Mans Proposal
15 News

Alabama Man Provides Explanation Of Police Standoff In Viral Wedding Proposal Video

Yea, we still don't get it. 

Over the weekend, the wedding proposal of Alabama native Daiwon McPherson to his girlfriend Shawna Blackmon caught the attention of many when a portion of the event featured a standoff with police. After viewers had believed his approach was an insensitive view on police brutality, McPherson provided an offputting explanation for his actions.

An avid member of the bike community in Mobile, McPherson teamed up with the police to stage a fake standoff with his girlfriend unaware of what was going on. With the help of his biker friends, McPherson canceled dinner plans with his girlfriend of five years to attend a bike event. With the aid of his buddies, Blackmon was informed that McPherson engaged in illegal bike activity and sped away from the police with a loaded gun. After meeting McPherson at the gas station, Blackman was met with police officers armed with Tasers. As she attempted to calm down the "situation," McPherson pulled out a ring.

McPherson says the plan was in route for a long time and made sure everyone was in on it, minus Blackmon. "She knows my every move- I can never surprise her," he told AL.com Sunday (Dec. 11). "She always told me when I proposed to make sure she looked nice. She just got her hair done... her nails done," McPherson said. "Nobody will be expecting this tonight!" Overall, McPherson said the stunt was to strengthen the relationship between the biker community and the police. "I really wanted to bring the bike life and the police together," he said. "I can't believe I actually pulled this off."

While planning the stunt might have done the job, the intersection it plays between himself and Blackmon is a headscratcher. Nonetheless, Blackmon was happy with the entire situation. "I appreciate the way he did it," she said. "Here we are, ending the year engaged!"

He also provided a video on Facebook, by way of Blackmon's account, to share "behind the scenes" moments. The video includes his meeting with Mobile police, irritating his fiancé with annoying banter, set over the J.Cole's "Folding Clothes" from his latest album, 4 Your Eyez Only.

McPherson isn't the first person to abuse police powers for attention. A man from Romania staged a fake police robbery before proposing to his girlfriend in August. After the woman was thrown on the floor by a masked man, she was then pulled from the ground and led to the back of her car where her boyfriend stayed on one knee with guns drawn at his face.

Whatever makes you happy right?

From the Web

More on Vibe

Getty Images

Tory Lanez’s Rep Denies That He Was Deported Back To Canada

Despite rumors to the contrary, Tory Lanez has not been deported back to Canada. Lanez has been quarantining with family in Florida, a rep for the 28-year-old recording artist told VIBE in a statement on Tuesday (Aug. 4).

“Tory has not been deported and is self-quarantining with his family in Florida. This is a perfect example of false information being spread regarding this case, his whereabouts and his character.”

Reports claimed that Lanez was deported amid accusations that he shot Megan Thee Stallion last month. Lanez, whose birth name is Daystar Peterson, has yet to speak publicly about the incident.

Megan confirmed that she was shot in both feet but did not reveal the shooter’s identity. She did however make it clear that the crime committed against her was “done with the intention to physically harm me.”

According to the Los Angeles Sheriff's Department's inmate records, Lanez was arrested on July 12 at 4:40 a.m., and later released on $35,000 bond. His court date is scheduled for October 13.

Continue Reading
Chip Somodevilla/Getty Images

Black Family Handcuffed And Held At Gunpoint By Colorado Police

Officers from the Aurora Police Department racially profiled, handcuffed and detained an innocent Black family at gun point after allegedly mistaking their SUV for a stolen motorcycle. The Aurora Police Department issued an apology on Monday (Aug. 3) as video of the traumatic incident circulated the web.

Brittany Gilliam was taking her 6-year-old daughter, 12-year-old sister, and 14 and 17-year-old nieces to get their nails done on Sunday (Aug. 2), when police pulled up behind them with weapons drawn and demanded that they get out of the car. Video footage shows Gilliam and the girls on the ground in handcuffs. The children are heard screaming and crying during the incident.

Aurora PD terrorized a Black family at gun point after they "mistook" their car for a stolen one.

