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Grow Up! How To Mature Your Style

RihannaYour maturity is directly reflected in your style and each specific style has an age. As you grow and experience more adult-like situations and date (yes, date!), you must find the balance in your personal style and effortlessly pulling off maturity. Just think, you don’t give the guy in Timbs and tall tees a second glance, but you stare (and possibly drool) at the man in a tailored three-piece suit. Well, the same style cues go for us, Vixens! Men would rather see a blouse or a simple, white tank top rather than a Dora the Explorer-printed tee. And don’t some of these young girls dress, well, too grown! The key is balance and age-appropriate threads!

We’re in no way telling you to stomp out your inner child’s likes, but we suggest you incorporate your fashion loves in a mature way. Here’s a few methods to step your style’s age….

Take style cues from fashion magazines and celebs!
That’s why they’re in the media: influence. If you’re under 21 years old, Seventeen and Teen Vogue are the perfect go-to glossies to help you remain age appropriate. However, once you blossom into the drinking, serious dating and career networking age, it’s time to shift your eyes to Vogue, Elle and other publications that can facilitate the style transition. Naturally, celebs can help you upgrade your style’s age too. Whether you’re dressed up or dressed down, these mags and celebs are direct inspiration for keeping your look cute, simple and age appropriate!

Take what you love and age it a bit!
Vixens, I love a t-shirt, but it’s truly about how you rock it. Vintage is definitely on-trend, so try grabbing a few old school shirts from a thrift shop. (Check out Tracee Ellis Ross’ love for vintage tops!)

Throw away the old, snag the new!
You know there's something in your closet that you desperately need to trash. Great, that one pair of jeans from years back still fits, but they have this hideous design on the pocket that's not a trend of today. And trust, it's not about being über trendy, but it's definitely about you looking your best. Take a day to rummage through your collection of threads and ditch the old. Yes, there are memories attached to some things, but create new ones. Refresh and renew! That's a great way to view what you should and should not still be rocking...

Lastly, observe and take style cues from friends!
Do not Single White Female your besties, but definitely peep game. Everyone has a few friends whose style is effortless, mature and completely age-appropriate. (If you don't, find some!) Find out how they learned what works best for them and experiment!

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Miss Peppermint started as a staple in the New York nightlife scene, and after appearing as a contestant on the ninth season of RuPaul's Drag Race, she’s continued to make a name for herself.

Outside of the show, she's traveled the world and is hoping to release her third album, which she hints will be influenced by the '90s, R&B, and neo-soul. She's also planning on re-releasing her debut album, Hardcore Glamour, for its 10-year anniversary.

"I'll be doing a lot in New York this year for World Pride," she explains to Boss Talk's host, J'na Jefferson. Pride takes place throughout June. "The last album I dropped was 2017... I'm excited about that, I'm writing it now. It's just poems, but I'm excited."

Peppermint, who was the first openly transgender contestant on the Emmy Award-winning show, was also the first transgender woman to originate a principal role on Broadway for her role as Pythio in Head Over Heels. 

 

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"On paper, it shouldn't make sense... it's hard to explain what it is," she says of the musical, which combined a loose adaptation of 16th-century piece The Countess of Pembroke's Arcadia with the music of the new wave group, The Go-Go's. It closed in late-2018.

"The better way to explain it now that it's over and closed is 'a revolutionary show about dismantling the patriarchy...'" she says about Head Over Heels. "I knew that they wanted to cast a trans actor... I wanted to put as much as I could into it, and try to do our non-binary siblings well and proud... [the show] became something I really believed in."

Peppermint continues to share her love of performing all over the world and is also an activist, who aims to promote the importance of LGBTQIA representation and advancement. She has worked and supported organizations such as The Point Foundation, which aims to help LGBTQIA students attend college. 

"People are just starting to catch on that having queer voices is essential and inevitable," she says of further representation of LGBTQIA individuals in media and entertainment. She praises Pose creator Ryan Murphy for showcasing trans people of color both in front of the camera and behind-the-scenes.

"Giving [trans people] the power to speak for themselves, rather than slapping the community with stereotypes or archetypes... we're past that," she continues. "We're not in the phase where they're feeling comfortable to be who they are, but I think we're getting close."

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Kush & Splendor: 5 CBD Beauty Products That’ll Take Your Self-Care Routine From 0 To 100

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She adds that CBD’s pain-relieving effects are “far-reaching,” from muscular and joint pains to migraines and arthritis—and even IBS and indigestion.

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All that said, it’s important to note that not all CBD products are created equal. Many brands cashing in on the green beauty wave use hemp seed oil, sometimes referred to as cannabis sativa seed oil, in place of CBD... which doesn’t make them any less great! Hemp seed oil is actually high in antioxidants, amino acids, and omega-3 and -6 fatty acids—all of which are thebomb.com for your skin.

“It’s generally viewed as a superfood and is great for adding nutritional value to your diet,” Ashley Lewis, co-founder of Fleur Marché, told Well and Good last month. “In terms of skin care, it’s known as a powerful moisturizer and skin softener that doesn’t clog pores or contribute to oily skin.”

However, when companies start marketing CBD and hemp oil as one-in-the-same, that’s when things get a bit tricky.

“The biggest issue is that hemp seed oil and CBD are two totally different compounds that come from different parts of the hemp plant, have different makeups, and different benefits,” Lewis added. “Marketing them as the same thing just isn’t accurate and does a disservice to consumers who are expecting certain benefits that they won’t get from hemp seed oil and who are often paying more for what they think is CBD.”

So if you’re looking to benefit from the perks specifically attributed to CBD, make sure you’re reading labels before buying, and don’t be afraid to ask questions. Hell, ask for a product’s test results, while you’re at it. It never hurts to be sure.

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After its release, Two Can Play That Game raked in over $22 million at the box office.

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