Want That Old Thing Back? 5 Ways to Get Back With Your Ex


2. Understand why you want to get back together?
Be  honest with yourself about why you want to get back together. Is it because it’s been a few months and you haven’t found someone new?  Is it because you’re afraid you won’t find someone else with XYZ criteria? Is it because it was familiar and comfortable and you fear the unknown? Make sure you’re doing it for the right reasons, lest you find yourself cycling through unhealthy relationship after unhealthy relationship and repeating the same behaviors with different partners.