We’ve all been there, teary eyed and enraged after finding out our man has been unfaithful. The first thing we think of is REVENGE. But what happens after the deed is done? A woman scorned is a dangerous woman to mess with. So will you be satisfied with an affair for an affair?
Are you married?
Dealing with infidelity in marriage is an entirely different animal. Remember those vows of faithfulness your husband took apply to you as well. A revenge romp may not make you feel better and further complicate the marriage especially if reconciliation is an option.
A roll in the sack with a one night stand may be satisfying but when the sun comes up so does the guilt. After giving him a taste of his own medicine, will you be left with a bad taste?
Ah, the biggest question yet. On one hand, you want to even the score and hurt him the way you were hurt. On the other hand, telling him can cause irreparable damage to the relationship. Women are usually more forgiving of infidelity than men. Be prepared for the worse.
Some women feel empowered after exacting revenge on their partner. But if the relationship falls apart after your tryst you have to decide if getting even was worth it.