Are You A Bougie Black Girl?
Yes, I admittedly have succumb to the numerous things that variations of people say. Black girls? Haitian parents? Gay Men? White girls? I've seen it all.
Naturally, Very Smart Brothas--a blog I read religiously--has come up with their own list (where's the video, fellas?) that rivals the myriad of vids, even though it's written. Vixens, do you know a bougie black girl? If you went to an HBCU, I'd say that you damn sure do. Oh, but wait--are you that bougie black girl? See what sayings the intellectually elevated brothas feel make you a bourgeois African American woman. (Ha!)
From VSB--Unless you’ve been hiding under a rock or one of Rick Ross’ breasts for the past month, you’ve undoubtedly seen, read, or heard about “Shit Girls Say” and the dozens of increasingly contrived spin-offs it’s spawned. (Seriously, at this point, I wouldn’t be surprised if went on YouTube and saw “Shit Gay German-Ethiopian Boys Say To Baltimore Strip-Club Bouncers”)
As a friend and I were discussing these videos earlier in the week, she half-jokingly complained that no one made a video about things her demographic — the biracial woman — says. I corrected her, saying that “Shit Bougie Black Girls Say” would definitely be more appropriate for her “Hampton undergrad, Harvard grad”-ass ass.
Her response was predictable. First, she did what every single black person who’s ever been accused of being bougie by anyone at any time always does first: deny the fact that she’s bougie. Then, she denied the fact that bougie black girls even say or do anything “special enough” to warrant an entire video for them.
As you’ll begin to see in the next paragraph, I disagreed.
“Does he own a passport?”
If you’re ever in doubt as to whether a black girl is truly bougie, ask her if she’d date a guy who didn’t own a passport. If she says something normal like “I guess. I mean, I don’t see why not.” she’s probably not. But, if she recoils in fear, breaks out in hives, and starts running in circles while crying and screaming “NONONONONONONONO!!!!!!” you’ve probably found yourself a bougie black girl.
Bougie black girls reading this, can you explain something to me? What is the big deal with the passport? I mean, I understand loving to travel and wanting your potential beau to be able to travel with you, but what’s preventing you from just asking him to get one. Seriously, the conversation would go exactly like this:
“Hey, I want to go to Spain this summer, and I’d like you to come with me. Do you have a passport?”
“No, nubian princess, God of my Earth, but I’d love to make that trip with you, and I can get one.”
(See how easy that was?)
“That’s my favorite Thai restaurant”
For whatever reason, Thai food has catapulted past all other international cuizines as the bougie black girl’s default food of choice, leaving Ethiopian food, Indian food, and p*ssy juice in it’s curry-scented dust.
Perhaps the collective decision to be Thai food philes occurred in one of those mysterious early Saturday morning meetings Delta chapters love to have. If that’s true, it helps to explain why they each have to devote like 30% of their yearly income to Delta dues. They’re not giving back to the main office. They’re putting their money together to fund all these gotdamn Thai restaurants popping up all over the damn place.
Also, note how the bougie black girl says “that’s my favorite” — a linguistic trick letting the listener know that her bougie ass has been to enough Thai restaurants to be able to deem one her favorite.
(Continue reading at Very Smart Brothas...)