12 Reasons J. Cole is the Perfect Valentine [Plus ‘She Knows’ Video Premiere]

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J Cole

He Encourages Self Love

“Love yourself, girl, or nobody will.
Oh, you a woman? I don’t know how you deal.
With all the pressure to look impressive and go out in heels. I feel for you.

Killing yourself to find a man that’ll kill for you.
You wake up, put makeup on.

Stare in the mirror but its clear that you can’t face what’s wrong.
No need to fix what God already put his paint brush on.
Your roommate yelling, ‘Why you gotta take so long?'”

-Crooked Smile

While he can’t always relate to our problems, he always reminds women that he feels for them. Some men refer to us as b*tches or hoes, but J. Cole just wants us to love ourselves.