What NOT to Discuss on the First Date
Many of us are still riding the Think Like A Man wave, zooming straight to the "serious" questions and faintly hearing wedding bells. But we beg you, Vixens, stop playing the game and tread a little more lightly on a few first date topics that could have him running.
Granted, you may be ready to drop the heavy subjects next to the spaghetti bolognese, but men may run from that. And good, because you won't want to be with him anyway.
However, if you're looking to keep things light and just see how things go, there are certain things to leave outside of that car door he opens for you. Check out the list of things we think you should not discuss on the first date...
Sure, what you do and for whom is basic dating chatter, but to completely unload about how much you hate your chauvinistic boss or your desire to "get the hell outta there" may be too much. Keep it basic unless probed to do otherwise.
We've told you this before, but we'll tell you again: leave the ex talk for when things get serious. If it's the first date, you're just feeling on another out, so don't cloud the fresh air with old smog.
The Material Things
Flashy, much? Even if you really like the things you have, don't rundown a list of everything you own. Your date should like you for YOU, not what you bring to the table materialistically.
Whether you completely love your size or are having a love-hate relationship with the pounds, do not talk about it. Have you ever noticed how uncomfortable men become when the topic of women and weight arises? Never forget that and change the topic.
Ladies, he's not a girl. The fastest way to get a 'check please' is to drum up an article from Cosmo or Vogue. Celebrity gossip or other things you dish to your inner circle should be left off the first date table.
Vixens, what other things should not be discussed on the first date?