Warmer weather brings the end of cuffing season, and as the weather changes, so do your interests. All relationships formed in autumn aren’t built to last, but dropping that winter boo can be extremely difficult.
With the change of season, it’s natural to want to stay out as longer and be free, which may present problems in a relationship. So, ending the winter romance is not only inevitable, it’s necessary. For guys, ridding themselves of commitment alleviates the dreadful text arguments about their whereabouts, and ladies can appreciate the freedom of wearing whatever they want without someone questioning their sudden desire to show more skin.
Just like leaving a job, the key to dropping the winter boo involves a clean break-up as well as a thorough exit strategy. VIBE Vixen gives you tips to make breaking up as easy as 1, 2, 3.
1. Avoid Communication
The easiest way to drop the winter baggage is to simply avoid calls and text messages. While it’s not the nicest solution, it gets the job done without questions and conversations. Sometimes no communication is the best solution so everyone can move on.
2. Get Busy
If you want to be single, act single. Fill your calendar with spring plans and go out to mingle. If you’re never around and always busy, eventually your boo should get the hint that you are no longer interested and don’t have time.
3. Reconnect with Old Friends
You’ve spent all winter at home with your winter fling and lost contact with some of your closest friends and associates. Call them up and devote your time to reconnecting and hanging out with them. Eventually, your girl/guy will see that your priorities have changed and begin to do the same.