The Checklist: Qualifications of a Spring and Summer Boo
Unless you're living under the cool shade of a rock, you've realized that the cold weather is breaking and making room for warm, sunny days. Spring and summer are approaching, and with that, men of your interest are sure to follow. Clothes are bound to shed for bikini season and lust begins to suffocate the oxygen.
And this is all fine, as long as your beau meets specific qualifications. Yes, qualifications.
Now, we know. Having a "list" of requirements can land most women in Singleville, but if you're the Vixen we know you can be, you'll be able to make the warm months the epitome of fun while bagging the joint of your interest (benefits included).
Unless you live in New York City, not having a car is a huge no-no. How do you expect to navigate the foreseen great times of the warm seasons without mobile ability? As shallow as it sounds, access to a car and a legit driver's license are a must! If your boo doesn't have at least that, next him and keep looking. (ATTN: do not next him just because he doesn't drive an expensive whip.)
Imagine: laying out on the beach enjoying the ocean breeze and chiseled Adonis walks past. Visual orgasm, right? Exactly! As the clothes shed, your boo's body needs to be red carpet-ready, even if you never walk one. Is your boo a little chunky? Then exercise together. Getting fit for the summer is always fun, so start there and get beach ready!
Any thing can happen at any moment during those beautiful, sunny weekends. Bar hopping? Museum stop? Concert flow? It can all happen at the drop of a dime, and you're boo should be ready and willing. There's always time to stay in and relax, but he at least needs to able to get up and go...
High sex drive
Speaking of getting up and go... The sex should not be wack! This actually is not shallow at all because sexual compatibility is top three traits in a good seasonal relationship (because we said so!).
This is where there should not be a grey area. Make very sure that you know what your role is with this dude. If he's trying to parlay summer bun-ship into a long-term thing, cool. If he'd like to keep you as only one of his 31 flavors, then keep your emotions at bay. Even when it comes to sex, you need to know if you're dealing with a reckless lover or not.
Ultimately, keeping it 100 is the safest way to stay of Adele-esque moments under the blazing sun.
Willing to try new things
Lastly, your dude needs to be able to get into new things; this goes hand-in-hand with spontaneity. To be able to spend time with someone who is smart, can hold conversation and who is willing to experience something he's never done before is priceless. A person like that is sure to make a warmer cuffin' season that much more enjoyable.
What are we missing, Vixens? What other qualifications must your potential boo meet?