Vixen Chat: Mýa Talks New Album ‘K.I.S.S,’ Sex + Fitness


“Mr. Incredible” is my favorite song. It reminds me of a chapter 2 of “My First Night with You.”Considering that it’s V-Day, I have to ask: do you have a “Mr. Incredible” in your life right now?
Aww, Valentine’s Day. I’ll be digitally making K.I.S.S. available worldwide via iTunes today. No “Mr. Incredible” at the moment. Miss Mya is still single.

What would you tell your less experienced self about sex, love and being sexy?
Sex is sex, an act of physical pleasure and exchange, hopefully. Sex is natural, sometimes embraced and often shunned, but it comes with great responsibility. DO NOT get the act of sex and feelings of lust confused with love. DO NOT create pie in the sky expectations because you choose to cross the line. Sex with self is always another option [Laughs].

Love is internal, eternal, infinite and unconditional. True love has no selfish, hidden agenda. Love is patient, accepting and forgiving even when love doesn’t agree. Love can transform the word “sex” into “making love,” when a greater dimension is experienced and when two become one.

Being sexy to me is possessing the full package. The brains, the drive, inner confidence, spiritual foundation, a positive attitude, proceeding through obstacles, making a positive contribution to the world and maintaining a healthy lifestyle.