They had no reason to run the plate in the first place. This is racial profiling.pic.twitter.com/uvJz4q9haE

— A Black Socialist 🌹🏴‍☠️ (@SonOfAssata) August 4, 2020

Police allege that Gilliam’s car matched the description and license plate of a stolen vehicle. Her vehicle had been stolen in February but was found and returned by police within a day. In an interview with CNN, Gilliam stated that she offered to show cops her registration and insurance paperwork to prove that the car was not stolen.

APD released a statement explaining the apparent mix up. “We first want to offer our apologies to the family involved in a police stop of their vehicle yesterday, “the department said detailing how police were “notified of a stolen vehicle” in the area and found Gilliam’s vehicle matched the license plate number and the vehicle description. “The people in the car were ordered out onto the ground, and some were placed in handcuffs. Shortly after that, Officers determined that the car was not stolen.

“There is a stolen vehicle with the same plate information, but from a different state,” the statement continues. “The confusion may have been due, in part, to the fact that the stopped car was reported stolen earlier in the year. After realizing the mistake, officers immediately unhand cuffed everyone involved, explained what happened and apologized. An internal investigation has been opened, and an examination of training and procedures is underway.”

APD’s newly-appointed police Chief Vanessa Wilson said that she had been in contact with the family to personally apologize. “I have called (Gilliam's) family to apologize and to offer any help we can provide, especially for the children who may have been traumatized by yesterday's events. I have reached out to our victim advocates so we can offer age-appropriate therapy that the city will cover.”

The department has come under fire for racial profiling, excessive force and police brutality, most notably after the death of Elijah McClain, a 23-year-old massage therapist who died after an encounter with police last year while he was walking home from the store. McClain was placed in two chokeholds after police confronted him. Officer body cam footage recorded McClain telling the officers that he couldn’t breathe. He later suffered cardiac arrest and died three days after the fatal run-in. In contrast, Colorado police safely apprehended white  gunman James Holmes after he brutally murdered a dozen people at an Aurora movie theater in 2012.

More than a full year after McClain’s death, the case is being re-examined amid ongoing demands for justice and an online petition that has received more than 4.9 million signatures and counting. In June, four Aurora police officers were fired after photos surfaced of them mocking the deadly chokehold used on McClain.

Continue Reading
Scott Olson/Getty Images

Michelle Obama Interviews Barack Obama For First Episode Of New Podcast

Michelle Obama kicked off her podcast this week with a very special guest. The former first lady welcomed her husband, Barack Obama, for a lengthy discussion about their childhood, as it relates to race and class, experiences that shaped their “notion of community,” and more.

Barack tweeted a photo from the podcast on Thursday (July 29) with the caption,. “Michelle and I have spent a lot of time together these past few months. We’ve had a lot of good talks — and this one’s up there with the best.”

Michelle and I have spent a lot of time together these past few months. We’ve had a lot of good talks—and this one’s up there with the best. Take a listen to the very first episode of Michelle’s podcast: https://t.co/JEaVgT6GPC. pic.twitter.com/oRn1figrRK

— Barack Obama (@BarackObama) July 29, 2020

The podcast aims to give listeners deeper insight into Mrs. Obama's life. “I spent a lot of time thinking, talking with friends and family,” she explained of her life after the White House. “Really just being, if you know what I mean. I reflected back on my time in the White House of course, but I went even deeper. I looked back at the whole arc of my life.

“In this first season, you’ll be hearing me talk with some of the people I’m closest with — my mom…my brothers…friends..colleagues. And I wanted to start at the most basic level. In these episodes, we’ll be discussing the relationships that make us who we are. Sometimes that might be as personal as our relationship with ourselves or how we navigate our health and our bodies at various points in our lives,” said Mrs. Obama. “In other episodes we’ll be talking about what the challenges and the joys of being a parent or a spouse…the growth we gain from leaning on colleagues and mentors…the friends that help us sort through the toughest times.”

Click here to listen to the first episode of The Michelle Obama Podcast.

Continue Reading

Top Stories