husband, Gabe Solis, Dies After Battle With Cancer

Gabe Solis, the ex-husband of Trina Braxton, lost his battle with cancer, Thursday (Dec. 20),  TMZ reports. He was 43.

Solis passed away at his home in Texas, surrounded by friends and family, according to the outlet. No official details have been released about his passing.

Solis had reportedly been keeping his cancer battle private. His death came as a shock to his loved ones. On Friday (Dec. 21), Braxton seemingly mourned the loss of her ex-husband with a cryptic Instagram meme reading, “I need a hug..E bottle of wine.”

The former couple tied the knot in 2003, and appeared together on previous seasons of WEtv’s Braxton Family Values. Despite finalizing their divorce in 2015, Braxton and Solis confronted lingering issues from their marriage during an episode of Iyanla: Fix My Life, earlier in the year.

Braxton has since moved on to a new relationship, but remained friends with Solis.

 

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