From UPTOWN–Glossy magazines proclaim 1,001 ways to get him to notice you: 11 Ways to Look Even Hotter Naked, 7 Sexts That Will Crank Up His Lust, 9 Hairstyles He Thinks Are Sexy, 6 Things Not To Wear On A First Date.
There are nuggets of truth in all of them. As a professional dating coach and matchmaker, I’ve conducted years of extensive research into the dynamics of dating and have seen that for every specific taste, there’s a suitable pairing. But before finding a perfect match, there’s a first connection. Even getting to that point sounds daunting, but it really just boils down to the basics – especially the ones that are so simple, women forget about them.
Trust me, it’s not rocket science. Next time you’ve met someone you like, here are seven easy, but underestimated tips for getting and keeping him focused on you.
If you want to be attractive to a man, have something going for yourself. Whether it’s a career and an active social life (friends, healthy lifestyle, and travel), people are naturally attracted to others who are doing something. Once you start dating, it’s very important to maintain the active social life you had and not let the excitement of a new guy interfere with your already scheduled plans.
Tip 2: Smile
No one wants to be around someone who always complains about life, work or family. Be positive and beam. Smiling is the most powerful and most overlooked technique because 1) it is an invitation for a man to approach you and 2) men have a need to make women happy. So when you show him your pearly whites, it’s confirmation that he has the ability to make you happy and this makes him feel like a champion.
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