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22 Last Minute New Years Resolutions Every Woman Should Make


2014 could be your year for fulfillment, happiness and prosperity. As we begin prepping for a new year and a second chance, here are a few more resolutions every woman should be adding to the list.

1. Start feeling comfortable with less makeup. Embrace your natural state more than you did last year.


2. Stop feeling guilty every time you eat something bad or hazardous to your diet. Be disciplined but know that it's okay to live a little!


3. You know that little booklet that allows you to travel internationally? Yea, get one.

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4. Limit down on reality shows. Have you read as much as you should have in 2013?


5. Stop feeling pressured into attending every party and social event. Feel comfortable with staying in or saying "no" more.


6. Write down your career goals and personal experiences. Keep a journal or blog of it.


7. Start giving the nice guys a chance. Revisit your "list" and make some alterations to your requirements of the perfect guy. Perhaps it's time to open your eyes and expand your horizons to the ones who typically wouldn't fit your type. You just never know, so stop limiting yourself.

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8. Pay it forward by giving back, volunteering or assisting someone in need. Volunteer at a local hospital, join an organization. Do something that genuinely gets you in the habit of helping others.


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9. In fact, stop living your life on Instagram. Cut out the whole "look what I'm doing" mentality.



10. Throw your phone in your bag or put it away when you're out living life. Engage in the world around you. Meet new people, strike up meaningful conversations and refrain from checking in on your social media accounts.


11. Do more activities solo dolo. Create a "me" day once a week for you to treat yourself to the movies, a play, spa, cooking class or dinner for one! Enjoy quality time with you.


12. Develop a stress relieving method. Whether you adopt meditation, or attend yoga classes—make it a goal to master the art of clearing your mind from the day to day noise.


13. Make one extremely courageous decision per week. Try something as big as sky diving, and as small as talking to your boss about a promotion.



14. Avoid men who one word text you back.

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15. Start forgiving and cleaning your heart from any bad breakups or resentment that you've held onto in the past.


16. Do more things you normally talk yourself out of doing.


17. Retire the "fake" drunk texting your ex after a wild night move. Either let it go, or work it out with him.



18. If you're miserable at a job, leave it. Simple as that. Money will come, and closing one door will open others. Trust yourself, have faith and do what makes you happy.


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19. Reach out to an old friend or a relative and check in on them. Don't use twitter or Facebook, but opt for a pleasant phone call, a friendly text or a meetup. Let people know on a daily basis that you care and you're thinking about them despite all that is going on in your own world.


20. If you're attracted to a guy, introduce yourself. Be bold!


21. Cook more! Buy a recipe book and experiment with one new meal per week.


22. Be comfortable and confident in yourself and decisions. Stop looking for validation and second opinions.

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In excerpts to People Wednesday (Nov. 6), Robyn Crawford presents a strong bond between the two in her new memoir, A Song For You: My Life With Whitney Houston. The singer and Crawford met in their youth while working at a summer camp in East Orange, New Jersey. From there, their friendship blossomed into something more romantic. With homophobia running rampant in the 80s, Crawford says they never looked at labels but enjoyed the experiences they shared together.

“We never talked about labels, like lesbian or gay,” writes Crawford. “We just lived our lives and I hoped it could go on that way forever.”

As their journey continued, Whitney's star began to rise which put allegedly put their romance on ice. “She said we shouldn’t be physical anymore,” writes Crawford. "Because it would make our journey even more difficult. She said if people find out about us, they would use this against us....and back in the ’80s, that’s how it felt. I kept it safe. I found comfort in my silence.”

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But Crawford is finally ready to tell her own story while "lifting" Houston's legacy.

“I wanted to lift her legacy, give her respect and share the story of who she was before the fame, and in that, to embrace our friendship,” she tells People. "I'd come to the point where I felt the need to stand up for our friendship. And I felt an urgency to stand up and share the woman behind the incredible talent."

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"My husband Zackariah Darring and I are so happy to announce that we are expecting our new bundle of joy!" she wrote on Instagram. "We are excited to welcome the 10th addition to our beautiful family."

The vocalist continued to state that fans can follow her pregnancy journey on her YouTube series The Keke Show where she gives an intimate look at how she balances her career and motherhood.


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My husband Zackariah Darring and I are so happy to announce that we are expecting our new bundle of joy! We are excited to welcome the 10th addition to our beautiful family. Stay tuned for the release date & information for my new YouTube Series “The Keke Show” where you will see me balancing Wife, Mommy and Artist!!! Trust me.. it’s never a dull moment with my family. Love ya sugars💋💋💋 photo credit: @keever_west Styled/Designed by: @keever_west Asst: @freddyoart

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